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I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she ed we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.

She's shy cos she felt she acted out of intoxication.

hmmmmm, i tough as much because now she respect me more and even dnt want to have eye with me. please how can i bring her back to be normal with me again.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
She's shy cos she felt she acted out of intoxication.

Damnnn niggar

She realised you are a weak man

And don't want to spend more time with you anymore

Delay is dangerous....you are wasting her time in offing the pant and insert

SalisuJasper:
hmmmmm, i tough as much because now she respect me more and even dnt want to have eye with me. please how can i bring her back to be normal with me again.

Ignore her,she go come meet you after some time.

Ok weak in what way

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

She realised you are a weak man

And don't want to spend more time with you anymore

Delay is dangerous....you are wasting her time in offing the pant and insert

You along-the-line catch feelings while she was only emotional.

It happens, but be happy the "breakfast" isn't too hot

Nope brother, its not that. i can assure you but shes just shy to see me and dnt believe she can gve me head or something, we are just cool friends and have never for once tell her i have feelings for her

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

She realised you are a weak man

And don't want to spend more time with you anymore

Delay is dangerous....you are wasting her time in offing the pant and insert

i have never even have feelings for her for 1min, she knw say i be bad guh but i no just understand her

phelonrays:
You; along the line got feelings while she was only emotional, it happens, but be happy the "breakfast" isn't to hot

She expected you to tear her pant and damage her womb but you are a simp.

You chop Breakfast before day even Break... This one Fast oo!

VeryWickedMan:
She expected you to tear her pant and damage her womb but you are a simp.

this is exactly my thoughts,she expected you to nack that pussy but you didn't,that breast sucking should work simultaneously with your fingers in her pussy and all will be history.

OP ,OP,OP, How many times I call you?
1) A trapped has been set off 4 u but with Grace u ESCAPED and now you are coming here to show.
2) MY POINT ,What if u had the real thing and U released in her and two weeks later ,u hear I am pregnant .
3) MAIN REASONS WHY U STAY AWAY FROM WOMEN until u have something serious to do ,I Think u are thinking what I am thinking.AND IF U DON'T OYO IS YOUR CASE OOOOOO.
4) IF U HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER WHY NOT START SOMETHING serious and U can enjoy the FRUIT while it LASTS.I REST MY CASE.



MY OPINION. NO SHADES

SalisuJasper:
I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she ed we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.

Guy nawa for you to
Which kind life be this sef

VeryWickedMan:
She expected you to tear her pant and damage her womb but you are a simp.

Lol as I just see this meme I know say na you!!! Very wicked man. I wonder how guys romance,kiss,suck breast and you no go put dick. Nawa oh

Your d!ck dey smell lol

What's even wrong you guys these days...all you think of in this present naija is sex...how do you people even get erection sef...next post please

Mufakirnaqdiun:
She's shy cos she felt she acted out of intoxication.

fernandezisback I'm watching you

EIeyigidigan:
fernandezisback I'm watching you

Brah you free me na,if you get problem with that person then slide into their dm.

Guys are so dumb, they don't even know when they are being manipulated.

She is pulling back so that you pull forward and give her a commitment.

Avoid committing to women that drink spirit, they are impulsive and they can cheat.

Guy apply ( the no rule). Don't call her, don't text her,don't try to check up on her,just don't do anything for any amount of time/days until she hits you up.
She's obviously playing her game by ignoring you to make you look desperate but when she see say you no send her papa again, she will hit you up and when she does,don't react or ask her questions about whatever going on. Flow with the present talks and don't forget to give her a good banging when next you guys meet.

EIeyigidigan:
fernandezisback I'm watching you

This is satanist don't mind the idiot

SalisuJasper:
I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she ed we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.

This matter is simple.
She knew you're a mistake.
She regrets every moment with you. And, she wished it didn't happen.

Next time, spell out your relationship status with a girl; let her know if it's FWB or actual girlfriend.

Finally, op, you're stupid for doing those things with a girl who hasn't accepted to be your girlfriend.

OP, You got Smellysperm, dat's y she is running away!

You went to an uncompleted building to drink and have sex??

Time is money.
If you spend it on things that don't profit.

You will end up poor and wretched all your life.

Meaning : If you use your time for the things of the flesh, you end up as nothing.

SalisuJasper:
I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she ed we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.

Blue86:
Time is money.
If you spend it on things that don't profit.

You will end up poor and wretched all your life.

Meaning : If you use your time for the things of the flesh, you end up as nothing.

SHUT YOUR MOUTH and let the OP be.

If u were so busy with your time, making money,

Wat are doing on Nairaland 10am on a Monday morning?

Did your phone skip the " Meaning " part?

Vinnie2000:


SHUT YOUR MOUTH and let the OP be.

If u were so busy with your time, making money,

Wat are doing on Nairaland 10am on a Monday morning?

It is someone that don't have problem or work to do that will attempt to understand women. Leave them like that o. They are that complicated..

I hope you also ready to become a father. Don't come and start seeking advice on how to abort a pregnancy. That is killing an innocent child. I won't that. U must marry her

Michoco:
Guy apply ( the no rule). Don't call her, don't text her,don't try to check up on her,just don't do anything for any amount of time/days until she hits you up.
She's obviously playing her game by ignoring you to make you look desperate but when she see say you no send her papa again, she will hit you up and when she does,don't react or ask her questions about whatever going on. Flow with the present talks and don't forget to give her a good banging when next you guys meet.

Yes, OP

The no Rule

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

She realised you are a weak man

And don't want to spend more time with you anymore

Delay is dangerous....you are wasting her time in offing the pant and insert

I swear that's how I lost one girl like that couldn't fuvk her that day because she was a virgin penis no enter only for she to leave and block me totally call her tire she no pick I still dey regret sha as I miss that tight pvssy