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A viral discussion has erupted on social media as Nigerian ladies residing in the United Kingdom share their struggles with intimacy and relationships. Many of these women lamented that finding a husband or even maintaining a romantic relationship in the UK has become a near-impossible task, with some confessing they have not experienced intimacy for[b] 4, 5, or even 6 years since moving abroad.[/b]

One expressed her frustration, saying, “There are no husbands in the UK. Even casual relationships are difficult to come by because men here treat intimacy like a luxury.”

Another lady chimed in, revealing how the fast-paced lifestyle and cultural differences make dating harder. She warned single ladies back home, “If you’re thinking of moving to the UK, make sure you’re married before you migrate. It’s dry out here.”


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Should marriage be a priority before moving abroad?

Na so we hear am ooo

But na Dem still dey report and deport husband wey carry Dem go uk

Starzo:
But na Dem still dey report and deport husband wey carry Dem go uk

Because they never experience being a single lady.

That part of the world where men avoid trouble. Women are trouble.

When they get you to marry. They frustrate and get you to live a miserable life.

If you grew seeing this as a man you wont want to fall for any woman let alone an immigrant who wants to use you.

Any small sex can be termed rape.

You have to work to pay bills.

Where is the time to look for knack.

When u are always busy. The small rest time won't be used to knack na

Law favours women. So u will just end up in jail for harraament

Watch how her evil sisters here will change the narrative and claim it is only Nigerian men in UK that are sex starved instead. The oldest witch in nairaland, Dominiq-ue will even go as far as claiming that the person in that video was a man wearing a mask and not another woman witch. Evil gender.

Come back to Nigeria then. There are many cheap men here

Congratulations to all those who have allowed her to use her lie of a headline to gain watch and likes and subscribers. Some gullible one will believe her. Make I come on YouTube too to say there is no husband in Nigeria . Does that make it true. Oya watch, like and subscribe and believe the lie I just posted.

She should shut up and pay for sex.

There are men who offer such casual sexual services for a fee.

Tall, white, short, dark etc. She should choose one and pay him.

You don't value what you have until you've lost it. Dem go insult Nigerian men from January to December, but dem go dey miss us when dem go abroad. See eeh, oyibo life dey totally different. You can't use s3x to get marriage from a white man like most of you do here. You can't even use pregnancy atall because that means you're automatically a baby mama. When it comes to spending, oyibo dey go 50:50 with their partners, so you no fit get 9ja treatment of "a guy inheriting your poverty" because of relationship. Over there, you have to bring something tangible to the table because sex is normal. Hence you see most of our Nigerian women wey be non-virgins aka boreholes crying upandan abroad .
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga until you date a white girl wey love you, na then you go know say your babe for here na dirty.

I hate how you bloggers abuse words.

"viral"

"many ladies"

All because of content

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Check the OP's topics, most go to the FP. Mods think we are foolish. expired format
Kwaruption

Una just started. Na sex starvation be all of you's punishment for every hustling men you have deported.

GistMedia0:
Should marriage be a priority before moving abroad?

Yes and know. Getting a committed partner is easy in Nigeria than UK that many are running after work shifts, more financially independent and their culture that is different from the conservative African one.
My advise is don't let any man take you for a ride. I will rather remain single than let any ungrateful man be f u cking me for free and remain ungrateful

Goodlady:

Yes and know. Getting a committed partner is easy in Nigeria than UK that many are running after work shifts, more financially independent and their culture that is different from the conservative African one.
My advise is don't let any man take you for a ride. I will rather remain single than let any ungrateful man be f u cking me for free and remain ungrateful

Don't you also enjoy the sex?

Come and Carry me to UK I will fck your brain out.
Or come to naija boys dey.

The truth is that nigerian women abroad are the lowest on the list when it comes to desirability for relationship or marriage.

Everybody knows how these women behave. The moment they start shouldering small responsibility the whole world will know. They start to rub shoulders with the husband even kicking him out of the home.

These ladies complaining about konji should go and find clay to mold their husbands since Nigerian men are not men enough for them.

UK people complain too much

Husbands plenty,una pride and greed no go allow una see husbabnd, una dey find the one's with blue ports and IRS. You lots don't wanna date caregivers or warehouse guys

See them, useless infested ashawos....

Bachelor for life!

Nonexisting1:
Watch how her evil sisters here will change the narrative and claim it is only Nigerian men in UK that are sex starved instead. The oldest witch in nairaland, Dominiq-ue will even go as far as claiming that the person in that video was a man wearing a mask and not another woman witch. Evil gender.

The truth is that Black women have a low SMV compared to women of other races, while a Black Man has almost the same SMV as a White man.

A European Man would prefer to date an Asian, White, Latin before an African women.
An Asian Man would prefer to date an Asian, Latin, White before an African woman ( side piece).
A South-American Man would prefer to date a White, Latin, Asian before a African women.

Even in Africa, I'd say that Nigerian women have a low SMV compared to other African women, While for Nigerian Men - Na dem dey rush us.

I think men of other race don't find Nigerian women attractive or worth the trouble, cause these white countries don't play with sex.

Also Nigerian men are wi. All those cases of women being brought abroad, then turning around to ruin a man's life and getting him deported, men are learning the best is to stay away from Nigerian women cause they're the only ones doing that in UK. I don't think any man on Earth wants to deal with that. Modern life is already challenging enough.

Best advice is for Nigerian women to date and marry themselves.

This eight-minute activity that is a waste of time. Wahala. Low IQ human beings.

Achigoxtech:
Come back to Nigeria then. There are many cheap men here

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We are not cheap,sis. Kai, no talk am again

Na lie o

Husband Dey o

ukaface:
Na lie o

Husband Dey o

For where be that?

It's plenty in Nigeria, they should come home

If I come there I go suck breasts tire

Age is no longer friendly aside from age declaration the right age is vehemently speaking,it is worrisome and the advice is candid.

Nonexisting1:
Watch how her evil sisters here will change the narrative and claim it is only Nigerian men in UK that are sex starved instead. The oldest witch in nairaland, Dominiq-ue will even go as far as claiming that the person in that video was a man wearing a mask and not another woman witch. Evil gender.

Such is normal in Diaspora and not only the UK.
MEN no longer rush to cleave to ladies in Holy Matrimony owing to awful experiences they learnt and watched other men suffer. We all saw it coming. It's can only get worse.
My female cousins birthed in the U.S. had to relocate to Naija for a year in order to secure their husbands and it worked for them.

Diaspora Guys have learned it the hard way. Most men I have encountered in the U.S sound bruised. It's gonna take a lot to get healed. Let's all brace up. It's very unfortunate.
I see a lot of successful Bachelors around me but I perceive fear in them each time we communicate. It shouldn't be so at all. We all deserve happiness and peace of mind.
IF ordinary lower animals can phuck at will, humans should enjoy better.

TheBreastSucker:
If I come there I go suck breasts tire

Be prepared for the problems thereafter.
If you don't learn from others experiences, people will learn from yours.