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Do you think he's reacting emotionally rather than logically?

Let us know what you would have done differently if this happened to you.


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Simp!

I go sue the stepdaughter and the mother for return of my money spent on her since day one. Ungrateful elements.

I only hate 1 type of person, and that's a disloyal person. I understand his hurt, and although he didn't ask for applause, I think he did the right thing cutting her off. There was no need to do the man like that.

Having said all that; we don't know what type of parent he was to her. We would need her side of the story to get the full picture but he had every right to stop ing her, since she's an adult now.

I got nothing to say: at least he has learned by experience. In next life he won't think twice before having any thing to do with a second hand bag

Marrying a single mother that her ex husband is still alive has a lot of disadvantages




Especially if she's a retired olosho that gave her Christ

Yes, the classic love story: Boy meets single mom, boy ignores 8,000 red flags, boy becomes stepdad of the year to someone else’s kid. Truly, Netflix-worthy stuff. If your goal was to speedrun the “midlife crisis starter pack,” congrats, you’re ahead of schedule.

Now sure, if you absolutely had to go down that path, maybe, just maybe...choosing someone who’s independent and doesn’t need a second dad for both her and her child would’ve helped. But nope. You said, “Let me invest my whole life in this like it’s an NFT in 2021.” Respect the commitment to poor decision-making.

And training another man’s child? Inspirational. While your own kid’s probably looking at your family tree like it’s a comedy sketch. But hey, every king needs a kingdom, even if it’s built on another man’s legacy, right?

Now you’ve “learned your lesson,” which is adorable. We call those “late-in-life upgrades,” like finally figuring out seatbelts after the crash. But the best part? You're still in the house. Of course you are. That’s simp protocol: never leave the mission, even when the mission left you.

This isn’t even your first plot twist...just a rerun with new characters. But sure, you “took it like a man.” And now, everyone around you knows what you’re full of… and let’s just say it ain’t wisdom.

Na simp!

Double0h7:
I only hate 1 type of person, and that's a disloyal person. I understand his hurt, and although he didn't ask for applause, I think he did the right thing cutting her off. There was no need to do the man like that.

Having said all that; we don't know what type of parent he was to her. We would need her side of the story to get the full picture but he had every right to stop ing her, since she's an adult now.

If he was a bad parent to her, I don't think he had put on his insurance and stuff.

Double0h7:
I only hate 1 type of person, and that's a disloyal person. I understand his hurt, and although he didn't ask for applause, I think he did the right thing cutting her off. There was no need to do the man like that.

Having said all that; we don't know what type of parent he was to her. We would need her side of the story to get the full picture but he had every right to stop ing her, since she's an adult now.

What side you need to hear again taken her in since bearly 5 months old, provided all her needs even some parents couldn't do such for their biological kids.100% his decision

Run away from single mothers

Well, they warned you about the dangers of marrying single mothers who are baby mamas.

The only type of single mother I can ever advise anyone to marry is a widow.

Single men should avoid baby mamas and divorcees.

Blakjewelry:

If he was a bad parent to her, I don't think he had put on his insurance and stuff.

Thank you for the response..... it was simple has ABC. Like daughter like mother... ungreatful and selfish people. I can bet it it was the man that paid all her fees and the so call biological father didn't drop a dime. If I was the one both mother and daugtger are gone. The mother knew about it all along. Maybe the mother was even codely seeing the ex convict father behind and taking things.

Blakjewelry:

If he was a bad parent to her, I don't think he had put on his insurance and stuff.

Being a good parent is more than financial responsibilities. What if he was emotionally abusive, what if he was physically abusive. What if she just resented the way he made her feel. We don't know the full story, we only have his 50% to go by. Must people only what you did to them and never the role they played. We just don't know the full story.

hakeemhakeem:

What side you need to hear again taken her in since bearly 5 months old, provided all her needs even some parents couldn't do such for their biological kids.100% his decision

keemsleek:



Thank you for the response..... it was simple has ABC. Like daughter like mother... ungreatful and selfish people. I can bet it it was the man that paid all her fees and the so call biological father didn't drop a dime. If I was the one both mother and daugtger are gone. The mother knew about it all along. Maybe the mother was even codely seeing the ex convict father behind and taking things.

You're really letting your imagination run! How do you know all this? What if your wrong

Some men just get kind & they can just do anything sha..

This story is not news. It keeps happening and people won't understand. Nobody is advocating for maltreating your step child esp those b

It is like cleaning ones hand in order to crack nut for chicken

Single mothers very terrible creatures.

I use to say something

Onwoni ju onboni lo

With the rate this issue of marrying baby mamas are littering on Nairaland, I really feel for the psychological condition of some who are currently in the shoe.

Anyway, life happens.
I just hope it's not too late for this man going through hell, to pull himself again up

I also know of a man, who got a lady pregnant in his youthful days and moved to Lagos, pursuing a career in music which never worked, neither did he play a major role in the child's life.

Today, he's in the village, telling people that his first son is a medical doctor.

If asked why he's not assisting him?

The old man will shameless tell people that boy claims his step dad over him, with the excuse that he's not the one that was responsible for his success.

Life happens, good and bad. No straight line graph.

Bebold:
With the rate this issue of marrying baby mamas are littering on Nairaland, I really feel for the psychological condition of some who are currently in the shoe.

Anyway, life happens.
I just hope it's not too late for this man going through hell, to pull himself again up

I also know of a man, who got a lady pregnant in his youthful days and moved to Lagos, pursuing a career in music which never worked, neither did he play a major role in the child's life.

Today, he's in the village, telling people that his first son is a medical doctor.

If asked why he's not assisting him?

The old man will shameless tell people that boy claims his step dad over him, with the excuse that he's not the one that was responsible for his success.

Life happens, good and bad. No straight line graph.

This only happened because the mother of the boy is a good woman.

If she was evil like the one the from the op story, na this kind op story too e for be for the stepdad.

Wait she took her boyfriend🤔..

Double0h7:
I only hate 1 type of person, and that's a disloyal person. I understand his hurt, and although he didn't ask for applause, I think he did the right thing cutting her off. There was no need to do the man like that.

Having said all that; we don't know what type of parent he was to her. We would need her side of the story to get the full picture but he had every right to stop ing her, since she's an adult now.

Didnt you see where he said”she took her boyfriend along”You be guy or lady?

samwheel:




This only happened because the mother of the boy is a good woman.

If she was evil like the one the from the op story, na this kind op story too e for be for the stepdad.

You are right, not all single moms are bad.

Double0h7:
I only hate 1 type of person, and that's a disloyal person. I understand his hurt, and although he didn't ask for applause, I think he did the right thing cutting her off. There was no need to do the man like that.

Having said all that; we don't know what type of parent he was to her. We would need her side of the story to get the full picture but he had every right to stop ing her, since she's an adult now.

What are you saying? Was it his place to provide if the real dad was in the picture?

Dzzzz:
Wait she took her boyfriend🤔..

The girl boyfriend

My advice to everyone out there "Make sure the person you prioritise will also prioritise you."

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You're really letting your imagination run! How do you know all this?


Simple from the write up, you can draw the final conclusions. Y didn't the father pay her fee when he was still codely in the picture. For the arrangements to be Like that means the mother knows about it. Why didn't the mother contest the non inclusion of the step father? For the mother to be ok with the arrangements it means both of them have been talking and making the whole arrangements.

If it was me they will come back and meet thier loads outside bye bye to jeti jeti

If this man has really not done anything adverse to affect his "step daughter", then the biggest party to blame is her mother, who has failed woefully as a mother and wife in this situation.

If she was a serious and genuine person, she would have told her daughter that she could not attend without her husband... and I'm also 100% certain her daughter would have caved in and invited her step father.

By attending, she has taught her daughter that gratitude is not important and selfishness is what rules life. Also she has shown her husband that she does not appreciate all his effort in co-parenting her child and his pride means nothing.

The biggest failure in this story is the wife/mother and if I was a friend of the man I'd be advising him to be ready for a divorce.

Rebuker:
Do you think he's reacting emotionally rather than logically?

what would be your own LOGICAL reaction?

the guy na beans sha. I totally dislike men that use the word HURT.