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Please matured advice though i know that Nairaland is made up of people from different backgrounds.

A friend had issue with his girl around September; he found himself another girl, only for his girl to come back yesterday that she is pregnant and the new girl is also pregnant too.

He intimated me this morning and i was angry with him, the two ladies instist that they are not aborting the pregnancies. I advised him to place both of them on monthly allowance since he didn't deny the pregnancies. Hope this is preferable?

what is there to do but to accept both babies and become a father of 2?! one with the babymama and the other with the gf.... when the babies are born, do a dna test and confirm that you are indeed the babydaddy....et voila, life goes on!

LESSON HERE: you can get a far worse outcome than a std when you have unprotected sex with strangers.

Sorry to say this, your friend is soo fond of raw sex, especially for the fact that he's not even married to them, yet.

Your advice is a good one, but imagine how much he will have to be spending monthly. I pity the guy, his Dickson has given him a ticket for high B.P and slimness if he can't put his mind together.

Life is about choices. Your friend has made his choice.

Acidosis:


Life is about choices. Your friend has made his choice.

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I just hope his former girl ain't lying to him.

MrBrownJay1:
what is there to do but to accept both babies and become a father of 2?! one with the babymama and the other with the gf.... when the babies are born, do a dna test and confirm that you are indeed the babydaddy....et voila, life goes on!

LESSON HERE: you can get a far worse outcome than a std when you have unprotected sex with strangers.

He really messed up but the girls are not reasonable; just because the guy is comfortable, both of them want marriage, this generation is something else oh!

adebayour26:
Sorry to say this, your friend is soo fond of raw sex, especially for the fact that he's not even married to them, yet.

He lost his dad early this year and he is the first son. I believe he impregnated the new girl cos of pressure from family and having partways with his girlfriend. I can't just be specific but two different ladies being pregnant for one man the same year is absurd.

Acidosis:


Life is about choices. Your friend has made his choice.

"This" choice is not good, he is regretting it already.

adebayour26:
Your advice is a good one, but imagine how much he will have to be spending monthly. I pity the guy, his Dickson has given him a ticket for high B.P and slimness if he can't put his mind together.

He is not rich but he is comfortable, this will drain him financially but he must live up his responsibilities.

MufasaLion:
I just hope his former girl ain't lying to him.

She came with a medical result and my friend didn't deny sleeping with her on September before they had issue.

Maobichek:


She came with a medical result and my friend didn't deny sleeping with her on September before they had issue.

They should go and redo it. Medical results are easily doctored. Many have doctored HIV result.

MufasaLion:


They should go and redo it. Medical results are easily doctored. Many have doctored HIV result.

Thank you for this, the whole thing is absurd.

Maobichek:


Thank you for this, the whole thing is absurd.

I dig, bro.

Your friend is a good striker. He will be very highly valued by Conte. I heard that he's looking for good strikers.

Every sin has a consequence. The consequence of fornication is this. Congratulations to him. He will be enjoying double portion until they deliver.

Tell him to eat well so that he can pour enough blood to the pregnancies. Na only him get third leg.

Maobichek:
He really messed up but the girls are not reasonable; just because the guy is comfortable, both of them want marriage, this generation is something else oh!

you gotta blame African culture for that...as it is pretty common in Africa to expect that a man marry a woman he impregnated.

Mennnnnnnn,see double wahala

Op,your friend no sharp at all . As a sharp nigha,he suppose press him calculator... At least he suppose know when he lash that him ex bae..... Guyman no suppose accept any pregnancy easily just like that....... Especially these days when babes dey freely dey do give away... Guyman gats dey careful and calculative at the same time make he for no go raise another's guyman pikin to the extent of even training am to medical school

MrBrownJay1:


you gotta blame African culture for that...as it is pretty common in Africa to expect that a man marry a woman he impregnated.

Hmmm!!! This is not applicable to most of our celebrities oh! Now everyone can't be a celebrity, irony of life.

Maobichek:


He lost his dad early this year and he is the first son. I believe he impregnated the new girl cos of pressure from family and having partways with his girlfriend. I can't just be specific but two different ladies being pregnant for one man the same year is absurd.

Yea, you understand.

Broke up in September, has another girlfriend by November and I can bet my life that he didn't run an STD test on any of girls or did any of the women involved insist on any.

Very irresponsible beings. They're lucky it's only babies they got as a reward for their lack of sense.

Maobichek:
Hmmm!!! This is not applicable to most of our celebrities oh! Now everyone can't be a celebrity, irony of life.

sadly, many people today dont give a damn about "African culture" and instead live in the days of BABYMAMAS and BABYDADDIES.

at the end of the day, marriage is just a piece of paper and you can easily get all the benefits/detriment of marriage, while being unmarried.

MrBrownJay1:


sadly, many people today dont give a damn about "African culture" and instead live in the days of BABYMAMA[/b]S and [b]BABYDADDIES.

at the end of the day, marriage is just a piece of paper and you can easily get all the benefits/detriment of marriage, while being unmarried.

You are conversant with the reality on ground, i must say the truth.

Maobichek:


You are conversant with the reality on ground, i must say the truth.

what's the update on this your friend? Did the women give birth? Did he end up marrying the two of them?

Maobichek:
Please matured advice though i know that Nairaland is made up of people from different backgrounds.

A friend had issue with his girl around September; he found himself another girl, only for his girl to come back yesterday that she is pregnant and the new girl is also pregnant too.

He intimated me this morning and i was angry with him, the two ladies instist that they are not aborting the pregnancies. I advised him to place both of them on monthly allowance since he didn't deny the pregnancies. Hope this is preferable?

he should place them on monthly allowance and also decide who to marry among them.

VTJN:
he should place them on monthly allowance and also decide who to marry among them.

This happened a while ago, he married the one who had a baby boy (his decision sha) and the other one still receive stipends from him.

Beremx:
what's the update on this your friend? Did the women give birth? Did he end up marrying the two of them?

No!!! He married the one who had a baby boy ( his decision oh but both boy/girl child are from God) and the other one still receive "few crumbs" from him.

I wasn't comfortable with his decision because the one that had a baby girl have been with him for over 3 years but he ended up marrying just because of a baby boy (his decision sha).

Maobichek:


No!!! He married the one who had a baby boy ( his decision oh but both boy/girl child are from God) and the other one still receive "few crumbs" from him.

I wasn't comfortable with his decision because the one that had a baby girl have been with him for over 3 years but he ended up marrying just because of a baby boy (his decision sha).

chai it is well o!! Happy weekend to you anyways. Regards to your family

Maobichek:
➜Please matured advice though i know that Nairaland is made up of people from different backgrounds. A friend had issue with his girl around September; he found himself another girl, only for his girl to come back yesterday that she is pregnant and the new girl is also pregnant too He intimated me this morning and i was angry with him, the two ladies instist that they are not aborting the pregnancies. I advised him to place both of them on monthly allowance since he didn't deny the pregnancies. Hope this is preferable?

Hmm... You were friends with an eejit who doesn't know still that using family planning ought to have started from the moment before he began having sex. I advise you to make better friends.

Maobichek:
➜No!!! He married the one who had a baby boy ( his decision oh but both boy/girl child are from God) and the other one still receive "few crumbs" from him.
I wasn't comfortable with his decision because the one that had a baby girl have been with him for over 3 years but he ended up marrying just because of a baby boy (his decision sha).

Nigerian men & women don't treat themselves well at all. And if he should find out that the boy was probably not his baby, he would come crying as if he were some sort of victim in all of it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄