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I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

Hmmmmm dats a very deep question you asked.

lol
okoko😂😂

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend
We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she surgest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state it's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22
Please I need advice.

You're not ready emotionally or financially for a serious relationship, just concentrate on your books, learn a skill and let her go, she's ready for someone more advanced in age and finances.

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend
We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she surgest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state it's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22
Please I need advice.

You can't marry your age mate in this country...

At 22 she's more matured and emotional ready more than you do... Las Las na 30+ person go take am.

U still young for a guy, she's not... Let her go, she won't wait, you will still meet someone when you get money and stable.

Let her go now,not go dey beg for relationship o. Its obvious she can't wait by keeping mute ,when you ask that question. Better focus on how to get that cert in the next four years.

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend
We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she surgest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state it's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22
Please I need advice.

Very wrong

Mr OP make u no go carry suffering all in the name of waiting for u to finish ur academic exercise kpai person pikin oo😆😆... which one come be bear with u for four years?😂😂

Ok

Lolzzzz. I've been laughing since I read this post... I was wondering what sort of thing this is till I saw that you're 22 then i understood..... Just keep reading comments, I trust nairaland to tell you what you need to know

Instead wey u go focus on building your financial life first, abii u think the very moment you finish school , everything will just align for you?

You go dey beg woman, probably wan wey another guy man dey chop on a steady. Why do young people make this mistake often self??

No Intimacy.... No Kiss ... No Photos

Which kind relationship be that ?

If another guy is knacking the girl, she will not wait for you since you are not ready for intimacy.

A wah do dem, a wah do dem dem dem
Awah do dem, a wah do dem dem dem?

Me say me love off fi me virgin gyal
Me say me love a fi me virgin gal

Jah know,me really love her so

Me love fi see her when she walk an pose
Fancy Rose wey go match her clothes

Jah know, me really love her so
A me nuh know, a mi no know o o

Me love fi see her when her hair full curl
Anyweh she go people love her in the world

And she nuh worship diamond, she nuh works Pearl

Jahh know, me really love her so

Anyweh we go people start to laugh
Dem say she too short and a me too tall

Oga concentrate on your studies for now and leave that woman alone to sought herself out.

Should we tell him?

Mr Man Should I tell u?U are Dating yourself,Just Wake up from ur Dream and Move on with Ur Life.Thats My Ten Cent for you.

franugo:


You're not ready emotionally or financially for a serious relationship, just concentrate on your books, learn a skill and let her go, she's ready for someone more advanced in age and finances.

No mind dat small boy

Girl of 22 don tear eyes guy of 22

Small child focus on your studies and your life please

Lol you're dating yourself bro..


Jus focus on your life more bro..

At the moment, you need an education more than you need a relationship.

Is very obvious you are still a child , go follow agba Jon doe on Twitter , and moreover let go of that stupid relationship, na you dey date for marriage na another guy go dey pipe her .

You wickedooo if she's your sister will u be please with her waiting for a young man who is just starting on life ... just forget about her and concentrate in your studies, once you become gainfully employed with enough finance for family upkeep, u will meet someone who will be even more loving ....moreover u are too young to think about relationships....If u start it early u will lose focus....she is doing u a favour by breaking up with you...unless you are only son from a very wealthy family that can sponsor your wedding and marriage, just let go

Always, this. You both might be age mates but she's not your mate.

It depends on your plans. Apart from your education, do you have side business? She may endure if she notices you have future and business you're running to cater for your studies and your marriage after graduation cos being a grad isn't enough to secure a job these days. You'd still do nysc . Ladies don't have age on their side and that's why it seems they're always bothered about marriage. Men can stay for as long as they're ready but they can't

Why haven't you seen each other for two years?

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

you smoke before you write this thing abi?

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

you're lying, this thing did not happen

Lord of the rings them gang

If she is the one that asked u to wait for 8 years,with nothing to show for it,no shi shi,no nothing,would you?
You are even going to a school that offers no certificate,baba ur turn off na total blackout.

Nairalander248:


You can't marry your age mate in this country...

At 22 she's more matured and emotional ready more than you do... Las Las na 30+ person go take am.

U still young for a guy, she's not... Let her go, she won't wait, you will still meet someone when you get money and stable.

In marriage, age means nothing. My dad is younger than my mum. You can never know