NewStats: 3,263,766 , 8,181,344 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 08:28 PM 686f21

Oldnairalanderb:
See now she came back from work and turned the fan away from me.. I'm sweating profusely like in this heat while she turned the fan to herself only . I can't talk. If I beg her to turn it. a bit she will yell at me.

Stress is like poison for a body trying to heal itself. Can you please list all of the particular reasons why you do not want to go to the village to heal?

If your claims are true, then your siblings are very mean. Why would your twin sister not lend a hand in your condition? Even if she lives in one room, she has no excuse whatsoever.

Here is my advice: locate St Vincent de Paul society within the Catholic Church and let them know what you are ing through.

Oldnairalanderb:


The way I wear only one clothe because all my clothes are still in the church. I've not been able to go back and get them since last year April after the pastor seized the keys and didn't allow any one in.

So I wear only one cloth that my idowu brought to the hospital for me before she died.

I wash it plus one she gave me to exchange but she said I'm doing like Im suffering . So she stopped me from going with her.

Wow
That your sister is not a Christian at all, just deceiving herself.

Someone is in desperate need of a place to stay and you guys are busy telling her about God and giving her directions to different churches, mara Nigerians...

As for the op, just because you didn't grow up in the village, it doesn't mean you can't stay there for now... Beggars are not choosers... No one would want a sick stranger living with them and that's the bitter truth that no one will tell you... And be careful because your desperation to living in the city might end up leading you into the wrong hands as many people are wolves in sheep's clothing.

I also didn't grow up in the village, but I love going there whenever I have time because it gives me peace of mind... Nature can be very soothing and healing.

DeeScan:


Do you not just want to go to the village or is leaving Lagos what is actually bothering you??

I don't want to go because they will go and abandon me there. Since I had stroke I've been calling this my cousin in lokoja to help with some hospital bills but he refused picking my calls.

Nobody is in that village. My parents are late he and his family are in lokoja and he was saying they've warned us to leave Lagos and go to the village. He's always saying this even before this thing happened. And this is someone I used to accommodate in my own one room apartment whenever he came to Lagos to buy his goods back then before I had accommodation issues and went to live in the church.
He just wants to go and abandon me there. And I'm still very young to to the village

Kobojunkie:
Stress is like poison for a body trying to heal itself. Can you please list all of the particular reasons why you do not want to go to the village to heal?

Korkor.. nobody is there to take care of me they just want to go and abandon me there because it has always been his wish to see us suffer in the village. His mum was always telling my mum then when she was in the City to leave my father and come be farming in the village because of this she hated my mother and my mom never allowed us to travel to the village often. Now the son is saying the same thing. They have always wanted us to live in the village because they were once'living there but the same people that were condemning us for living in the city started moving to the city and leaving the village. No they've all left and are asking me to go there with no body around. They don't mean well for me.

If I can get a place I'll go and get a job and be managing myself. I'm a bit ok only my left hand is weak but my sister starving me knowing I've not gotten a job yet is what is affecting me. I'm only using my right hand for now and trying to exercise The left hand gradually.

Samantha125:
Someone is in desperate need of a place to stay and you guys are busy telling her about God and giving her directions to different churches, mara Nigerians...

As for the op, just because you didn't grow up in the village, it doesn't mean you can't stay there for now... Beggars are not choosers... No one would want a sick stranger living with them and that's the bitter truth that no one will tell you... And be careful because your desperation to living in the city might end up leading you into the wrong hands as many people are wolves in sheep's clothing.

I also didn't grow up in the village, but I love going there whenever I have time because it gives me peace of mind... Nature can be very soothing and healing.

Nobody is there. They just want me to go and suffer and eventually die. This has been a war between his Mom and my mom. Why my Mom lived in the city with her husband and she's in the village with her children. So I know they don't mean well for me. It's that anger the son is transferring to me and keep saying they've asked us to leave Lagos since.

I think the only people who can help you right now are social workers, that's just my opinion.

Oldnairalanderb:


Nobody is there. They just want me to go and suffer and eventually die. This has been a war between his Mom and my mom. Why my Mom lived in the city with her husband and she's in the village with her children. So I know they don't mean well for me. It's that anger the son is transferring to me and keep saying they've asked us to leave Lagos since.

Samantha125:
I think the only people who can help you right now are social workers, that's just my opinion.

I don't know anyone please help me with anyone you know please

We4all:
If your claims are true, then your siblings are very mean. Why would your twin sister not lend a hand in your condition? Even if she lives in one room, she has no excuse whatsoever.

Here is my advice: locate St Vincent de Paul society within the Catholic Church and let them know what you are ing through.

It's now I know there's no true love among us and I used to think we care about one another.

Please where in Lagos are they located? I mean this church.

Don't you guys have public social workers in your clinics?

Oldnairalanderb:


I don't know anyone please help me with anyone you know please

Allsmilez999:
Pastor wey suppose heal person, na the same pastor wey kick am out.


Sister wey suppose carry am go mfm make them pray heal am, na the same sister shenk am.


When you tell e-d!0ts that there is no sky daddy, their head go wan burst.

One e-d!0t will soon come recommend nspdp.

Anyway,,, “bidness is bidness”.

Get well soon.

My brother the thing tire me. That's why I'm too weak to pray.

This morning now she has left for power must change hands very early . Singing that song I will pray, if I don't pray Satan will make mess of me" . I have tried to pray but I can't with all that is happening around me. No food, and she even stopped buying water. If I dare touch her bottle water I'm in soup. I can't even try it.

Oldnairalanderb:

I don't want to go because they will go and abandon me there. Since I had stroke I've been calling this my cousin in lokoja to help with some hospital bills but he refused picking my calls.

Nobody is in that village. My parents are late he and his family are in lokoja and he was saying they've warned us to leave Lagos and go to the village. He's always saying this even before this thing happened. And this is someone I used to accommodate in my own one room apartment whenever he came to Lagos to buy his goods back then before I had accommodation issues and went to live in the church.
He just wants to go and abandon me there. And I'm still very young to to the village

Maybe they just want you to recuperate there and when you gather yourself up .. you can move back to Lagos ..


You still haven't answered my question

Would you leave lagos for any other states??

Samantha125:
Don't you guys have public social workers in your clinics?

No.

DeeScan:


Maybe they just want you to recuperate there and when you gather yourself up .. you can move back to Lagos ..


You still haven't answered my question

Would you leave lagos for any other states??

They don't want me to recuperate they want me to go and suffer there. I know what I'm saying.

Yes I can leave for another state.

Oldnairalanderb:

They don't want me to recuperate they want me to go and suffer there. I know what I'm saying.

Yes I can leave for another state.

lol ..

What makes you think you'd suffer in the village.


I know people that had issues staying Lagos , then went to the village and found life way more easier , now they're back in Lagos doing better ...


Do you speak your language??

Oldnairalanderb:


My brother the thing tire me. That's why I'm too weak to pray.

This morning now she has left for power must change hands very early . Singing that song I will pray, if I don't pray Satan will make mess of me" . I have tried to pray but I can't with all that is happening around me. No food, and she even stopped buying water. If I dare touch her bottle water I'm in soup. I can't even try it.

.so how then do you survive??

Then where are your social workers usually located?

Oldnairalanderb:


No.

Samantha125:
I think the only people who can help you right now are social workers, that's just my opinion.

Maybe some rands could help her



😏😏😏

DeeScan:


.so how then do you survive??

I skip breakfast and in the evening I go to one woman to eat on credit. The little money a brother gave me here last week was what I used to settle the woman last night for all the ones I've been eating.

Any pure water I get from a plate of food there is what I manage throughout.

DeeScan:
lol ..

What makes you think you'd suffer in the village.


I know people that had issues staying Lagos , then went to the village and found life way more easier , now they're back in Lagos doing better ...



Do you speak your language??

Those ones have their both hands working and intact but my left hand is my problem. It's not working.

No I can't speak my language. But I understand.

Oldnairalanderb:


I skip breakfast and in the evening I go to one woman to eat on credit. The little money a brother gave me here last week was what I used to settle the woman last night for all the ones I've been eating.

Any pure water I get from a plate of food there is what I manage throughout.

So you drink just a pure water a day .




How then do you buy datas on your phone??

I mean if you go to eat out on credit , how do you have the money to have access to the Internet ..

DeeScan:


So you drink just a pure water a day .




How then do you buy datas on your phone??

I mean if you go to eat out on credit , how do you have the money to have access to the Internet ..

yes I just Drank up the one the food vendor gave me last night. Just half. Hopefully she'll give me on credit tonight not eaten this morning just the water.

I used to borrow Data from Airtel and when a brother here now helped me with something I bought airtime to call my Cousin to see if I can come stay with him so I won't continue begging that's how I got bonus data that I've been using. It doesn't consume data that much as I only open my page with it. I don't do other social media that consume data like that.

Samantha125:
Someone is in desperate need of a place to stay and you guys are busy telling her about God and giving her directions to different churches, mara Nigerians...

As for the op, just because you didn't grow up in the village, it doesn't mean you can't stay there for now... Beggars are not choosers... No one would want a sick stranger living with them and that's the bitter truth that no one will tell you... And be careful because your desperation to living in the city might end up leading you into the wrong hands as many people are wolves in sheep's clothing.

I also didn't grow up in the village, but I love going there whenever I have time because it gives me peace of mind... Nature can be very soothing and healing.

THE CHALLENGE, CAN SHE TAKE CARE OF HERSELF IN THE VILLAGE
IS SHE STRONG ENOUGH TO WORK FOR A LIVING
IF SHE GOES TO THE VILLAGE WITHOUT HELP, GET READY TO BURY HER BEFORE YEAR END

Then go ahead and help her without telling her about God and referring her to those useless churches that'll only tell her a flimsy story without any solution.

capnies:



THE CHALLENGE, CAN SHE TAKE CARE OF HERSELF IN THE VILLAGE
IS SHE STRONG ENOUGH TO WORK FOR A LIVING
IF SHE GOES TO THE VILLAGE WITHOUT HELP, GET READY TO BURY HER BEFORE YEAR END

Oldnairalanderb:


It's now I know there's no true love among us and I used to think we care about one another.

Please where in Lagos are they located? I mean this church.

It's not a church but a society found in every Catholic Church. You said you attend a Catholic Church now, and that was why I suggested it.

We4all:


It's not a church but a society found in every Catholic Church. You said you attend a Catholic Church now, and that was why I suggested it.

Ok.

Samantha125:
Then where are your social workers usually located?

Lol...babe, Nigeria is not like the Western world or even SA where there are social workers everywhere. People are asking her to locate a church because there are higher chances of her getting help there.

There are societies, groups, etc... who may be moved by her story and will raise something for her. They do it all the time and it isn't a big deal.

I don't get it, so where can one find a social worker in Nigeria?

We4all:


Lol...babe, Nigeria is not like the Western world or even SA where there are social workers everywhere. People are asking her to locate a church because there are higher chances of her getting help there.

There are societies, groups, etc... who may be moved by her story and will raise something for her. They do it all the time and it isn't a big deal.

DeeScan:


Power must change hand .


My folks no dey ever use an play

yes sooo

Oldnairalanderb:
See now she came back from work and turned the fan away from me.. I'm sweating profusely like in this heat while she turned the fan to herself only . I can't talk. If I beg her to turn it
a bit she will yell at me.

Don't project the bad side of anybody to the public just to gain sympathy.


Even if your sister is guilty as alleged, you aren't in the right to talk ill of her here or elsewhere. She's still the one fending for you even up to this moment.



Focus on the needed help and not the wrongs you think others do to you.

May God have mercy on you.

Oldnairalanderb:
Please anyone who can help me should please come to my aid..I don't want to go to the village. I didn't grow up there and I know no one there.please don't let me end this way.
My sister is also frustrating the hell out of me by starving me even water she doesn't buy in the house again for drinking

Go to d village and start over. There is money in d village o