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My Guy Is Younger - Family - Nairaland 4p442h
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| Onatounkiki: 11:17pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
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I'm a lady of 27years, working as a casual worker till I'm done clearing my result in school. I have always wanted to get married at 28 but I wasted my time dating someone who I thought loved me but abused me physically, which I had to leave the relationship. Presently, at my place of work I met a guy of 25 who loves me wholeheartedly and willing to go miles for me. He's hardworking , a good guy and he's always all over me. I have told him countless times that I can't date him even though I kinda love him too. I feel he won't be ready when I will be. He told me to give him 2 years and he will be. I feel he is getting pressure from what he feels and he needs time to fulfill dreams b4 thinking about marriage. This guy wouldn't even burge. People around us felt I'm just been mean to him by not dating him. I have wasted my time in the past which I don't want to anymore. I know this guy loves me wholeheartedly but marriage is just a big deal to just go after him or what do you think? 1 Like |
| pendusky(m): 11:23pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
Onatounkiki: Your life... 1 Like |
| LilMissFavvy(f): 11:28pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
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You want to settle down, but his guy is telling you to give him two years before he is ready. My dear that same guy who is begging you today, may sing a different tune tomorrow after you have wasted 2yrs with him. Never trust the promises of men. If you want to date him, fine. But while dating him, if a better man comes, go for it. Keep your options open.
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| Xxxxtentacion2: 11:34pm On Oct 25, 2023 |
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a bird at hand ... if you no date pesin how will you find out the depth of his love for you and his character most importantly... women are their own enemies sha... instead of being happy he told you the truth that he is not yet ready for marriage they would prefer a guy who lies with sweet mouth... 2 Likes |
| Acidosis(m): 4:44am On Oct 26, 2023 |
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If you're interested in dating, go ahead and date without all these marriage talks. That guy may not be ready for marriage until 4-5 years later. Even if you decide not to pursue a relationship with him, finding a serious man willing to marry you within 1 or 2 years might still be a challenge. The decision is yours to make sha. And you have to stop worrying about who wasted your time. Every serious relationship (not flings) that does not lead to marriage is a waste. No need worrying over who wasted this or that. You wasted people's time too by not marrying them. 2 Likes |
| Reminderz: 4:45am On Oct 26, 2023 |
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as a woman, never date a man out of pity or pressure... if you feel you don't want him because of your reasons it's fine... not you getting into it and regretting or using it to abuse him when problem arises in the relationship... I would advice you if you consider dating him that until he does the needful towards marriage, intimacy shouldn't be the main fuel of the relationship... in two years, he might meet someone else... you can never tell, just keep your options open and your body closed... people will hardly buy the cow when the milk is free.. 1 Like |
| Aaaaarghmed(m): 5:12am On Oct 26, 2023 |
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He is younger and not ready.abort mission, abort mission.At your stage.you need someone ready .you complained someone wasted your time,dont waste it further.
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| Jewessgratitud3: 6:42am On Oct 26, 2023 |
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What makes you think a 25 year old will be ready for marriage in two years time? Though one can't say for sure. Another thing is... How are you sure what he has for you is true love and not that thing between his legs controlling him? See you can't judge a man's true love by the way he flutters around you because most times they are after sleeping with you and once that is achieved, they move on. For me, I'll say that guy is too young to commit to you that's why he's posting you already for another two whole years believing by then he'll have achieved his aim or you would have given up waiting knowing you're desperate to settle down any moment. Let me teach you a trick ( that is if you'll not call it old school). Tell him no premarital sex. if he truly wants you and you'll wait for him. See what he does after this. If he truly loves you he'll stick around but if he's not serious, you'll see him lose interest. If he accepts your condition, please date him and see where it leads afterall you've not seen another one yet and the age difference is not much. What of me that someone 7 younger is on my case? Just that I don't fancy him if not I don't mind. I'll court him. 1 Like |
| Firebox123(m): 8:01am On May 17 |
Onatounkiki:you leave single men chase married men 
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| Beremx(f): 11:26am On May 17 |
Firebox123:is that why you're resurrecting her old threads just to taunt her? Foolish...ness at its peak |
| Firebox123(m): 11:32am On May 17 |
Beremx:can you advise your blood sister's to marry someone else husband |
| Biqsahm: 11:34am On May 17 |
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My mind Dey tell me say dat guy just wan lash u to fulfill him fantasy but then I might b wrong, ask d guy if he would engage in no sex including no touching before marriage relationship check him reply. Omo!! I just found out dis stuff na 2023 topic .
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| Firebox123(m): 11:40am On May 17 |
Biqsahm:she's now engaged to a married man |
| Beremx(f): 11:52am On May 17 |
Firebox123:I am totally against polygamy but taunting her is unnecessary. I wanted to comment on her post but I felt she has made her decision already no matter the advice you give. There's no need throwing tantrums on her |
| Firebox123(m): 12:58pm On May 17 |
Beremx:👍 |
| Biqsahm: 1:48pm On May 17 |
Firebox123:er u for real bro |
| Firebox123(m): 1:56pm On May 17 |
Biqsahm:Yes brr 1 Like |
| Onatounkiki: 1:57pm On May 17 |
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The only thing left for you to do is flogging me😏
Firebox123: |
| Firebox123(m): 2:03pm On May 17 |
Onatounkiki:lol 😂 |
