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Kingchuksero: 1:52pm On May 31
Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

This is why you wife should catch you cheating during Courtship or relationship before marriage.
ghettochild(m): 1:54pm On May 31
Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
Just tell her u touch someone that positive n u became paranoid thinking u could be infected n that’s why u are using it.
Shalommy(f): 2:42pm On May 31
AngelicBeing:
Hian, like seriously, you are not going to Heaven again for posting this comment, let me cancel your name from the of Heaven, hahaha πŸ˜‚
ChaiiiiπŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜€.. Go alone, i no want!

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Brilliancepower: 3:04pm On May 31
Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

You still get mind to provoke?πŸ™„πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ And if he doesn't choose his/er words carefully, what you gonna do about it? Infact, I suspect you have ed the virusπŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ‡πŸ˜‚

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AngelicBeing: 3:38pm On May 31
Shalommy:
ChaiiiiπŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜€.. Go alone, i no want!
LoL, l have cancel your name already from the of Heaven, hahaha 🀣

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Mrexcell(m): 4:26pm On May 31
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.



Oga hope u have properly examined urself ur body might be a reservoir of all manner of STDs? Who in his or her right mind still flirt around these days without any form of protection? I really pity ur innocent and loyal wife.
Joybeau: 4:38pm On May 31
Bonjovi13:


The worst thing a person can do is to lie in an anonymous platform yet is desirous of getting the correct advice.

Who is a child here, you fingered a girl with a finger that doesn't have a cut and you are apprehensive that you could have been exposed to HIV. Yeah right?

Same way you can't lie smartly is the same way you can't hide anything smartly.

Bro I think you need to start it that you may be not be the smartest Alec.

You're the only one who saw what he did here.
Does he think everyone is daft?
Greattha: 5:43pm On May 31
Hmm tiri gbosa for Odogwu Diokpa.

NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
Love800(m): 6:41pm On May 31
Don Cooker!

Lol.
IceColdVeins:
simple or your barber forgot to sterilize the clippers used to cut your hair and you couldnt let any harm befall your loved ones due to your own carelessness, so you had to take medical precautions.
Na why i like myself, I will always cook up a valid excuse
Love800(m): 6:42pm On May 31
Why did you say dis?
LegacyB:
Hope she forgives you. But to tell you the truth cos I was also guilty b4. Stay away from side chicks , it always never ends well.
Love800(m): 6:46pm On May 31
Nothing like PEP drug!

Are you for real?
samuelson06:



Stop this ignorance. There's nothing like PEP drug. What you took is antibiotics and everyone knows what drugs are antibiotics. So, go tell your wife something else.
samuelson06(m): 7:02pm On May 31
Love800:
Nothing like PEP drug!

Are you for real?

You can be given something after having unprotected sex but telling me you got something that's clearly labeled "PEP," I strongly doubt.
Love800(m): 7:16pm On May 31
Neither are you a saint!

So you want to tell me before you got married that you didnt love two men at a time!

Haven't you collected a gift from another man who is not your husband, knowing fully well that this gift has some hidden/lust intentions behind it, but still yet you took it. You thought its all about sex!

Cheating comes in different forms!

NotOfThisWorld:
A girl you've known for some time. Smh. Some of you married Nigerian men are just so damn shameless. You'll be married yet you'll be chasing after single women like hungry dogs. I've so many of you in my dm on a daily on fb and keep blocking and blocking and blocking. One idiot said he would leave his wife and two daughters for me in his first message. I'll be here all day if I start recalling all the nonsense I've read. Good thing I'm not in Nigeria, but if not me, they will still cheat with ladies in Nigeria. Shame on that girl for getting involved with you knowing fully well that you're married. It's your wives I feel sorry for. Arrant nonsense.
lonelygem(m): 7:29pm On May 31
Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Rich and valuable based on your perception. His wealth might have attracted value to him and sadly, the value the woman reserved for fidelity was beyond she had for his wealth..

That is not value. Every man has a price.
A valuable person is indispensable regardless..
Queenserah1(f): 8:58pm On May 31
faithfull18:
Cheating is costly, stay faithful.



Them no dey hear say nothing dey outside
LegacyB: 9:06pm On May 31
Love800:
Why did you say dis?
Ask a 100 men who are sincere side chick know you’re in there for the temporary. It’s just transactional. That would have been okay sef if it’s just that. If they now develop feelings for you, you’re in deeper trouble.
PROPEACE: 9:56pm On May 31
Paragonpric:
Lol grin you fit believe anything way you won believe. But if you marry woman way get money and come still get self worth then you'll understand what am saying. Cheat on such women and she'll dump your sorry ass.
Senator Natasha married thrice, she and your aunty may end up competing for first to reach six, like the Samaritan woman in the bible. Samaritan women of our time!
Johnn74: 10:50pm On May 31
undecided
Equitty15(m): 11:31pm On May 31
Agbegbaorogboye:

Which kind pikin be dis? Your wife is already screaming and shouting at you because she saw drugs in your bag and you also ran to the internet to seek advice. What happened to telling her you bought it for a friend? What about telling her it was distributed in your office by some HIV agency that came for a seminar? If you do not know how to handle your woman but run around anytime she screams at you, I suggest you wear the skirts and hand over all your tros to her.

Spits
lwkmd
OgaTheTop2: 1:47am On Jun 01
xareal:
I swear bro, I experience am last year, condom tear.. I wan die grin grin grin, any small headache heart go dey cut.. The greatest mistake I made was searching early signs of hiv on tiktok, tiktok doctors/content creators wan kill me with high bp
Na anxiety.. I can relate. cheesy
OgaTheTop2: 1:53am On Jun 01
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
My best read on this topic. Well said bru...
lendahand(m): 8:37am On Jun 01
Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much undecided

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

cheating is a no no for some people including me. No matter how much valuable you present yourself to be, I can't share wife with any other person. It will end the day I find out. I also make efforts not to do same to her. She loves me so much but resents cheating even much more.
samuelson06(m): 10:12am On Jun 01
Ofokajeremy:
Since you need an advice, just tell her t's a prank so you could see her reaction and at the same time, you ask her to follow you for HIV test. However please don't do that again please. Jesus Christ didn't condemn the Adulterous woman but rather he asked her to go home and sin no more .

This is the problem with most of you here. You are always quick to dish adviceβ€”not minding whether someone is telling you lies. The person here is seriously telling a lie, yet you guys are advising him up and down. There's no drug labeled PEP that you and I can easily know it's for HIV prevention after being exposed to it. What's usually istered to people are antibiotics which can counter the effect of your exposure. Nobody can know any specific drug that's for PEP. So, he's wife, if at all he's a man and married did not see any drug labeled PEP on it.
Debruyne71: 2:50pm On Jun 01
Just say someone coughed on you at work and it entered your eyes. A colleague told you he had hiv and you were so scared.
Ishilove: 4:21pm On Jun 01
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
Writing crap as usual πŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ
MrPresident1: 6:37pm On Jun 01
Ishilove:

Writing crap as usual πŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ

He did not wrote crap. He wrote facts. Are you a Roman?
Ishilove: 6:48pm On Jun 01
MrPresident1:


He did not wrote crap. He wrote facts. Are you a Roman?
He wrote crap jare. I'm not a Roman, you know that
Mariangeles(f): 7:22pm On Jun 01
Ishilove:

Writing crap as usual πŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦πŸΏβ€β™‚οΈ

Crap well put together.


Ishilove:

He wrote crap jare. I'm not a Roman, you know that


What did he mean by "are you Roman"?
E be like say I no follow. πŸ‘€
Ishilove: 12:20am On Jun 02
Mariangeles:


Crap well put together.
Imagine feaces wrapped inside a pretty, frilly wrapper? Attractive on the outside, but the contents are still dung. He claims he is not an advocate of infidelity but he is still berating the fella for being afraid of the threat of divorce. So many things wrong with that post which I don't have the power to point out.


What did he mean by "are you Roman"?
E be like say I no follow. πŸ‘€
Just leave me and MrPresident1. We have an 'understanding' πŸ˜…
Love800(m): 5:13am On Jun 02
Thanks so much.
samuelson06:


You can be given something after having unprotected sex but telling me you got something that's clearly labeled "PEP," I strongly doubt.
Love800(m): 5:18am On Jun 02
Wow.

Thanks.

But i want to know what will happen if they start developing feelings?
LegacyB:

Ask a 100 men who are sincere side chick know you’re in there for the temporary. It’s just transactional. That would have been okay sef if it’s just that. If they now develop feelings for you, you’re in deeper trouble.

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