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Yo, I'm looking for a PayPal (GNS) seller.

If you are one, pls signify under the comments so we can talk biz

Oga, go after girls that are interested in you.

Your persistence is irable but at the end she wasn't interested (should have taken the hint from the scenario at the Keke napep)

Move on.

Martinez39s:
Long time, bro. Happy New Year.

No see, hope you doing good

New year, new goals . A lot of things are going on not just in Nigeria but around the world.

Will be looking at improving my Game cause I'm becoming a little bit rusty and if most of you want infield Game then I will do a thread on that.

But other than that, more effort into making more money cause naihim be the main Koko.

Anywhere special shout to @ubunja @caveadullum @heartofcity @martinez39s
and the rest of y'all.

Keep them coming.

Happy New Year guys.

One of things I noticed now is how women make a man to simp for her by giving him sex.

An acquaintance of mine and I went to a party at one point, so he met this girl there. They danced and roll together but my gut told me there is something wrong.

Not to lie, this girl was petite with fat ass and my acquaintance was a huge fan.

So after party, I took my own girl and vamanos and so did he.

Now I never bothered to ask him anything regarding the girl but two weeks from then.

I noticed he was unsettled when we hung out and was on his phone so I asked him what is going on.

To summarize it, he said the sex with the girl was the experience of his life blah blah blah.

But now she withdraw immediately after the sex but you see something flipped because of that and now he seeks the girl like a drug addict seeks drug.

You see she ignores him but he keeps begging her to be with him and of course as a sharp girl, she had extorted him.

Another thing to note is he is a romantic type but that's not the point.

I have seen like two guys that same thing happened to where they had sex, girls withdraw and they chase girl.

@Ubunja, care to extrapolate.

tosaino95:


I couldn't agree less if a woman love she will initiate respect for you and give you all her attention and body.
Is so simple but our same mumu gender don't know this or maybe they know but want byforce love because how on earth a woman will disrespecting you in the front of people and the next you will say is she is going through a rough time saying this as a respond to cc hazard7

Indeed, this past months I have experienced things that just make me feel pity for men that don't know their value

Tombrown3:


Lol... Let me break it to you, from my little findings, the guys women always flirt with when they are with their boyfriend are hardly the guys she will cheat with.

I've always learn to pay more attention to those guys my girlfriend talk negatively about, the one she always say she doesn't like because he has pride? The one she said is not a real man? The one she says she doesn't know why she hates him? that's the guy you have to look out for.

By her saying all these she's trying to implant an idea that could make you vouch for her and swear with your life defending her when you hear a story she cheated with such men, lol.

Women are smarter than men in the game of relationship be default, they dont even put alot effort as we are doing to learn the game.

Flirting with other guys when she's with her boyfriend or husband is mostly to make him feel jealous (which is why the man in your story is a simp) women think by doing so you put more effort in treating them fine, because now in your mind you don't want to lose her to those guys shes flirting with, and it works!!

I get you bro but it's more deep than that. I'm happy that I have left the house and she still calls me but I don't care.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:


BRO STUDY THAT WOMAN TOO CLOSELY LIKE ALAYE GIVE THAT WOMAN CLOSE MARKING
SHE MIGHT BE ON TO SOMETHING MORE DANGEROUS THAN HAVING SOMETHING SEXUAL WITH YOU, DONT JUST ASSUME SHE WANTS TO NACK YOU IN THE BEDROOM
A WIFE THAT DISRESPECTS HER HUSBAND WOULD DEFINITELY DISRESPECT YOU
USE UR NUMBER 6


IF THAT MARRIED WOMAN WANTS TO FXXCK YOU SHE WOULD HAVE DONE THAT BEFORE TODAY (EVEN IF YOU SAY NO TO MARRIED WOMEN AND YOU EVEN REJECTED HER ADVANCES)



WHY DO YOU THINK SHE FLIRTING WITH YOU IS TAKING FOREVER WITHOUT SHE ESCALATING THINGS??


SHE MIGHT WANT TO USE FLIRTING TO SCAM YOU EMOTIONALLY
(ALAYE WATCH)

WATCH OUT FOR FAKE GREENLIGHTS, FAKE SEXUAL SIGNALS, FAKE SEXUAL HINTS

MAKE SHE NO GO USE FAKE FLIRTINGS NACK YOU APAKO


SOFT-SPOT NIGGA WOULD THINK SHE WANTS TO SMASH, YOU WOULD EVEN LOVE HER WITH ALL YOUR HEART EMOTIONALLY ONLY TO GET UR HEART BROKEN VIOLENTLY




FOR EXAMPLE:
YOU PULLED UP IN HER CRIB
SHE GOT YOU AND HER SELF NAKED
THINKING YOU WANT TO SMASH HER, SHE FIT SCREAM RAPE, RAPE, RAPE OOOOOO, PLS SOMEBODY SAVE ME
BEFORE YOU REALIZED YOU HAVE BEEN DECIEVED

SHE MIGHT BE ON HER SEARCH FOR A VICTIM IMAGE LAUNDERER IN MOST CASES WHICH MAY TURN OUT TO BE YOU (SHE GO USE YOU COVER HER WHOREDOM) JUST TO PAINT HER IMAGE IN PUBLIC AND IN THE FACE OF HER HUSBAND TO APPEAR LIKE A SAINT AND AN ANGEL

FROM THE DAY OF UR FALSE RAPE ALLEGATION HENCEFORTH, HER HUSBAND AUTOMATICALLY SEES HER AS A SAINT, SO HE WOULD HAVE NO REASON TO DOUBT HER AND THAT GIVES HER FREEDOM TO SMASH WHO SHE IS HIGHLY INTRESTED IN SEXUALLY WITHOUT REMORSE, ONLY GOD WOULD HAVE YOU SAVED IF UR ASS WONT SIT IN JAIL COS THAT THING GO TOO PAIN YOU

SOTEY YOU GO HATE AM AND YOU GO SEEK VIOLENT REVENGE ON HER VIOLENTLY I PROMISE YOU THIS BROTHER BE FUCCCKIING CAREFULL

THAT WOMAN DOESNT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU KEEP YOUR EGO ASIDE

EVEN IF YOU WANT NOTHING WITH MARRIED WOMEN SHE HERSELF WOULD BE THE ONE SMACKING UR DICK TRYING HARD TO BANG EVEN IF YOU DECLINE HER, IF SHE NEVER DO SHI SHI OF WETIN I TALK SHE FIT USE HER FAKE FLIRT MANIPULATE YOU OOO

STUDY THAT BITCH CLOSELY BRO
IT MIGHT NOT BE WHAT YOU THINK IT IS OOO

SINGLE GIRLS USE FAKE GREENLIGHTS TO MANIPULATE MARRIED MEN AND SINGLE GUYS

WHAT MAKES YOU THINK FAKE GREENLIGHT CANNOT BE USED BY MARRIED WOMEN FOR SINGLE UNSUSPECTING GUYS THAT MARRIED WOMEN HAVE EVIL MOTIVES FOR?


IF YOU FEEL I AM NOT THERE WITH YOU TO SEE IT OR OBSERVE IT IN YOUR PRESENCE THAT AM JUST TALKING BLA, BLA, BLA

THEN I MAY BE WRONG
THANK YOU

I got it, bro and thanks for the advice.

With the way things are going with married women, marriage is becoming a "never an option for me" cause God, damn.

There is a married woman whose husband is an acquaintance of mine but the husband is a simp.

I was having dinner in her place and she was overtly flirting with me, like Jesus. Can you please respect your husband while you are in front of him?

The worst part is that he can't seem to say anything, only to say "she's been having a rough day".

Thank God for my core principles, especially regarding married women, cause she is just crazy.

She wanted to seduce me several times that I have been there but Nah, I didn't take so many pills to be overcome by lust.

@Ubunja @Martinez09 @Caveadullum @Heartofcity and others. Keep giving us more useful content and God bless.

Interesting

Azurevermillion:
I'm 19 today. I figured I need to stop thinking, stop watching, stop the procastination and start doing. I need words full of experience and wisdom from the numerous sages here. Consider it a birthday present to me.

@Tonnyray @lifestyletonite I have no social life bro.

@Caveadullam @Martinez I'm a fresher with no confidence

@pansophist my course is computer science

@skepticus @zabiboy Fitness tips sire


@ubunja I got no sexual value no girls.

Fellow redpillers too your contributions would be highly appreciated

Age 19 is the year you are ushered into a new era of your development.

So I will advise you to make a plan for your life and twerk your plan as you see fit.

Find a skill that interests you, is high paying, and starts learning now (for like 6 months-1 year).

This time is for you to make mistakes and have fun but also get your priorities straight.

Fitness tip: Go to your playstore app and home workout app and follow the instructions there. Do ensure to work on your body with back and leg(thighs) as priority.

Social tips: One of things that plaque me in school was I wasn't social and I tend to keep to myself most times but I corrected this as some point in school.

But you can make friends by dressing nicely, speaking eloquently and being confident in yourself.

Learn Game, treat people the way you want to be treated and learn to leverage the friends of your friend as that could really help.

Also understand that you are young so you must be obsessively focused on improving your life.

Happy birthday �

Hi, guys a long time. Looking at the recent debate between @zabiboy and @caveadullum.

Both of them made a point but the thing is to each man his own.

The modern world today has made marriage and even relationships a bad proposition for men.

@Zabiboy, you have a point which is men's egos always lead them to naturally become a slave to a woman but the thing is if you follow the tenant of the red pill then you have no problem.

Most men's goal with a woman can range from companionship, sex, love and to iong on their seed.

Sometimes I do question the need for men to want to keep up this burden of performance despite its detriment and so far I cannot just come to a conclusion.

But you see like @Caveadullum points, sex is not something that can be erased from the world and man need for the opposite sex as a cooling spot in a hot world is paramount.

Men will always have sexual need and the fact is it will also impair our judgement.

I have married friends and single friends but I also have guys that are anti marriage and relationship.

I learn a lot from each of this type but the thing everyone has their motive for what they do even though it sounds irrational.

But there is something @caveadullum said which I grasp and that is the fact that each decisions made by other people this days will end up affecting you.

So don't think because you opt out of the game that the game is over cause you only stop when you are dead.

Understand that it may or may not be an ego thing but it is a question of motive.

AUTHORITY: The game is ever present, you can opt from it but it affects you one way or another.

Don't stay in the friendzone

Facts

Simps will never learn

Even if Manchester United is sponsored by Microsoft Dem no fit excel.

Facts

Jaika:

Honestly... Being redpill would be a lot more irable if so many of them weren't so fixated on getting cochie

True but to each his own.

Stay redpilled

Ninejaywon:



It is part of the process. Give it time, the pain is as a result of accumulation of lactic acid in the muscle fibers. Max 3 days the pain will be gone. Have you done squatting to the extent you can't squat or sit on the toilet seat to take a dump?


No Pain
No Gain

Pain Heals Pain.

Ok thanks man

Martinez39s:
NB: I had to bring our discussion here and remove my post in the red pill thread. I HAVE COMMENTED ON YOU SECOND POST HERE.

if you haven't worked out in a long while, the level of soreness you will experience when you resume is similar to that of when you first started gyming. On the other hand, the soreness you feel when you have been working out regularly isn't that much; it's as if your body has gotten used to the training.

Try to rest. Muscles must be given time to heal. You will be alright. Don't rush things; rest and recovery are very important in achieving your goals.

It happens. The first time I gymed (upper body workout), my muscles were so sore that I almost couldn't wear my shirts or take off my T-shirts.

When I first did thorough leg workouts, I felt pains in my leg, especially the calfs and thighs. I couldn't walk properly and it was as if my inner thighs were on fire; I was restless and could hardly sleep. My knees felt sharp pain when bent down to squat.

Ok thanks man

Martinez39s:
if you haven't worked out in a long while, the level of soreness you will experience when you resume is similar to that of when you first started gyming. On the other hand, the soreness you feel when you have been working out regularly isn't that much; it's as if your body has gotten used to the training.

Try to rest. Muscles must be given time to heal. You will be alright. Don't rush things; rest and recovery are very important in achieving your goals.

Thanks man, truth is I can't even walk properly without limping

Hi guys, its been a while. Big thumps to the guys still keeping this space alive.
To the workout enthusiast in the house. It's been long since I workout so I decided to yesterday and my calf workout literally gave me a huge ache in my leg now I can't work and I think I have muscle sprain so who has experience this before and how did you solve it?.

Lightheaded:


Pics mic

Good morning boss, how's the family?

This whole argument about love is self brewed. It all started when some particular people talked about marriage as a part of the redpill. The presented concepts were quite simple :

-Marry if you're willing to bear the brunt i.e the pros and cons of marriages, a lot of posts in the past dealt with those (the pros and cons). It's up to the person. This community is here to lay out the redpill system, it's not a cult. Do whatever you like with the information, we're not enforcing decisions on anyone.

- Women are hypergamous in nature, hate them or love them, it is what it is. A woman who's ready to marry will desert a relationship of several years to settle with someone who's ready without looking back. The recent story that was posted here acknowledges that.

This led to some other counter views, some leading to unnecessary breakdowns:

- Redpillers mustn't marry. As long as you're a redpiller, strike out marriage from your to do list.

Which led to another view, how I don't know.

- There's nothing like love, any relationship between both complementary gender is purely transactional. Attached to this are some lack of logic and civility on some people's part.

Well, Cave attached some excerpts to his opinions to buttress his points , Martinez dropped his opinions and other contributors did their best to analyze the topic.

There's no need for the fracas, if one is not contented, he can just lay his counter view without fight, or agree to disagree.

Thanks

Drops Mic.

Family is fine, kind sir. Nice point, in conclusion this matter should not be indulge in no more.
Valid point.

Mentholated:


Emotions + ignorance = love

Emotions + knowledge = hypergamy

Both gender are hypergamous in nature. Hypergamy is what secures your happiness in a relationship. Hypergamy is based on knowledge.

True, Emotion + ignorance = love. But no love lust now were everybody eye don clear. I get your point mate.

What's this argument on love about? Love is an emotion and emotions come and go. Like cave Adullum pointed out with the excerpts from researches and articles about both gender being capable of love.

Am a keen observer and I notice that most women consciously or unconsciously chose their path but the thing to note here is there is a reason behind their action which is shocking since they are the emotional beings. The obvious reason is Hypergamy, then there is peer pressure and herd mentality, The emotional trauma they had when they were still young and naive and got their heart broken, or the biological clock ticking and urging them to get the best genes out there with better mate financially and genetically to ensure the safety of her and the children. Seems like an excuse but who cares? Since my exodus into the red pill and going to the anger phase, I have come to ire women a lot not for the beauty but their ability to seize opportunity without a moment thought.They are not the most intelligent but the most cunning at getting what they want with utmost efficiency. Look at women in your area or life in generally riding cars that was bought for them, wearing expensive wigs, clothes, gadgets for just simply existing. How many men can boast of this things apart from yahoo boys and other offline and online hustlers. Women love they do, your mom who is your first love showed you that. And it's concept is best found in the theory of chosen which sums everything up.

Men, the pioneers of our civilization, he chose logic over emotion which is the best choice but it came with it's relapses which is the inability to control and understand our emotions. You want to know whether men love, well look no further from the front page of nairaland and see the various question like the how do I make her love me? or she cheated on me but I love her? or the how do I get her back? and likes which are annoyingly increasing as the days go on. You want more look no further than this very same group with each member bearing a psychological scar, for what crime exactly just in the name of love (except for the outliers of course, those lucky bastards lol) and do not confuse the providers with the lovers and vice verse. Keep in mind the statistics of young men committing sucides or enduring gruesome pain for the women they love. Men love and we love deeply allowing our being which is our very essence of life to be consumed by this emotion called love.

I noticed the underlying fact is low esteem, men don't believe especially Nigerian men that you can get a woman without money. You look at the other half of the table and you see average girls getting their pick of men, men that are richer with expensive rides and you start to wonder how that is possible. How can a 18 year old girl make a 35 year old man kneel down to beg her to be his girlfriend just because she is woman, an average woman for that matter (abeg no be juju be that).

That's why I always ire the cunning and ruthless nature of women, they know the game and know how to not only survive but thrive also. The red pill is the only thing helping most of us here and had helped most of us or we would still be chained to our lust and desires forever being a servant to whims and order of women. This days most enlightened men haven seen the moral decadency of the society have learn to love (if we can call it that) through calculated system checking for demand and supply, profit and loss and asset and liability.

AUTHORITY: The world is a muddy, scrappy and ruthless affair especially in our modern era. Learn to put yourself first. Study women and don't hate them cause they have their uses. , the mosquito biting you is not it's fault but yours since you that refused to cover up yourself with something. Hope you get it if you did not get it forget about it.

NB: It might look like am ing the feminine imperative but the thing is I wanted to buttress my point without bias and the utmost clarity so if you feel like there is something wrong. Feel free to reprimand and correct me without insults. If you are emotional abeg no quote me cause no be me go follow pig enter mud.

Cc
Martinez39, Cave Addulum, skepticus, emmadoet, luminous and other .

Lightway:


I will like you to explain it further, but I'll also reply to this.

Men do not fall in love.

A man that trains a girl through school has money. He goes for a girl that is below his status and tries to build her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as a provider. The man that does this chooses an average girl and tries to build her not because of love, but because he sees himself as the provider and doing so will make the girl loyal to him. That is what he thinks, but women are smarter.

You talk about sacrifices. There is a story of a girl that killed herself after she found out that the boy she set up a business for was cheating= on her. This was a young girl of 23. Since you say women love opportunistically, why would a woman spend her all to make a man happy to the point that the man cheating on her caused her to kill herself. This means that she was in love. But Redpill says that women don't fall in love.

The truth is that she fell for a bad boy and wanted to make him happy. He gave her the feeling of love, the fantasy of it (because love does not exist). The same way a man wants to sacrifice for a woman to make her happy. When a man sees a woman smile after he provides for her, he will be glad. That is not love. The man sees himself as the provider and providing for his girl gives him value. That's how men see themselves and that's why they are ready to sacrifice for women.

There is a story on nairaland of a guy that is struggling, but still providing for his girlfriend who is in school. The same man is still in school and sacrificing to feed her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as the provider. This is not love.

Providing for a woman and seeing her happy, makes a man happy. He thinks that providing for a woman is how he shows his love.

Ask a man to show love to a woman without providing for a woman and he can't. That's why you see men wail when a woman breaks their heart. That after all he spent on her. It is always after all he has spent

Men see themselves as providers and believe that by providing for a woman, they are showing love and hope that the woman will love them back.

Take note, these men hope that the women love them back. These men are also average with low self esteem and their money is their confidence. That's why you see them spending heavily on women that don't value them. It is one reason I love bad boys. They make women feel great without spending a dime These bad boys know that what men call love, is a fool's dream. It is the fantasy of love from Hollywood.

You hardly see a man that loves a women but won't spend heavily on her. In a man's mind, spending on her is how he shows his love. Which is just a fantasy in this generation. The world of old required men to be providers and protectors but never said that, "This is how a man loves a woman". The same way our grandfathers never used the word "love". In fact, many languages like Igbo don't have a word for "love".

Men don't love women. Blue-pilled men that spend on women have low-self esteem and think that by providing for a woman is the only way they can feel worthy. A woman is born with pussy, soft breasts, and a delicious mouth that can do wonders on your dick. A woman can give you kids, cook great food, and take care of your family. What does this blue-pilled man have? Nothing, so he gets money and assumes his provider position. Spending on this woman, hoping that she will give him (love) back. But women are not so straightforward.

There was a story posted here by a nairalander of his ex-girlfriend who he turned into his FWB and sleeps with her. He said she came for a round of sex and she told him of the four guys she is dating. These men are sending her money claiming they love her. One called her and talked about sex starvation but she shouted at him and he begged her. According to the poster, the girl is average in looks and curves

You can see that, this man is sacrificing his money for this girl and that's not because of love. The man chose this average girl because he has low self esteem and doesn't think that the high-class girls will want him. Those beautiful girls are being chased by guys with Range Rovers and Benz, so he is not close to their league. He goes for the average girl and tries to entice her with money. But since AWALT, she can see through his low self esteem.

When it comes to marriage, it is almost the same. Nowadays, men have fantasies of marriage rather than the reality. Men dream of playing with their kids, helping their wives with the dishes, and all that shit they see on TV. They think that, this is love. That's how love works. The reason they do this is because they believe that by making her happy, helping her out, she will love him or care for him which is not the case because women don't think that way.

I can go on and on with many examples of how a man's mind works. A man will look for an average girl to date or marry so that he can assume his provider position. This is why you see a girl will be rude to a guy but he will still go ahead to provide for her. Not just because he sees himself as a provider but also because he has low self esteem and feels worthless if he can't help his girl. He is also being drawn by his need for sex. He invests in her and can't pull out anymore. Women are smart.

Men don't love ideally. I deeply respect women because they're becoming smarter than men. They are seeing through a man's self esteem and a man's constant need to prove himself. A man wants to always show a woman that he can provide for her and he also wants sex. A woman doesn't want all men based on her preferences but she can take advantage of his urges to be a provider and need for sex and use it to enrich herself. Just like Mercy, Tasha, Erica, Nengi, Destiny Eitko, Tiwa Savage, Maria, Tonto Dikeh, Mercy Aigbe

Men need to understand that they are fooling themselves thinking that they love women. Love is just a word created from English language to make life look beautiful.

i was about writing something similar to this but Nah, you crushed it. More power to your elbow mate.

Hi guys, been a long while. first off Happy international men's day. Yep I know you didn't know, me neither. That's to show that nobody gives a Bleep about me or you. You have always and will be expendable.

Civilization is crumbling bit by bit, some of us know it, some of us will deny it and some will pretend as if nothing is happening but it is coming alright.

Gone were the old days of external wars, nowadays we fight a different war which is an internal war. Our present century has to be one of the most prosperous in the earth life form but you see good times really create weak men and weak men will definitely create the chaos of bad times. There is still hope for humanity just yet......

You are a man and nobody gives a Bleep about you or me but don't let the burden of performing weigh you down. Look at your life and decide what you want to do. Women are fickle beings and we already know that. I think most of us should have a level where you tell yourself "why bother" myself.

Someone asked a question about why people get married despite knowing what they know and I always wonder, not that am against you getting married but I always ask people why they got married. Typical response are : love, don't want to be lonely but the thing is as a man, you are bound to spend most of your life alone whether you like it or not or whether you believe it or not.

Ask yourself how many people in my life will really be there for me when I really need them and we all know that it is a few. that and accept it.

As a man, learn to accept people view on things and don't impose yours on others, so what I am MGTOW and so what you are Patriarch. To each his own. The world out there is rough for both men and women, I notice that women acknowledge this better than men and they work towards it better.

Don't take women seriously cause they don't even take their self seriously. I witness this today when I eavesdropped on young girl of 18 years reprimanding and teaching a woman of 36 years on the art of seductive dressing. See a woman as your younger sister of 5 years, if she talk will you take her seriously? no you would not because she is not on the same level with you. So also are a lot of women not on your level. When you have low esteem, you tend to think that an aesthetic exterior might also have an equally better interior.

One thing I notice is that many of us here cannot fully accept the truth and it stinks, (I can smell it in what you post) it's normal but the truth is the truth whether you like it or not. You could pretend online and offline but can you lie to yourself forever. The redpill is bitter truth whether you like it or not so "if you know sabi chop kola then no try taste am ooo"

One last thing, Don't be too rigid neither be too fluid. , learn the art of not giving a Bleep. Stay through to yourself and have a bliss weekend.

emmaodet:




Bro…I feel you a lot.
I think we had similar experience and when I told mine here sometimes ago, some guys told me I should have lashed the lady.
The question is why lash the lady? When she didn’t want me when I was down, why should I take her now when I am up and she is down? Because if she is in my shoes, she won’t even look at me not to talk of banging me.
Have said it on nairaland about 3 times that there was this lady people thought we were dating about 20 years ago.
Everybody at school and at home likewise my mum thought so because we were very close and moving around. Sometimes the girl do bring me food from home.
So I summoned courage and wooed her BUT to my biggest shock, I had one of the harshest reply in my life.
She told me she just broke up with her bf therefore won’t like to date a guy with 2 legs (no car) because her ex is using 4 legs (car) and will look as if she is a loser by dating down instead of dating up (someone bigger than the ex) so that when the ex sees her, he will know she has stepped up.
God !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I felt really really really depressed and ashamed of my miserable life. I was restless for some weeks trying to do anything illegal to make it.
I felt like a loser a nice lady doesn’t want to attach to or to be proud of dating.
11 years later after so much hustling, praying, hard work etc. things started becoming soft and at a point I got one particular ride - a Volvo convertible C7 (I think that was what attracted her)
Then one day she called me (never knew how she got my number), said she saw me in a place. That have forgotten her blah blah blah ……. to cut story short, she asked where I was and rushed to pay me a visit.
When I saw her, she was very fat, looking far older and well spent.
Started narrating useless stories to me about how things has not been going well for her, the man she married but had to divorce was living a fake life and it was after marriage she knew he had nothing and she was the one literally running the house blah blah blah
She wanted us to start dating, to pick it up from where we stopped the last time BUT abeg, I jump and .

it's not more surprising to me but always wonder how they are able to keep track of me all this while. well women will be women.

Mikester:


It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it but sadly large groups of people such as the society mostly take emotional decisions over the truth.

We need to learn the habit to take our own decisions unapologetically. The essence of life is to live it to the fullest, making the best of all situations and times and not always following what the majority believe in or are doing.

The ideal man is the one who takes life with dignity and grace, making the best of all circumstances not the one who always follow the dictates of the society and is applauded for such.

Truer words have never been said bro