The mom has a responsibility towards those kids and must always consider them. It's her right to remarry and be happy, but she shouldn't throw her kids away. No, the kids are not the primary responsibility of their older brother.
Well whether you want to accept the reality of life is left to you to decide. The lady is question is probably around 42 or 43, that's the age they are more sexually crazy because they are getting close to menopause. She's probably not financially strong hence she will need a man's financial to see her through. Bottom line is she's vulnerable and if she married now which will probably happen then the guy will have to double up because most likely the new husband won't or will do little in raising those young fellas.
Chram:
I write with Pains in my heart.
I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life.
I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.
I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.
So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings.
After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.
My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?
Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?
Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic , I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.
I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background?
Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.
Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.
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She has every right to remarry if she wants and your opinion is not needed at all. She is your mum not your lover so stop been a baby and grow up. Your responsibility is towards your siblings to help them find their foot in life, so pray hard, work smart and make your late dad happy .
Yankee101:
Has Nigeria paid its ground rent in other countries? Do you know how long the Nigerian embassy in New York was owing the government? Even employees were owing unpaid parking tickets but no one shut the place down because it was an embassy
They’ll just freeze Wike’s assets abroad and ban him from several countries. Even Tinubu won’t try it
It's the right of the country to ask for what's is due to her and so vice versa in other countries. Wike has acted within the law and rightly so. This is not personal as far as am concerned, so we shouldn't see it as that.
See an example
Mayor Michael Bloomberg says the government of Nigeria owes the city as much as $16 million in unpaid taxes on the Manhattan building that houses the Nigerian Consulate
How many times have you heard a woman beat her husband to death?? See my screenshot somewhere above - 50 women in 3 months!
But lots of women have poison their husband to death to make way for their side dicccck. Woman are the devil and any right thinking man shouldn't put his hand on the devil because you simply can't win. So many housewife's have abuse their spouse physically, emotionally and mentally using different weapons from insults, extra marital affairs to denial of conjugal rights among lots to score home their needless point.
Biodun556:
To those saying Russia is weak, could not defeat Ukraine. How many Russian cities look like these since the war began?
Now that Ukraine attacked Russia air bases and destroyed a lots of fighter jets. The war will become serious again.
Russia deliberately slowed down the war because because Eastern Ukraine occupied by Russia speakers has been taken from Ukraine. Also to stop millions of Ukrainian refugees continued influx to western Europe and US.
Ukrainian cities completely destroyed by the russian army
War
Which cities in Ukraine were completely destroyed by the russians?
According to estimates, as of the beginning of 2023, the russian army has launched about 5,000 missiles and 3,500 air strikes against Ukraine. Almost 1000 more strikes using kamikaze drones. These figures do not include shelling from artillery and multiple launch rocket systems.
Which cities in Ukraine were completely destroyed by the russians?
Settlements in Kharkiv, Kyiv, Odesa, Zaporizhzhia, Dnipro, Sumy,
You must be the PA to Putin to know all these for a fact. Fact check your pics before sending misleading and absolute hogwash to appeal to the sensibility of here. Russia is a nuclear power while Ukraine is not hence the pounding of Ukraine cities while Ukraine target military formation and infrastructure of Russia to prove a point. Stop gloryfying a psychotic murderous Putin whose obsession with bringing back the old Soviet Union will never come true.
QuinQ:
Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!
I know this is front page straight.
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U want to go back to the stone age to protect the rights of women, what about those women who assault their husband. Do they face the same public humiliation or are they given a pat in the back because they are the weaker vessel.
Derbbeahhomes:
When I Bought My First Land, I Almost Cried.
No be say the land fine . Na bush. But it had my name on the paper.
I ed all the insults.
“You never even buy phone, you dey talk land.”
The people that mocked me for being too serious.
The nights I saved 500 naira like say I dey save millions.
But I bought it. Small bush. Small hope. Big future.
If you're saving for land, or you're trying to build — don't stop.
One day you go hold your paper and smile. Or cry. But it will be worth it.
zero8zero:
The first wife left, the second left, the third left and another one carry head enter, women and money sha..
Thequestion is, IF this fourth wife left too, is he allowed to marry a fifth wife since Islam only allows four wives?.
helinues:
There is no rule restricting broke guys to go into any relationship but if you truly love yourself and have respect for yourself, if you are broke, relationship is not for you
Whichever girl you might be dating, boke or rich, beautiful or ugly, if as a guy, you are too broke to take care of some of your girl's needs, someone else would do. Should you now be complaining of cheating?
Such a little broke ass bitch. If u spread ur legs because of money, you're just a glorified olosho. Get yourself a job, add value to your life if any and win the respect of real men. Your bf is not ur dad, stop lowering ur standard if u have any.
Educationalserv:
Ram is now for super rich Muslim
Majority of the voting Muslims that voted Tinibu cannot buy Rams for Sallah
Rams cost from 250 k to 1m
TInibu minimum wage is 70k
Majority of state and federal government workers earn less than 200k so they cant buy ram for Sallah
Worst govt in history of Nigeria
Muslim did a Big Mistake
Am Sure if Atiku or Obi where president this will not be the Situation .
Obi will not Float Naira
RevenuesBoost:
On this day, it was raining and the night was cold. I was left alone to suffer the cold while I caught Baby Light wrapped in my husband's arms.
She don colombi my husband, dey gum body.
If e reach time of cold, she go turn to her father side to collect warmth.
Shey she no see me her mother to hug?!
Small time now she go hungry, I dey wait make she hungry, wey she go wan turn to my side to suck breast, na that time I go tell her to go meet her Papa to go suck him own breast.
rinzaugustine:
Worst president since Nigerian independence ruling illegitimately will lies and propaganda..,,No pictures no video but bandits go kill and everybody will see the pictures
Posting such sensitive pics of these gallant officers who pay the almost price for doing their job against those monstrous terrorists is wrong and insensitive. At least blank their face and show some respect to their family and love ones.
What exactly has Nigerians gone through that limits you and others to focusing on and attacking PBAT alone over everything?
Because of Tinubu's brave focus on pushing through reforms that will liberate Nigerian forever socio-economically we are seeing far greater power in the hands of those who can contribute immensely to the growth and development of Nigeria.
His brave and uncompromising removal of fuel subsidy now sees Nigerian States getting 3 to 5 times what they previously recieved as allocation under Buhari.
Tinubu has convened development commission for every region of Nigeria with allocation for them to work with.
Why can't you all ever focus on and lobby your respective development commissions and governors to do more, via investments in Agriculture, infrastructure, power supply, security, transport etal, with the new funds now available to development comissions and the far greater amount Governors now recieve as monthly FG allocation?
Don't be confused the FG controls security, power supply, federal infrastructure, transportation to a reasonable extent among all other things. You don't solve a problem that of over sixty years in a day. I agree with the fuel subsidy removal but the timing is brought the country on his knees. The country has never had it so bad and denying this is simply denying the obvious. The floating of the dollar is another economic policy miscalculation and Mr President had shown he has no idea how the economy works. The cost of living is triple while income remains stagnant and yet you expect the Masse's to praise the man who brought the woes to their doorstep. He won't win a second term in a free and fair election if something's do not change real soon.
fuckingAyaya:
Could it be wack engineers trying to cut corners? I pray they are rescued.
You're absolutely right. These days artisans with some good years in brick laying and mason automatically turns engineer without extensive educational qualification to back their claim and funny enough some rich people actually believe them without ing their claim based on recommendation from friends or family who may not know better.
Leave skull mining alone ndigbo it's not our calling.
It has been your calling from time immemorial. The killing of twins was stop by Mary slessor in Calabar long before independence. Though different narratives but all boils down to the African mentality of believing human sacrifice has special effect on what ever capacity they believe it does. The devil masquerade in different forms to confused the gullible and take over totally. Some fools whether from the south west or south east believe in this devilish act and their secrets will surely be revealed. It's a human thing and not a regional or tribe thing, so stop over ethnic sizings human madness.
zoghys: 7:50pm On Jun 09
