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Candid opinion needed. Its nothing serious though, Just curious to know; Can you allow your wife to drive while you are in d car? Do u feel kinda inferior, that people might feel she owns d car? Is it wrong to drive your husband once in a while?

So many tins, we make dem issues...



I see nothin wrong wit dat... Infact, wen she starts yellin abt my driving, I"d get down frm d car and handova d car keys to her.

Except the man has inferiority complex, allowing your wife drive you sometimes should not make a man feel inferior

I don't feel demasculinized when she drives me in fact it shows love and respect even in the family but not to gathering where social opinions may be viewed from an inverted angle anyway nothing wrong in that but not to all places o like in Igbo land where they may start saying hmmmm his wife is controlling him is better he does the driving to the paternal house and paternal uncles but she can drive to her maternal families and relatives houses too

I don't know mayb it'll look different when am married sha....but presently I find it sweet when a babe drives me......especially the pretty ones...I mean my female friends nd babe....aside the fact that I might not feel relaxed if her driving skillz isn't good enough....i find my babe driving me sexy it makes me proud of her.......

DJ2HOT:
I don't know mayb it'll look different when am married sha....but presently I find it sweet when a babe drives me......especially the pretty ones...I mean my female friends nd babe....aside the fact that I might not feel relaxed if her driving skillz isn't good enough....i find my babe driving me sexy it makes me proud of her.......

hmmm. romantic guy like u. nice one.

Cutehector:
So many tins, we make dem issues...



I see nothin wrong wit dat... Infact, wen she starts yellin abt my driving, I"d get down frm d car and handova d car keys to her.

hahahahaha. thank u

Visocrate:
I don't feel demasculinized when she drives me in fact it show love and respect even in the family but not to gathering where social opinions may be viewed from an inverted angle anyway nothing wrong in that but not to all places o like in Igbo land where they may start saying hmmmm his wife is controlling him is better he does the driving to the paternal house and paternal uncles but she can drive to her maternal families and relatives houses too

u talk wise. thank u

thelish:
hahahahaha. thank u

pleasure is all mine

“MY CAR“

thelish:
hmmm. romantic guy like u. nice one.

lolz I can be very stubborn sometimes

DJ2HOT:
lolz I can be very stubborn sometimes

Hahahahaha. stubborn in what way?

thelish:
Candid opinion needed. Its nothing serious though, Just curious to know; Can you allow your wife to drive while you are in d car? Do u feel kinda inferior, that people might feel she owns d car? Is it wrong to drive your husband once in a while?

If the wife can drive, there is nothing wrong in her driving his car or him driving hers
But I do understand that the dynamics of different relationships differ
Personally I dont see an issue. I've driven my hubby lots of times in his and my car, especally on long journeys. I dont like driving his car though.

tearoses:


If the wife can drive, there is nothing wrong in her driving his car or him driving hers
But I do understand that the dynamics of different relationships differ
Personally I dont see an issue. I've driven my hubby lots of times in his and my car, especally on long journeys. I dont like driving his car though.

Thank u sis. I feel it falls on self esteem though. Its like feeling bad dat a woman is driving a man, people might see him as boy boy to his wife

thelish:
Thank u sis. I feel it falls on self esteem though. Its like feeling bad dat a woman is driving a man, people might see him as boy boy to his wife

LOL
I would have even thought they will say the opposite, that it the man who wants to kill the woman with work
Driving in Iyana Iba or iyana ipaja is not beans o!

tearoses:


LOL
I would have even thought they will say the opposite, that it the man who wants to kill the woman with work
Driving in Iyana Iba or iyana ipaja is not beans o!

Hahaha hahaha. funny u. Car makes some men feel like OGA. if u drive instead of them, u r actually taking d ogaship away from them.

driving the car wont make people think she is d car owner, unless the man looks hungry

lofty900:
driving the car wont make people think she is d car owner, unless the man looks hungry

Hahahahaha see ur bad mouth

thelish:
Hahahahaha see ur bad mouth

but its true

lofty900:
but its true

Its a thing of d mind not necessarily looking hungry.

thelish:
Its a thing of d mind not necessarily looking hungry.

maybe u r right

thelish:
Hahahahaha. stubborn in what way?

almost everyway

thelish:
Candid opinion needed. Its nothing serious though, Just curious to know; Can you allow your wife to drive while you are in d car? Do u feel kinda inferior, that people might feel she owns d car? Is it wrong to drive your husband once in a while?

My dear, only poor and broke guys feel that way. It's a symptomatic expression of inferiority complex.

semochendo1:


My dear, only poor and broke guys feel that way. It's a symptomatic expression of inferiority complex.

U r right bro.
especially dat complex part. Thanks

I love my wife and I see it as a duty to ensure her comfort. This includes driving while she relaxes in the car. Besides, I suffer quite badly from motion sickness and get sick in moving vehicles except I'm the one driving. Yeah, so I tend to do all the driving.

But she's had to do the driving these last few days. Apart from the feelings of nausea, I have absolutely no problem sitting at the back of the car with our baby. Makes our daughter feel wierd though.

Different strokes, Inferior? sounds like a weird mentality.

we find driving a very tasking chore in my family. We both actually don't like driving.We often run for the engers seat everytime we have to travel together. To add, It's just annoying driving while the other person flicks their gadget. Also, 1) You can freely use your phone without fidgety of cops 2) get to take a snooze as you like.

Yes there's an empowering rush behind wheels (summer time) sometimes but it comes with some discomfort too. That space between the index and thumb feels numb from repeated driving & my lower back cramps so bad. Yesterday, I took metro for the most part even. I've had it jare.

tearoses:


LOL
I would have even thought they will say the opposite, that it the man who wants to kill the woman with work
Driving in Iyana Iba or iyana ipaja is not beans o!

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