NewStats: 3,264,567 , 8,184,125 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 03:08 PM a1q1s

funmisticqueen:
he was never and will never be in control of another human being.

If he wants control so bad, let him get a pet and train it.

How are you different from slave traders

Look bitch am not in mode to heckle so take ur drama out of my sight. I never for once talk about slavery or whatever garbage u mean, get ur act together and a happy new year

Escabado:
I see lots of post this December both on nairaland and instagram about many Nigerian girls in there late 20s and early 30 searching for husband . If these girls are 18 - 24 all they do is to insult every man that comes there way, Calling dem broke and all sort of name . They only give you attention if you are ready to spend money on them. My advice to guys is never to fall into the scam of this evil Nigerian girls posting that they need husband . Is because age is no more on there side . a Leopard can not change it spot. They are still the same insultive ,rude and arrogant girls u know ooo. So clean your slippers and run

Your advice is well noted

Sorry man,shit happens in marriages. Once a woman taste power like in yours,she becomes intoxicated so better u put the bitch in her right place or u relinquish control to her.

Am at 3 but will enter 2 by 1am definitely

Jodha:
I don't have the patience to read everything yhu typed... but it's obvious yhure making sense....well done...

My pleasure

lilwetdick:


Proverbs 9:9

Give instruction to a wise man and he will be still wiser, Teach a righteous man and he will increase his learning.

Exactly bro

lilwetdick:
many arent ready to improve
they want to earn 30k and then marry
only the smart ones will get your message

All true bro but like jesus said "let him who has ears let him hear"

lilwetdick:
many arent ready to improve
they want to earn 30k and then marry
only the smart ones will get your message

All true bro but like jesus said "let him who has ears hear"

Omar09:


I think this is one hell of a message needed to be spread amongst men. I get tired of reading this "I did this for her and she.... My girlfriend did this to me after 6 months of dating... I can't take this any longer..." stories on here. In fact I started thinking most of them if not all are fake but I do know those stories do happen in life. I mean c'mon it's life we are talking about here. I believe in prioritizing one's happiness. And no human will give you that except you!
But tbh the redpill is really essential not cause of them women, there are men out there who have spent money on their fellow men whom they are not supposed to do for and got nothing after it. It's stupid. Reading the the redpill and thinking it's applicable to only women is lies. It's applicable to life as a whole. It depends on the reader's POV

Most readers on here read the miseds and decided to wage war on the opposite sex. To me that's stupid. Why wage war on people whom you will depend on reproducing, releasing stress and of course depression. The redpill is not about gender war, and will never be. It is about you knowing how to deal with life, knowing that if you didn't get something doesn't mean it's the end and it's not a do or die affair. Just wait for the perfect time. Or create one. It's not war thing to those who took it to be. Adore one another as yourself.

Ps: I focused on the redpill cause you mentioned it there, and I am one who take s my pill everyday.

The rest of the mg is bomb. I wish they'd listen.

I know the red pill is essential not just for ladies but life in general. Just dat some betas are using it the wrong way instead of using its knowledge to improve their lives,

Hello everyone its your boy hazard. I want to talk about why a modern man will sit down and the only thing he thinks about is bashing women. Its so un masculine.
THE RISE OF EFFEMINATE MEN
During the days of our not so modern ancestors,we men were arranged in order to serve our tribe. Some were hunters,warriors etc. We did not need to worry about what girls like bisi,lilyvall,riele were thinking cause we were well concentrated on our purpose. Women were submissive and respected men and they perform their duties without complain. Then something happened...........
MODERNITY HAPPENED
Technology is one of the best thing to ever happen to man. But it came with its own demerits it changed the dynamics of society. It brought the era of wimpy men,white knights,red pillers,black pillers,feminists etc. I wonder where a man will have the energy to talk of girls all day long, did you think the likes of julio ceasar, napolean etc were worried about what women think of them(are u f***king kidding me) 1000 years ago you will be worried about surviving than getting laid. When I go out all I see is boys claiming to be men, wimps that bash women online but are magas to them online seriously it has got to stop.
THE NOTION THAT ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES AND GOLD DIGGERS
Seriously that is just plain stupid, have u dated all the women in the world? There is a saying that "who you are is what you attract" and that is just so true. When a man carry money that he should use on his mom,sis or friends on a girl that is not interested and she cheats on him, he starts saying women are whores, that is just a poor mentality of an effeminate man( but hazard,most nigerian girls like money a lot and mainly whores and gold diggers?) sure most nigerian girls are gone into oloshos and sex trafficking business but its not all I have dated girls that added value to my life in so many ways that I can't count plus u can't blame them becos both the economy and society lead it to this. Now as a guy ask yourself is there not much to life than women and don't tell me foods,drink,games and family(definitely) because they are just bonuses.
The one thing that is important is your mission(life's purpose) try to find it.
SUMMARY
Next time u were thinking of coming to nairaland to bash women.ask yourself what do u gain from it a sense of self esteem,does it solve the fact that u are broke? Common it is unbecoming of a man to do nothing but wail all day along about women. Get out there and learn game if u are bad with women, invest ur money in stock exchange if you are broke(but its risky) but don't forget that all in all.
The only thing that should be important to u as a man is
"Your life purpose". Enough bashing and if u want to know to become a masculine man just dm me. Thanks
Happy new year in advance!!!

Godsonjolly:

I'm telling u. Just a waste of space. Shit �

Bro the real post has been posted, click and learn something. Tanks

I see a lot of young lads today forming alpha especially in nairaland and it disgust me cause they don't know the true meaning of an alpha, well that's why am here to give the fact as it is.
What is an Alpha? Alpha refers to a dominant person or their behavior,especially with respect to socially aggressive, hyper masculine men.
Alpha is the first letter in the Greek alphabet, its privileged
position lending itself as a metaphor for primacy or
superiority since at least the 1300s in English.
By the 1870s, scientists were using the term alpha male to
refer to the most dominant male animal in a group—like an
alpha wolf, who achieves top-dog status through aggressive
behavior. By the 1970s, scientists extended alpha to human
behavior, describing men who, through various forms of
social power, acquire wealth, prestige, sexual partners, and
other resources valued by their peers.
The alpha male is that type: ired in the suave cool of
James Bond, parodied in the manic Patrick Bateman
(Christian Bale) in the 2000 film American Psycho, feared in
Daniel Day Lewis as Daniel Plainview in the 2007 There Will
Be Blood, far-too-fawned-over in Brad Pitt’s Tyler Durden in
the 1999 bro-classic Fight Club, and loved-and-hated in John
Hamm’s Don Draper from the Mad Men TV series in the
2000s.By the 2010s, the sense of alpha showed some narrowing on
the internet, shifting from a male who achieved success and
status in general to a male who could easily get a lot of girls
in bed or who liked sports and was bro-ish. The manosphere also calls these alphas bluepilled normalfags. But you see the so called alphas we have now are what we call 'stereotypes'.
THE TRUE ALPHA
When most boys or men hear about alpha they think of things like:
A tough macho man that bullies others to do their bidding and has a bevy of ladies fighting to get his attention. That feels good but that example is not an alpha but a stereotype.
You see becoming an alpha without becoming a stereotype is about one thing called “mindset“. If you are think you are an alpha without the proper mindset,you are like an ugly fat girl who try to hide her unattractiveness with flashy jewelry,loads of makeup and an exotic dress. Not like am bashing ugly girls but am just telling it how it is. Do you find this girls attractive? Of course not because you can see through their fake exterior.
Well oops that's right that exactly what people think when they see a wannabe stereotype try to "act alpha" especially girls,trust me when I say they will see through it in a minute because girls are extremely intuitive. So with that aside how can u become a True Alpha.
Becoming a true alpha
To become a true alpha and not just a wannabe that argues online with feminist,misandrist and blue pilled lads you got to have something. This thing is so easy to attain but u see people struggle hard to get,what is that one thing u need well u are reading the right post cause I will give u the answer for free, it is called TRUE CONFIDENCE.
What is true confidence? By definition "True Confidence is being less invested in peoples perceptions about u than in your preception about yourself".A lack of True Confidence causes you to chronically seek validation and approval from others since you don’t give it to yourself. The way to build True Confidence is to invest more in oneself especially if you want to get the ladies.
Women are generally only attracted to men who are less invested in them than they are.By investment I mean the degree to which you sacrifice/alter your own thoughts/feelings/motivations for someone else. By less I mean that as a man, you should sacrifice your thoughts/feelings/motivations for a woman less than she is willing to do for you.
That may sound cold and yes, it made me squirm a little bit when I first realized it. But it’s true.
As humans, we’re wired to be drawn to people who value their selfperception more than our perception of them. Think of the most confident people you know and you’ll see it’s true.The high status man displays True Confidence. The low status man displays little of it.
True Confidence is not consciously calculated by women, or people in general. I guarantee you will not see women walking around with confidence scorecards any time soon.
Confidence is felt. It’s intuited by women. It’s instinctual. Women unconsciously detect it bywatching a man’s behavior carefully. It’s why women can often become turned off at the most innocuous moment or by the most unimportant statement. Consciously, the action or statement may seem harmless, but unconsciously, it conveyed everything they need to know about your status: by your lack of confidence.
As you are probably aware, women can be unconfident as well. And although a lack of confidence is a turn-off for most men, it’s not as influential as it is for most women.
To most women, a man with True Confidence is like a woman with perfect tits and a gorgeously sculpted ass. To a woman, a man with no confidence is like having the worst breath and missing teeth. So you get the idea and u want to possess true confidence. How do u get it? Well I will give u that on my next post which discusses not just that but how to become an alpha lady charmer. Till next time I remain your friendly redpiller " The hazardous hazard".
Cheers!!!

Oops not right post

Not the real post

Not real post

luvyaself95:

You gat to be careful mister man

I will try to be bro.

Ayomide11111:
I just spent 3months in her house now and the signs i have
Been reading from this woman are numerous thinking maybe
All those signs were just normal and unintentional, until yesterday.
This woman should be at her early 50s, though she is a beautiful woman with seductive assets both
Front and back... and im just 30. I was
Having my bath yesterday when this woman asked of me from my room neighbors
And they told her i was in the bathroom, but i dont know how this woman got inside my room
When i entered my room i saw madam
Already sleeping in my bed, i was surprised, wetin happen? She said wants me to check
Something out of his phone. Haa!! Something out?
Ok, bring your phone, trying to collect the phone but before i know what is happening madam has hijacked
My towel... Na god save me yesterday cos i put boxers.

Hmmmmmmmm op post is suspicious but I will stay away from her if I were u

luvyaself95:
Finding friends on nairaland are you joking ?..

Yap shit happens.

Hi all, Am new here I stay in ilorin, hope to make some friends here

irumole1975:
pussy is the ultimate controller in life. men can do anything just to worship pussy. Just today I spent #35,700 to buy phone for a girl when I only had 41,620 exactly in my . I had to collecting extra 1k to take the phone to her in iyana ipaja. no thank you from her. And all she has ever given me is a hug. I don't know what to do with the 4k Left in my na. I'm crying rn

My bro na u try , brother wey mumu.

Riele:
If you're suffering from low self esteem , this thread is not for you .

Here Are The Reasons Not To Date A Nigerian Man :-

1) . Most Of Them Are Big Time Cheaters :- If you're not careful , they'll put the blame on you .

2) . Most Of Them Are Hypocrites .

3) .Most Of Them Are Irresponsible and lack sense .

4) . They Are All Whores .

5) .Most Of Them Lack Personal Hygiene .

#bitter_truth .

Is it just me or u have a serious enmity against nigerian men,wonder who turn u into depressive misandrist.

SteveOfu:
In January, Omotola Jalade shared on her IG that she was grateful that at 40, her last child is already in the University. , she has four kids and she married quite early.

Funke Akindele (Jenifa) congratulated her on the post. Funke is 41, and just had her first babies in December of last year.

Now, if you try to compare these two women, you'd fail at it because they are both accomplished. Will you say Funke is unfortunate for just having her first babies at 41 while Omotola's last child is already in the University?

My point here?
Stop comparing yourself with others! Your life journey isn't the same with anyone, irrespective of societal expectations.

Not everyone will get married in their twenties, not every couple will have a baby nine months into marriage, not everyone will become a millionaire in their thirties. Some people will get their dream jobs at 40, it doesn't mean they've failed. Some will become CEOs at 55.

Please, learn to focus on your life. I know it's a difficult thing to do in this era of social media where everyone seems to be doing well in life except you. Don't compare your life journey with others, not even your classmates or siblings.

There are only CLASSMATES, there are no LIFEMATES. You're your only mate in life.

Whenever you're tempted to compare yourself with others (which makes you to feel pressured and sad), come back to this post and digest every word...
Good morning fam❣

That is very true if u compare yourself with others,you won't achieve anything in life. Learn to be yourself cos there is only one unique u and no one is better than u.

lavylilly:
He is your boyfriend and not your husband!
So.Stop.Giving.Him.Husband.Privilages.

What are husband privileges? You ask. I will tell you, just keep reading. Boyfriend and husband privileges are NOT the same. Almost all the ladies here have MISTAKENLY given their boyfriend 'husband privileges'. If you are guilty of this atrocity, don’t sweat it, you can still redeem yourself.

Here are the difference between Boyfriend and Husband Privileges.

1. Husband Get Sex but Boyfriend DO NOT.
Giving up your VAGINA and doing very intimate things with a man that may not end up marrying you is improper and downright NASTY!

Instead of allowing random men access to your precious punany, it is recommended that you build a connection outside sex.

2. Husband Get Home Catering But Boyfriend DO NOT
Cooking and cleaning for your boyfriend is a total TABOO.

Many have cleaned and cooked like pros yet they were jumped and forgotten. If he wants you to cater to him, let him first “put a ring on it”

Disclaimer
I strongly encourage you to stop giving your boyfriend ‘husband privileges”.
Note, doing so will most likely cause him to flee, but don’t worry, you are now in Nl and can easily find a husband material.

Say NO to Boyfriends that wants Husband Privileges.

If u don't do it for him someone else will.

Olayinka8793:
You are welcome.
I am not based in Ilorin but for sure there will be plenty nairalanders from there.
By the way, this is a not a hookup site but a forum where most people are anonymous, but good luck.

Ok tanks

Hi,guys wondering if some nairalanders are in ilorin so we can hang out and chill.
Don't mind if u male or female just reply, let's hook up....