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Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


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Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!

I know this is front page straight.

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ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.

Which kind street be that?

QuinQ:
Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!

I know this is front page straight. Nlfpmod

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I am proud to say my community is the safest in Cross River State.

After years of endurance in the hands of criminals, and cultists, the entire LGA decided to say enough is enough!
We rose up as one and put a stop to criminality and violence. Gang were sent on exile. Notorious cultists were burnt alive. And so many rules to guide against violence in any form was enacted.

We live in peace here.

Rexymania:


Which kind street be that?

Na community for Cross River State.

ErebeOcoco:

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.

more barbaric than sharia. I hope the youths handle divorce also or else that marriage is gone.

CodeTemplarr:
more barbaric than sharia. I hope the youths handle divorce also or else that marriage is gone.

No. We don't handle divorce.
Our laws says no hitting. No slapping. No fighting. No assault. Be it wife, husband or anyone else.

ErebeOcoco:
No. We don't handle divorce.
Our laws says no hitting. No slapping. No fighting. No assault. Be it wife, husband or anyone else.

okay ooo. Any fuçk up from that woman, she can be divorced.

ErebeOcoco:
I am proud to say my community is the safest in Cross River State.

After years of endurance in the hands of criminals, and cultists, the entire LGA decided to say enough is enough!
We rose up as one and put a stop to criminality and violence. Gang were sent on exile. Notorious cultists were burnt alive. And so many rules to guide against violence in any form was enacted.

We live in peace here.

Wow! They should pinpoint the arrowhead who lead all that. He should be leading Nigeria

Send her on an errands to the market to cook something special that will surely keep her in the market for a while
Then I order a bus that can move my basic personal effects like clothes documents credentials and other paper works. And that would be the last time she sets her eyes on me.

A man should never beat a woman talk less of his wife but certain things will never happen to me and remain the same... Never.....

Kokodeni:
Send her on an errands to the market to cook something special that will surely keep her in the market for a while
Then I order a bus that can move my basic personal effects like clothes documents credentials and other paper works. And that would be the last time she sets her eyes on me.

Good! That'd be good riddance to bad rubbish

CodeTemplarr:
okay ooo. Any fuçk up from that woman, she can be divorced.

So? Better than being beaten to death

Kokodeni:
Send her on an errands to the market to cook something special that will surely keep her in the market for a while
Then I order a bus that can move my basic personal effects like clothes documents credentials and other paper works. And that would be the last time she sets her eyes on me.

A man should never beat a woman talk less of his wife but certain things will never happen to me and remain the same... Never.....

You can't leave your own community where your investment are. He has hectares of cocoa farm.

Your community wan do U.S.A and U.K

Anyways,if I were to be in that man's shoe,(God forbid),what I'd have done would have been leaving with her,and then show her the exact route that leads to her father's house afterwards

As much as wife beating should never be condoned, I think the community took this too far. The man should send the woman back to her father's house. That's the best solution.

fg

Seun, has it gotten this bad that once someone mentioned Tinubu name under comment section, your mods banned the person from commenting on nairaland for few hours even if the person never insulted anyone. I hope you are aware of this Seun ?

This one hard o

Kweeeeeke oo

ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration

Well, assaulting her is never a just cause firstly. So I wouldn't blame her for reporting him.

He should have just told her to go to her father's house, period.

ErebeOcoco:
No. We don't handle divorce.
Our laws says no hitting. No slapping. No fighting. No assault. Be it wife, husband or anyone else.

Your laws do not supercede the constitution of Nigeria. Na jungle justice naim una dey do so. Somebody go soon enter prison.

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I also wonder how husbands whose wives used policemen to arrest and locked in the past live with their wives.
Your laws are good, however, hope you have laws to deal with women whose tongues are weapon of destruction against their husbands!

Your community sounds amazing! No tolerance for anything nonsense 🚱

This your community na very strong one oo!!

ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration

I believe your community is doing very well in order to promote unity and peace in a country where the government has woefully failed in all sectors, especially security. We only have weak institutions who do little or nothing to enact laws coupled with delayed court cases or flagrant disregard of court decisions and very corrupt security establishment

He will have no choice than to deal with the humiliation because he should have thought of it before "humiliating" his wife whom he married in his own home.


I wanted to ask, aside your community, has violence, cultism, etc also reduced across cross river state too, or is this in regards to only your community?

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I beg which community, so I can lure the man I married because he beats. N

What if in the process of flogging the culprit and he or she es on..

Who would be held responsible?

On the other hand why assault or beat the one you claim to love?

They whine yourself na... What's the movie title?
You go talk whether community follow me contribute money to marry my wife. Useless community wey no fit grade common road and build gutters are busy demanding beer and acting like barbarians.

Rexymania:


Which kind street be that?

I wonder o...

Hope the youths who did the flogging are married too?

You never know until you put a woman for house.

Well if it is me, that marriage is gone!

Anything happens in cross river state....

Backward people