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CandyOps(m): 8:57pm On Dec 31, 2024
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done . Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already ire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

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LOVEGINO(m): 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2024
Na lack of money dey cause all dis wahala. Carry banny go hotel na.

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duduade(m): 11:14pm On Dec 31, 2024
Fix your mind on making money

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Delightsome2023: 12:16am On Jan 01
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done . Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already ire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
You're right about the wey dream part.
Even masturbators who stopped masturbating for weeks do witness wet dreams

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Carazon: 9:01am On Jan 01
Hotel no dey again?
E no go better for poverty grin

Guy, start having money dreams instead of wet dreams grin

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wonder233: 10:27am On Jan 01
Yeah you're right about the wet dreams. It seems the body must secrete the sperms out either way.... Similar to girls having periods.

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Lalami3232(m): 11:22am On Jan 01
cheesy
Thanks for sharing your experience with us, OP. But I think it has to do with individuality sha because I don't experience wet dreams no matter the period of abstinence. Probably because I'm a techie, hence I have bigger bugs to fix than to imagine sex. But let me ask you a question sef: after sleeping with most of these girls freely like "free to air channels", do you think you can trust a woman? Whatever your answer may be, it's fine sha but don't trust to the extent that you won't go for a DNA test especially if you met her as a non-virgin aka borehole.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga today starts a new year. Go online and get a tech skill or crypto or forex and thank me later. You need to earn in dollars because the economy is messed up

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AirBere: 11:23am On Jan 01
grin grin grin

Alright, good story....

Poverty die!!!

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Donchieli: 11:23am On Jan 01
TKO

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Carndidlaydid(f): 11:23am On Jan 01
hmmmmm


the first day of the see what mods are pushing to FP

yeah we know you didnt have sex for close to 2months but failed to tell us how times your helped yourself in shower... you dey massssturbate still clamining celibate undecided undecided
show me a man that can live without sex or selfservice then iwill show a fish that can survive on land

you need help

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RomanGreen: 11:24am On Jan 01
Mine is 10 months cry

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igbosarejews(m): 11:25am On Jan 01
Conji na bas.tard

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StoneLucifer: 11:25am On Jan 01
Alright..
Anabosee(m): 11:25am On Jan 01
Me hate wet dreams o, but as I de abstain from sex, na only wet dreams me dey get now

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VaginaAcademic: 11:25am On Jan 01
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done . Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already ire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
you're 100 percent right brother if you add another month seeing panties hung on the line or a slight nipple bulge can make you cum in your boxers add 2 months you fit start to dey craze for street grin cheesy grin

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AirBere: 11:26am On Jan 01
RomanGreen:
Mine is 10 months cry

With or without soapy. You fit swear say you no soapy for the 10 months?

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HeatSeeker(m): 11:26am On Jan 01
It depends on the frequency of the wet dreams. Once or twice a month is OK, but having it on a weekly or daily basis might indicate there's a problem.

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phemmie06(m): 11:27am On Jan 01
Try dry dreams..... What you set your mind on was what you have in your dreams

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Abee79(m): 11:28am On Jan 01
That wet dream part needs to be studied & understood by every man. The "thing" is designed to be emptied periodically for as long as the man is alive. I think it also has something to do with maintaining a healthy prostrate as one advances with age.

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GuruNG(m): 11:28am On Jan 01
angry

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Hemanwel(m): 11:29am On Jan 01
OP, everything you have said is spot on! How do I know this? Because I am currently in your shoes. Infact, I have not had sex for the past 10 months. And I don't think I will do so in the nearest future. I had sex only 3 or 4 times (between January to March) throughout last year 2024

I didn't consciously decide to go into celibacy oh! Something happened. Trying to get my acts together.

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Revealpanda: 11:29am On Jan 01
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done . Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already ire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
Seems you need an exorcist

You shouldn't be experiencing what you listed rather the opposite.

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Jerrywhite77: 11:30am On Jan 01
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MightySparrow: 11:30am On Jan 01
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done . Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already ire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
Eccl.11.9 - Rejoice, O young man, in thy youth; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy youth, and walk in the ways of thine heart, and in the sight of thine eyes: but know thou, that for all these things God will bring thee into judgment.
Eccl.11.10 - Therefore remove sorrow from thy heart, and put away evil from thy flesh: for childhood and youth are vanity.


Use your strength for something better.

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jojothaiv(m): 11:31am On Jan 01
duduade:
Fix your mind on making money
He might be making money and him fii no tell us make we dey assume say his mind isn't fixed on the benjamins.

Those who are chasing the bags rarely make noise about it, they leave that to those bottom feeders.

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HeatSeeker(m): 11:31am On Jan 01
Revealpanda:

Seems you need an exorcist

You shouldn't be experiencing what you listed rather the opposite.

A physical problem must be solved with physical tools undecided

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DaddyCoool(f): 11:31am On Jan 01
Carndidlaydid:
hmmmmm


the first day of the see what mods are pushing to FP

yeah we know you didnt have sex for close to 2months but failed to tell us how times your helped yourself in shower... you dey massssturbate still clamining celibate undecided undecided
show me a man that can live without sex or selfservice then iwill show a fish that can survive on land

you need help

Na wa for NL mods

My boyfriend can go without sex for months, why I like him because me too I have low libido. Till he completely forgets sex is also part of life. I think some people are truly asexual.

Also generally speaking, after prolonged celibacy the sex urge disappears - hence monks and celibate priests

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ReacherSaidNoth: 11:31am On Jan 01
The economy has forced men into forced monkhood. OP it is like fasting, at first the pain and want is much but eventually it will mellow. The longer you abstain, the easier it will be to resist the urges.

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shortgun(m): 11:32am On Jan 01
Oga go and marry

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caesymore(m): 11:32am On Jan 01
All theses poverty die cartel, no be everybody dey like run show for hotel. The hotel something makes the sex look like a match rather than a romance to me.
I don't know Ops reason for no hotel shaa.

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Mckraz01: 11:33am On Jan 01
LOVEGINO:
Na lack of money dey cause all dis wahala. Carry banny go hotel na.

No mind em
As he abstain from the sex, did he die?
All these boys sef....
Focus on making progress for yourself then women, I mean women will flock around him...

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samuelson06(m): 11:33am On Jan 01
Abee79:
That wet dream part needs to be studied & understood by every man. The "thing" is designed to be emptied periodically for as long as the man is alive. I think it also has something to do with maintaining a healthy prostrate as one advances with age.

Throw more light on that prostate part

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