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When I see men complain that why will a girl do surgery and do all that for what?

Men are the Prize.. simple as that

Have you ever seen a pot belly man go and do surgery for 6 packs because of woman??

For a woman to go to that extent to do surgery just for the attention and validation of men.
This tells you.. MEN ARE THE PRIZE

Quote me if you have ever seen a pot belly man do surgery to get 6 packs and muscle. Quote me!!

Now you know

Women are highly competitive creatures. They compete amongst themselves to gain the attention and validation of men.

So when you see your babe spend 100k for a wig. She is not spending it for you. She make sure she wear it to party and show other girls that she is a baaaad bid
Now the single ones dress to compete amongst other girls that is why they all wear clothes that enhance their ass and boods

They are highly competing for your love, commitment and validation.
They will all deny it
But watch their actions. They dress to gain attraction from men.

They stay under sun for 8 hours plaiting hair that the man will get tired off in 2 days

Imagine going to surgery and putting your life at risk for a man's validation.

The truth is Women will hate me for saying this bitter truth.
Because sisterhood vowed never to leak this secret.
If men could know how desperate women are for men. Men will stop chasing.

MEN YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!!

Infact, go to your street
Ask any man you see

Sir, please I have a question for you
Can you do surgery to change your pot belly for a woman

Me like this go do surgery because of woman. Me kee??

One ugly senator wey marry that fine babe. Ask yourself
Why the man with billions of dollars no do plastic surgery for him face or his pot belly...

But close to 20 girls don go do BBL surgery just to trap that man

Next time you wonder why a girl will go extreme length to look good with heavy makeup.
1. To compete amongst other girls and show off how beautiful they are
2. To compete with other girls in order for them to be selected ired and desired by MEN.


It doesn't matter if she is married
It is wired deep into female psyche
To compete against each other for the PRIZZE😁👌

You are very much on point...most men don't value and rate themselves high they think only women need to be valued, pampered and taken care of...for them I am a man anything goes. Some men even think perfumes, looking good, buying quality things for themselves is a waste of money but when done for a woman is very much ok.

I can tell you of a truth that some men will not enter that expensive restaurant or go to cinema if they had not taken their babe there...they would have eaten in that mama put (no disrespect to mama put) and just be fine.

They will go to boutique and buy costly clothes for their babes and they will just manage to buy few clothes for themselves in an open market. They have this view that only women deserves to be taken care of ...I just pity such men with such mentality. It is me first before anybody in this world period.

chriskosherbal:
You are very much on point...most men don't value and rate themselves high they think only women need to be valued, pampered and taken care of...for them I am a man anything goes. Some men even think perfumes, looking good, buying quality things for themselves is a waste of money but when done for a woman is very much ok.

I can tell you of a truth that some men will not enter that expensive restaurant or go to cinema if they had not taken their babe there...they would have eaten in that mama put (no disrespect to mama put) and just be fine.

They will go to boutique and buy costly clothes for their babes and they will just manage to buy few clothes for themselves in an open market. They have this view that only women deserves to be taken care of ...I just pity such men with such mentality. It is me first before anybody in this world period.

If you check well such men suffer under the hands of those women.
Because a woman knows that a man that dosen't know that he is the Prize. Is a weak man that can be easily manipulated and controlled

When she realize that the man doesn't know his worth.
That is when she begins to show him shege pro max.

I've seen many men do weight loss surgeries on my 600-lb life show and also growing up, I used to watch The Biggest Loser South Africa and Australia, men were also there...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

RollinTNDA:
When I see men complain that why will a girl do surgery and do all that for what?

Men are the Prize.. simple as that

Have you ever seen a pot belly man go and do surgery for 6 packs because of woman??

For a woman to go to that extent to do surgery just for the attention and validation of men.
This tells you.. MEN ARE THE PRIZE

Quote me if you have ever seen a pot belly man do surgery to get 6 packs and muscle. Quote me!!

Samantha125:
I've seen many men do weight loss surgeries on my 600-lb life show and also growing up, I used to watch The Biggest Loser South Africa and Australia, men were also there...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

T V Show is not reality.
Everything is scripted for Entertainment purposes only.

Don't take what you see in TV shows as reality.

RollinTNDA:

If you check well such men suffer under the hands of those women.
Because a woman knows that a man that dosen't know that he is the Prize. Is a weak man that can be easily manipulated and controlled

When she realize that the man doesn't know his worth.
That is when she begins to show him shege pro max.

you are very correct.. I have heard some men say just get money that's all ...yes money is highly important but there other things that are so important as a man, like working on yourself spiritually, mentally and physically. They don't work out, they dont read, having a good dress or fashion sense, hygiene..I mean stuffing yourself with relevant knowledge to name but a few. Self development is all encoming not just making money only.

A man is always the price you can choose to believe this or not...Queen Elizabeth was a Queen for many years but her husband was still Mr... her been a queen could not automatically qualify her husband to be called a king..that goes to show that a queen can never make a king, but when King Charles assumed that office automatically his wife became a queen.

Only kings (men) can make queens (women) so tell me from that simple analogy above who is the Price. Most men dont know their worth ...what a shame.

It was a reality show duhh!!!🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️ Those people lost weight in real life... There's a difference between a reality show and a scripted show.

Just because you lack knowledge and exposure, it doesn't mean you're right... It's like assuming that kick boxing is scripted based on what you heard about wrestling.

RollinTNDA:
T V Show is not reality.
Everything is scripted for Entertainment purposes only.

Don't take what you see in TV shows as reality.

These bbl ladies know the game. They are not gaining guys attention for nothing or just to satisfy you. It's self-interest. They understand that most guys are suckers for a big bumbum and that’s the bait. Before you know it, you're emotionally invested and financially drained.

Taking this further...to validate the fact that the man is the price... women often laugh or mock their fellow women who are of a marriageable age for not having a husband, they flaunt their husband in the faces of these women putting them under severe pressure. Men hardly mock fellow men for not having a wife, No, they mock these men for been broke.

Furthermore when a lady have not been wooed or no one is asking her out for almost 8months she loses her self confident,esteem and feel frustrated...some even go as far as consulting the spiritual to determine what's the problem..she feels valueless this goes to show that men are the ones that bring real value to a woman's life irrespective of her education or high financial state. Forget those I dont need a man talk is just lip service talk .Even a high class olosho is secretly craving to settle down in the future.


Men you are the PRICE kindly know this, work on yourself and carry yourself so and dont be a footmat to any woman you are a king.

Funny enough, where I'm from, it's mostly men who mock their fellow men for not having wives, something women hardly do.

Once a man clocks 45 and he's not married or he doesn't have any woman he's intending on getting married to, the pressure from his mates and family will start kicking in... Married men at some events would even isolate themselves from the unmarried ones... My uncle at one point even stopped attending some family events because of it, even if he did, he'd not stay for long... It was only after he got married that his fellow married men started showing him some respect... As a man, you get judged based on your marital status.

chriskosherbal:
Taking this further...to validate the fact that the man is the price... women often laugh or mock their fellow women who are of a marriageable age for not having a husband, they flaunt their husband in the faces of these women putting them under severe pressure. Men hardly mock fellow men for not having a wife, No, they mock these men for been broke.

Furthermore when a lady have not been wooed or no one is asking her out for almost 8months she loses her self confident,esteem and feel frustrated...some even go as far as consulting the spiritual to determine what's the problem..she feels valueless this goes to show that men are the ones that bring real value to a woman's life irrespective of her education or high financial state. Forget those I dont need a man talk is just lip service talk .Even a high class olosho is secretly craving to settle down in the future.


Men you are the PRICE kindly know this, work on yourself and carry yourself so and dont be a footmat to any woman you are a king.

Whatever Whatever.

This will never change the Fact that "Most" men will always MUMU for women.

Despite the high population of women scattered everywhere, I'm confidently telling you there are lot of "Poor Struggling men" who are yet to feel the warmth of women this YEAR to say the least

Lastly, What's the percentage of the men in the category you talking about lol?? men are the Prize indeed🤣

When an average black man would prefer to keep his fellow men in Abject Poverty.

Men are the price for sure. That's the sad reality for women

No matter how a man is, he can get married. Whether fat, short or even dwarfs .

Have seen dwarfs getting married to normal woman but yet to see a dwarf lady get married to normal man

Samantha125:
It was a reality show duhh!!!🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️ Those people lost weight in real life... There's a difference between a reality show and a scripted show.

Just because you lack knowledge and exposure, it doesn't mean you're right... It's like assuming that kick boxing is scripted based on what you heard about wrestling.

Keeping up with the Kardashians is a REALITY show.
Yet you and I and everybody and their mama know that show is scripted. So what the F are u talking about??
A reality TV show is scripted thus making it also a Scripted Show.
Stop confusing yourself by yourself

Samantha125:
Funny enough, where I'm from, it's mostly men who mock their fellow men for not having wives, something women hardly do.

Once a man clocks 45 and he's not married or he doesn't have any woman he's intending on getting married to, the pressure from his mates and family will start kicking in... Married men at some events would even isolate themselves from the unmarried ones... My uncle at one point even stopped attending some family events because of it, even if he did, he'd not stay for long... It was only after he got married that his fellow married men started showing him some respect... As a man, you get judged based on your marital status.

Getting judged by your marital status over here as a man does not pull alot of weight as compared to when judge by financial status. As a man given a particular age and you are not financially well to do can resort to depression if not death. Some even go as far as committing suicide, you can hardly hear a man committed suicide for not been able to get married at best you end as a baby Daddy.

But not having money is almost equal to a capital offence ....am not downplaying marriage but am telling you the core. Men are even divorcing everyday disassociating themselves from marriage/spouse and people seems not to care but divorcing money and going broke is suicidal cos the shame, pain, mockery is unbearable.

I'm not surprised, one thing about you Nigerian men is that you value money more than anything in this life, it's the only thing that you guys mostly talk about even in your music and movies, so why wouldn't those men who are not financially well to do commit suicide?😂😂😂

In as much as we all love money, but you guys are even willing to go extra miles for it .. ... In my culture, it's kinda tricky for a man to divorce his wife because according to our customs, the matrimonial house belongs to the woman... As a man, you built it solely for your wife and children and if ever it happens that you no longer want to continue with the marriage, you're the one who's expected to pack up and leave...😅😅😅...Kicking your wife out to bring in another woman is considered a bad omen which might lead to continuous misfortunes on either you, or the new woman... That's why most of these men would prefer separation rather than divorce, because they stand a chance of losing the house they built with their hard earned money.

Unless if maybe you guys were living in a rented apartment or flat, then you can kick her out as you wish...

chriskosherbal:
Getting judged by your marital status over here as a man does not pull alot of weight as compared to when judge by financial status. As a man given a particular age and you are not financially well to do can resort to depression if not death. Some even go as far as committing suicide, you can hardly hear a man committed suicide for not been able to get married at best you end as a baby Daddy.

But not having money is almost equal to a capital offence ....am not downplaying marriage but am telling you the core. Men are even divorcing everyday disassociating themselves from marriage/spouse and people seems not to care but divorcing money and going broke is suicidal cos the shame, pain, mockery is unbearable.

I've never watched the Kardashians show before, so I don't know anything.

How do you know that it's scripted?

RollinTNDA:
Keeping up with the Kardashians is a REALITY show.
Yet you and I and everybody and their mama know that show is scripted. So what the F are u talking about??
A reality TV show is scripted thus making it also a Scripted Show.
Stop confusing yourself by yourself

Samantha125:
I've never watched the Kardashians show before, so I don't know anything.

How do you know that it's scripted?

This girl sha

You like to give Nigerian men trouble.

Assume you are not married, you will be dating a Nigerian man in SA.

Me date a Nigerian man? No ways ...They don't fall under the criteria of the type of men that I like.

And the ones here in SA look scary...😩😩😩

Bendeco02:


This girl sha

You like to give Nigerian men trouble.

Assume you are not married, you will be dating a Nigerian man in SA. Possibly Igbo ilegal man

Samantha125:
Me date a Nigerian man? No ways ...They don't fall under the criteria of the type of men that I like.

And the ones here in SA look scary...😩😩😩

Igbo guys in SA are dating your women normally.

Do you think SA men are more handsome?

So what? Just because some SA women go for them, I doesn't mean I'd have done the same thing... We all have different preferences.

And allegedly it's mostly ladies from this one SA tribe who tend to date your brothers here in SA, but I'm not going to mention the tribe here because I know you guys...

Bendeco02:


Igbo guys in SA are dating your women normally.

chriskosherbal:
You are very much on point...most men don't value and rate themselves high they think only women need to be valued, pampered and taken care of...for them I am a man anything goes. Some men even think perfumes, looking good, buying quality things for themselves is a waste of money but when done for a woman is very much ok.

I can tell you of a truth that some men will not enter that expensive restaurant or go to cinema if they had not taken their babe there...they would have eaten in that mama put (no disrespect to mama put) and just be fine.

They will go to boutique and buy costly clothes for their babes and they will just manage to buy few clothes for themselves in an open market. They have this view that only women deserves to be taken care of ...I just pity such men with such mentality. It is me first before anybody in this world period.

Shebu na them come life come suffer ..

The worst part is one small boy go dey follow Dem back the same girl and that fit no spend shi shi on the girl..

As for your last question... Well, there are some criterias that I can only find in SA men.

Of course I love myself some good-looking handsome man because I want cute babies, but it's far much deeper than just looks.

Bendeco02:


Igbo guys in SA are dating your women normally.

Do you think SA men are more handsome?

Samantha125:
As for your last question... Well, there are some criterias that I can only find in SA men.

Of course I love myself some good-looking handsome man because I want cute babies, but it's far much deeper than just looks.

Okay, now you commented well

Bendeco02:


This girl sha

You like to give Nigerian men trouble.

Assume you are not married, you will be dating a Nigerian man in SA.

Una no see as many Nigerian girls avoid the topic like plague because na the truth.

You're right bro

Samantha125:
I've seen many men do weight loss surgeries on my 600-lb life show and also growing up, I used to watch The Biggest Loser South Africa and Australia, men were also there...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

These ones na men! We are talking about real men

I have seen men who take their skin prep routine very seriously. Women are never satisfied, they go under the knife to please both gender. I can never try such rubbish.

RollinTNDA:
When I see men complain that why will a girl do surgery and do all that for what?

Men are the Prize.. simple as that

Have you ever seen a pot belly man go and do surgery for 6 packs because of woman??

For a woman to go to that extent to do surgery just for the attention and validation of men.
This tells you.. MEN ARE THE PRIZE

Quote me if you have ever seen a pot belly man do surgery to get 6 packs and muscle. Quote me!!

most women are not doing it for men.
They just do it to look better than other women, they are always in competition over petty things.
A woman will screenshot credit alert from her man just to pain other women and not for men.
They will buy expensive weavon just to pain other women that buys cheap weavon cos they know that 98.72% of men doesn't know what a bone straight or Brazilian hair looks like.
BBL also is not for men but to look better than other women

almarthins:


Una no see as many Nigerian girls avoid the topic like plague because na the truth.

They always avoid this type of topic.

But open a post with the title "Women what kind of Man do you need" you will see them with their ugly faces requesting for the type of man they can't attract.



You know you're ugly or not that attractive but you want everything you need in a man to be complete 100%

When reality now hits on them, they start crying that one of their village person tied her not to marry while they are the ones that placed themselves to the level they are not.

The fine boys dating them currently are just after toto. Once God answer the guys prayer they will move to pretty girls and dump them. They always follow the crowd while they are not on same page.

You need tall, handsome, rich man while you are below average with only toto to offer

They should continue following very pretty ladies to detect the kind of man they need, later the pretty ones will marry and leave them.