| Ifeanyiifeko: 4:54pm On May 30 |
OgThanos:
Simply tell her you had a cut while at the barbing saloon with a public clipper..
Tell her the barber said your clipper wasn't sharp enough for the trimming and he cut you in the process of barbing your hair.. 
Wahalla go dey where when u neva cut ur hair for like one week 😁. Especially if she is literate to know that PEP is only quite successful, when taken within 3days.
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| Sike(m): 4:55pm On May 30 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.
How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.
You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?
Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.
So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.
If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.
Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.
As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.
To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.
If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
😂😂😂 baaaaaastd!
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| johnog4sure: 4:57pm On May 30 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.
How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.
You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?
Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.
So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.
If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.
Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.
As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.
To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.
If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
I will handover the presidency to you when retire from married-and-chopping-steady office. Me I don't even explain I just deny it, if she like let her believe, if she like make she walk out. Infact my wife is now an expert in defending me, that's how good I have become. Today pussy dey even hungry me and a shorty already given me 3 calls, but na my red just save the Carnage!
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| NotOfThisWorld(f): 4:57pm On May 30 |
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A girl you've known for some time. Smh. Some of you married Nigerian men are just so damn shameless. You'll be married yet you'll be chasing after single women like hungry dogs. I've so many of you in my dm on a daily on fb and keep blocking and blocking and blocking. One idiot said he would leave his wife and two daughters for me in his first message. I'll be here all day if I start recalling all the nonsense I've read. Good thing I'm not in Nigeria, but if not me, they will still cheat with ladies in Nigeria. Shame on that girl for getting involved with you knowing fully well that you're married. It's your wives I feel sorry for. Arrant nonsense.
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| nams77: 5:01pm On May 30 |
Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much
The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.
My nigga 
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| 12345baba(m): 5:02pm On May 30 |
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Divorce dey fear u?
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| nams77: 5:02pm On May 30 |
Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.
Her loss.
Nature abhors vacuum. Someone will replace las las
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| bukatyne(f): 5:04pm On May 30 |
DrAkpa:
And she is dating married men now I believe
And?
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| pocohantas(f): 5:08pm On May 30 |
cococandy:
Don’t speak for women. I have news for you, being single or a single mother is not the worst thing that can happen to a woman. Many single women are better off than those living with their enemies in the name of husband. Who needs enemies when your husband is the number one person putting your heart and health at risk?
If my husband can leave me for cheating on him, I too can leave him for the same offense . Do you think this is a gotcha question? Maybe you’re used to women who are scared of being divorced that you think this kind of question will trip them up. You get the energy you give!
We are either in an open marriage or we’re not. It can’t be open on his end and closed on mine.
Women are not naturally created to be on the receiving end of heartache and abuse. I don’t know who lied to you all but you need to start unlearning all that BS.
If you don’t like my response, kiss a lit dynamite 😘
Play am for speaker...🔊🔊🔊🔊
Ndi Endurance. 
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| OgThanos: 5:09pm On May 30 |
Ifeanyiifeko:
Wahalla go dey where when u neva cut ur hair for like one week 😁. Especially if she is literate to know that PEP is only quite successful, when taken within 3days.
Yes
Unless he hasn't cut his hair for a while..
If his wife brought up the topic when he was not at home.. he'll just quickly make a deal with a barber..
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| descarado: 5:14pm On May 30 |
Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.
You may have to choose your words carefully
HIV is no longer a threat.
There are some deadly stds worst than hiv that you will prefer to have hiv
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| Saybal(m): 5:15pm On May 30 |
Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.
very soon you will find out why she left
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| Wannabenz: 5:16pm On May 30 |
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Na you dey marry her abi na she dey marry you?
Your answer to the above determines where the marriage is heading to...as for me, there's nothing to worry about.
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| richie240: 5:17pm On May 30 |
Females and brash reasonings.
When d woman divorces him finish, sebi na u and your husband go help her feed the children, pay house rent and pay their school fees - amongst other responsibilities - abi??
Keep playing!
Shalommy:
Chaiii..guyz with lies! Op, just it that you have the virus simple. Pls, divorce that innocent woman. Carry your cross in PEACE!
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| Ciromaudtin(m): 5:18pm On May 30 |
Shalommy:
Chaiii..guyz with lies! Op, just it that you have the virus simple. Pls, divorce that innocent woman. Carry your cross in PEACE!
NO SECOND CHANCE ?
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| Mosco100(m): 5:25pm On May 30 |
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Come out clean to your wife. Repent. Confess to her. Tell her everything, including the identity of the girl. Do it now, or you'll regret later.
Don't ask for forgiveness (cos you don't deserve it). Just repent. Confess to her. Be sorry for your folly. Her's is the decision to make.
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| richie240: 5:25pm On May 30 |
Agreed, he's a fuul for disappointing his wife his creator!
So what will you do in her place!??
Las-las u use hot-bodi divorce your husband and eventually become a side chick to a married man. Na that time u go know say u don jump from frying pan to fire!
Peakdesign23:
You're very foolish for hurting her.
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| advanceDNA: 5:26pm On May 30 |
NotOfThisWorld:
A girl you've known for some time. Smh. Some of you married Nigerian men are just so damn shameless. You'll be married yet you'll be chasing after single women like hungry dogs. I've so many of you in my dm on a daily on fb and keep blocking and blocking and blocking. One idiot said he would leave his wife and two daughters for me in his first message. I'll be here all day if I start recalling all the nonsense I've read. Good thing I'm not in Nigeria, but if not me, they will still cheat with ladies in Nigeria. Shame on that girl for getting involved with you knowing fully well that you're married. It's your wives I feel sorry for. Arrant nonsense.
Madam calm down....the wife too is cheating..
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| yemmit90: 5:27pm On May 30 |
cococandy:
Don’t speak for women. I have news for you, being single or a single mother is not the worst thing that can happen to a woman. Many single women are better off than those living with their enemies in the name of husband. Who needs enemies when your husband is the number one person putting your heart and health at risk?
If my husband can leave me for cheating on him, I too can leave him for the same offense . Do you think this is a gotcha question? Maybe you’re used to women who are scared of being divorced that you think this kind of question will trip them up. You get the energy you give!
We are either in an open marriage or we’re not. It can’t be open on his end and closed on mine.
Women are not naturally created to be on the receiving end of heartache and abuse. I don’t know who lied to you all but you need to start unlearning all that BS.
If you don’t like my response, kiss a lit dynamite 😘
That is what I was saying in my previous post, since you've chose to compete with men, just don't come and complain later that men don't want to settle with single mothers or start sleeping with another women's husbands that chose to keep their homes.
Yes, being a single mother is not the end of the world but leaving your husband because he cheated is not what a natural woman should do. What if the person you marry later cheat too, will you still leave him and go to another man? Besides, no good women who are single mothers happy with their situation.
We should not encourage women to leave their homes (except for domestic violence or abuse) because alot of young women can be influence by what we posted on social medias. The roads to find happiness again is very brutal and not smiling at all to the single mothers, especially the ones with kids.
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| cococandy(f): 5:28pm On May 30 |
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| VaginaAcademic: 5:29pm On May 30 |
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Imagine she did this to you. Btw the babe no suck your deek
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| dontbothermuch: 5:29pm On May 30 |
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You lied it was for your asthma, she has googled it. So she will tell you to take her to the pharmacy that prescribed it for you.
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| Pupanchy(f): 5:29pm On May 30 |
Bro accept your faith cos she will soon find out from her friends or relatives and l would advice you prepared for a battle called divorce as you won't find it easy the way I'm seeing you right from you, l just hope you survive it if actually ur papers are served.
Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.
I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)
I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.
My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.
Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people
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| ultimateprof: 5:30pm On May 30 |
NwaAmaikpe:
The OP should turn the table around and claim that he is suspecting his wife of infidelity and that is why he is using the PEP. The guy no smart.
Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.
How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.
You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?
Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.
So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.
If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.
Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.
As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.
To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.
If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
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| ultimateprof: 5:32pm On May 30 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.
How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.
You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?
Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.
So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.
If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.
Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.
As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.
To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.
If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
The OP should turn the table around and claim that he is suspecting his wife of infidelity and that is why he is using the PEP. The guy no smart.
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| richie240: 5:34pm On May 30 |
That theorem na for africans o.
In 'saner climes', the wealthier you are the more likelihood for the gold digger to leave with half of what you laboured for.
Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much
The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you .... This goes to both husband and wife.
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| goldmatrix(m): 5:34pm On May 30 |
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Stick to your gun. You could say, someone recommended it.
She could ask Why you hid it.. U could also say that 'just so you won't ask me this same question, that you wanted to try it first'
I am not encouraging you o
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| chopnaira: 5:35pm On May 30 |
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Before starting a "fucking" relationship. Better you both get tested.
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| pocohantas(f): 5:36pm On May 30 |
cococandy:
In 2025 dem dey use single mother threaten person? When the only difference between a single mother and woman married to one their kind is that the single mother is not laying next to her enemy every night. Shior
I am not sure their logical brain processes it that way. They keep threatening these women with being sidechicks to married men. But they claim sidechick gives peace of mind. The sidechick gets a better deal. She doesn't deal with his grumpiness, snoring..etc. Heck, she doesn't submit. I doubt she has to make dinner. She just gets the packaged version of him with suya and juice when he visits.😂😂
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| samuelson06(m): 5:37pm On May 30 |
pocohantas:
They are so convinced these women forgive and love them deeply after. Many of them will be single if their wives can feed herself and the kids by next week. Sapa induced longetivity of marriage is what we have many in Nigeria.
Lol.
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| blaise26abj(m): 5:40pm On May 30 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.
How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.
You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?
Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.
So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.
If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.
Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.
As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.
To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.
If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.
You are a Badt guy! You just reminded me of what I was like when I was in the world !
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