NewStats: 3,265,274 , 8,186,199 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 07:58 AM 473r5r

As in ...ur parents are asking him for money?? Haaa!! Okay....I don't even know what to say about that make bot nor go ban me...

Any way....Madam ...u go dey alright....

Hopefully ....someone else will come

Even your parent for the problem. No man will wanna marry a girl from such parents.

Only them red flag.. That's billboard in the relationship..

My nigga has gat to run for his life..

So,you need to address that part of your parent milking him,and I don't know if he will come back. But be wise in your next relationship,and let your parents know that,they contributed to driving your BoBo away.. Country hard we know,but turning relationship into poverty alliviation scheme,is a NO,NO for me..

And what values were you bringing to his life,aside the normal sex that every girl can give?

You also have to examine yourself.

I will stop there..


Now tips to heal from heart breaks..


Listen to the word of Jah morning, afternoon, evening. Like it's doctor's prescription.
I can help you with one,if you need.
(Rapsody of Realities)

Play and listen to tunes that will help you heal.

Stop thinking about him, assume he is no longer thinking about you..

Delete everything that makes you him..

Please don't go into another relationship when you are still healing.. Them go too use you o

Don't allow him turn you into a porn actress,all in the name of making up,or coming back. Cux with that billboard he saw,it's obvious dude don pick race already.. It will be a miracle,if he comes back to take you serious . Miracle,real Miracle my princess

Your parents ask for monthly payments and how long is it going to continue?

Will he be doing it after the marriage too upon proving he can care for you?

You asked him to reach out to them but didn't tell your parents to review their stipend request as they're demarketing you.

This is 2025 and not 1985.

Esthered:
Your parents ask for monthly payments and how long is it going to continue?

Will he be doing it after the marriage too upon proving he can care for you?

You asked him to reach out to them but didn't tell your parents to review their stipend request as they're demarketing you.

This is 2025 and not 1985.

Hmmm!!!! Ur parent asking d guy to b paying them salary for dating u is soo wrong n reading through ur write up it obvious u er d only one benefiting from that relationship. my advice to u is dat u should just forget about relationship fr now n make money u obviously too broke to keep a relationship fr now.

Biqsahm:
Hmmm!!!! Ur parent asking d guy to b paying them salary for dating u is soo wrong n reading through ur write up it obvious u er d only one benefiting from that relationship. my advice to u is dat u should just forget about relationship fr now n make money u obviously too broke to keep a relationship fr now.

Sarahjen:


Thanks for your input. I have explained what I did and did not do regarding my parents actions. I'm also working to make a lot of money and grow my business as well.

don’t worry some one better than that guy is on d way, u only need to set some ground rules fr urself. when next u er in a relationship insist on no sex or smushing before marriage dat kind of thing, secondly don’t ever allow ur partner feel comfortable insulting u, apart from from jokes n yabbing but insult Neva take that shit from ur partner.u seem like a quiet type I might b wrong sha but I pray u find some one that truly values u.

Sarahjen:

You're right. I had conversations with my parents and asked that they trust that he had good intentions for me. Even though I should have specifically told them not to ask him for money.
I only believed him reaching out consistently without giving in to their demands after the conversations I had with them will make things better.

There's already an expectation gap by your parents which isn't realistic to an extent. It screams entitlement and they'll not allow him to enjoy the marriage as they'll put him under financial pressure.

Your parents are already billing an ordinary boyfriend... when did this one start for God's sake?

That ur parents coming to bill him it's already a turn off for the young man.. Let me tell, you so many a woman would have been a better wife if she did not try to make her man a better husband. 😕

He must send your parents a monthly stipend? Yeah neh!!! We listen and we don't judge...

Samantha125:
He must send your parents a monthly stipend? Yeah neh!!! We listen and we don't judge...

Op deleted the post

Please gist me! What was it about. From what I gathered from the replies, her parents wanted money from her boyfriend? What did they say and how did he react? Can you even ?

The girl's parents wanted her boyfriend to be sending them monthly stipends as proof that he's capable of looking after their daughter, the guy saw a major rad flag and ran for his life...🤣🤣🤣

Now she's heartbroken and wondering what wrong did she do to make him breakup with her.

Double0h7:


Op deleted the post

Please gist me! What was it about. From what I gathered from the replies, her parents wanted money from her boyfriend? What did they say and how did he react? Can you even ?

Samantha125:
The girl's parents wanted her boyfriend to be sending them monthly stipends as proof that he's capable of looking after their daughter, the guy saw a major rad flag and ran for his life...🤣🤣🤣

Now she's heartbroken and wondering what wrong did she do to make him breakup with her.

Thank you so much! I can't believe she asked that. I guess she got the answer she needed and decided to delete her thread.

I knew I could trust you when it comes to gist 😂 😂 😂

You're welcome...

Double0h7:


Thank you so much! I can't believe she asked that. I guess she got the answer she needed and decided to delete her thread.

I knew I could trust you when it comes to gist 😂 😂 😂