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Olumaeme: 2:50pm On Jun 04
Some of this content creators called lawyers love misleading the public with one sided narrative.

This case went on appeal and the woman won.

The appellate stated clearly that, the person whose name appears on the CoO is the rightful owner of a land unless it is voided. Which means that the woman is the owner of the land.

Let me put a little background, the husband works with FCDA, and the he helped the woman to process the landed documents. All the receipts and invoices were in the woman's names, including communication to the and from the Department of land istration.

Also, let's even think, if you can easily contest a CoO that is not in your name and win, then the CoO is technically useless. It's the highest authority to a piece of land usually approved by the governor or Minister of FCT.

Let's be clear also, that when you are married, and properties were acquired, during divorce, properties are not automatically shared, unless you have significantly contributed to acquiring that property.

Been married alone does not qualify you to have a share, you must show that you put your money to build, acquire or maintain that property, or you contributed significantly to running a family business (tricky), for you to be entitled to a share. Cooking, cleaning etc does not qualify as contribution, so women in Nigeria should know what the law says.

You may read this on oghoyone vs oghoyone (2010), Odusote vs Odusote (2012),
Olumaeme: 9:14am On May 27
Although an 18 years old is considered an adult but the gap is too wide in my opinion. I will personally not date anybody more than 6 years younger, at 34.

When i am older, i wont date anyone less than 30.
Olumaeme: 9:12am On May 27
I spend an average of 800k monthly. Its crazy.
Olumaeme: 9:10am On May 27
Mr. Man, you are playing with your life. This is the problem with you men, you see clearly that the person you are dating or married to does not love you, instead of you to take action and look for how to send her out, you stay there and complain and she disrespect you more and you work without enjoying the fruit of your labor.

My brother, before a woman will be so confident to do those things to you;

1. She is ill mannered - Not well brought up
2. She has mingled with bad friends or allow social media influence her
3. She has seen you finish, you have no boundary, you have put her on a pedestal, you have played mugu for a very long time, you reward her f**lishness with money, gifts and trips and now you can no longer bear it, and maybe you dont even look at another woman.
4. She is cheating on you.

But no matter what it is, Number 3 is the most destructive, and the truth is that you may not be able to recover from it, ever.

I will advise you, Start by ignoring her, if you live in your own house, move out and go rent your own space, reduce the home spending, stock the house with food, and start living apart, and henceforth, do not argue with her no matter what, whenever the family needs something, only provide what they can eat, cancel all holidays and trips, extra monies and all and face your life. If you are a very social person, go out more and have more s*x and avoid her. After sometimes, she will start begging and crying, dont bulge, later she will start insulting and calling you names, Don't Respond, keep your cool, and enjoy your life.

If your kids are old enough, get them phones for communication, visit them in their school etc, but dint have anything to do with your wicked wife. Avoid her and any Drama and i tell you, in no time you will be a far better person.

I tell you, when people think or know you care about them too much, most of the time, it dosent usually end well. You respect people as much as they respect and honor you, its a two way street. Never in your life honor those who do not honor you.

When a woman knows it looks like you cant do without her, she will definitely misbehave.

Your life and well being is as important as anybody, even your children. Dont kpai yourself trying to fend for anybody, worse come to worse, you divorce and go your seperate ways and in Nigeria, YOU DO NOT SHARE PROPERTIES, unless they contribute significantly to buy or maintain it, S*x and Cooking for husband is not part of it, so you no get wahala.

Best of luck to you as you break free from your boundage you call wife.

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Olumaeme: 8:46am On May 27
A man who decides to marry a single man is a man who is finished forever.
Olumaeme: 8:45am On May 27
Klass99:


I think it should be criminalized across Naija to curb the excesses and arrogrance of Naija men when it comes to adultery.

I say this as a single woman who has been at the receiving end of far too many advances from married men. Most of them see nothing wrong with adultery, they make all kinds of excuses and arguments, to justify why it is not wrong.

Some will even argue that it is not a sin, it is an expression of love and feelings between a man and a woman. The way we practice this religion in Naija is too much, we over do it, blah blah blah blah. This is the latest argument I heard from a 60 year old married man grin.

I prayed for the salvation of his soul today. A lot of them think the bible is a joke and God is joking when he lists adultery as a sin. Perhaps making it a criminal offence may help to reset or rewire their brains.

You were making sense when you said it should be criminalized but lost your oblongata when you got to curbing excesses of Nigerian men.

It usually takes 2 people to commit adultery, so it will affect both sexes.

From your assertion, what would now be the purnishement for Paternity Fraud?

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Olumaeme: 5:06pm On May 20
Na Mami water
Olumaeme: 4:06pm On May 20
Uchenna10:


How?

Stop placing bet.
Olumaeme: 12:32pm On May 20
If you want to stop betting, simply stop betting.

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Olumaeme: 9:11am On May 20
Illegitimacy cannot birth legitimacy.
Olumaeme: 10:56am On May 19
RichBoy247:
City Boy has no equal
I agree, in destroying the economy.

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Olumaeme: 11:49am On May 09
dalongjnr:
We are finished in this country.
The court just slaughter the Nigerian people for their personal interest šŸ™„ šŸ˜’ šŸ˜‘ 😐 šŸ˜• 🤦 šŸ™„.

Nigeria is a free market. Prices are determined by forces of demand and supply for most products and Dstv is one of them.

FCC cannot fix price, they are only to ensure competition and ensure value for what consumers pay for.

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Olumaeme: 11:46am On May 09
It's cheaper to eat outside than cook at home and also, save you lots of stress.

I have tested it, way cheaper to eat outside.
Olumaeme: 11:40am On May 09
Why do you think Aso Villa is now planning to go Solar? The tarrif is now crazy.

I just moved into a new place and the area is Band B, and the meter is Band A, they made a mistake. I recharged 20k and it lasted for just 3 days and we dont even have to 10hrs of electricity in a day. I have 2 units of 1.5hp AC with one fridge, TV, standing fans and bulbs.

By calculations, I would have spent an average of 200-220k per month. I quickly ran to them to complain and they changed to Band B.

Band A can't be for normal people.

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Olumaeme: 3:01pm On May 06
Your sibling is not the person your blood relatives but those who have your back and you. Blood is not thicker than water, its a scam.

If Someone has consistently put you down, send them away from your life.
Olumaeme: 2:58pm On May 06
LordBiden:
Still doesn't change the fact that Nigeria is the giant of Africa. embarassed

We have our own indigenous car assembling plants.

God bless the federal republic of Nigeria.

Lori Iro
Olumaeme: 2:57pm On May 06
Your money is gone. Go to Brekete family to recover your money if you want.
Olumaeme: 9:36am On May 06
A lot of people struggle with this, and many have found ways to overcome it—including me. I used to be like that too. In my case, I was more shy than anything else—but not slow by any means. I’ve always been extremely smart.

Public speaking was tough for me, but I knew that if I really wanted to grow, I had to break out of my shell. So I started pushing myself. At first, I used social media to meet people—mostly girls—and went out on dates. The first few were awkward and embarrassing, but with time, it got easier. I also started reading about communication and small talk, and I began working out at the gym, which helped boost my confidence.

The key thing is this: you have to step out and interact. conversations, contribute your thoughts, become part of peer groups. It won’t happen overnight, but with time and consistency, you’ll definitely get better.
Olumaeme: 9:30am On May 06
Mr. Man, stop crying and go to court—present your case, show your reasons, and let the judge decide based on evidence and what’s best for the kids. That’s how civil disputes are resolved. People go to court every day to demand justice—it doesn’t mean they’ll automatically win. Even regular citizens defeat governments in court. So why all the fuss?

Also, let’s be honest—people need to take responsibility for their decisions. The person you marry is your choice. If the marriage turns out to be a mistake, own that fact. Maybe you didn’t see it coming or hoped they would change, but the decision was still yours. It’s like boarding a faulty plane without knowing—it might not be your fault, but the crash will still hurt.

At the end of the day, life happens. What matters is how you respond. Look at the situation, weigh your options, take the mature route, and move on quickly. Dragging the matter emotionally won’t solve anything—clarity, action, and responsibility will.

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Olumaeme: 9:29am On Apr 30
Kobicove:


There is no basis for asking for settlement, it is either she provides evidence to prove her allegation or she publicly retracts the accusations which were obviously made in bad faith.

How can you claim someone sexually harassed you meanwhile the very next day you were seen in public fraternizing with the same person and acting all chummy?! undecided

Agbakoba is not the court. He should take his case to the appropriate quarters.
Olumaeme: 2:35pm On Apr 28
ehikwe22:
Nigerian judiciary is a joke. To death for what? With scanty evidence of abuse, he should be punished but not this ridiculous punishment

You are not a serious person.

The husband kpai her and the evidences was presented in court.

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Olumaeme: 2:34pm On Apr 28
This is very sad, but justice must be served.

I hope people learn their lessons.

Marriage is not by force. If you are no longer interested, please walk away.

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Olumaeme: 11:01am On Apr 21
So?

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Olumaeme: 7:45am On Apr 20
pharmagba:

Really?
Even Abure is more of a leader than Obi
hope no be this brain you dey use cross road
Olumaeme: 2:34am On Apr 20
PressMyButton:
Wailers continue wailing, we like it like that. And as a reminder to wailers, please avoid the road, it is an highway to fraud. Leave it for us, let us enjoy our fraud in peace. If your father has any iota of integrity, you will back up your words and avoid using that road. But we sabi una, na una go call Lagos blue line fraud but rushed it after completion, na una go call 2nd Niger bridge fraud but as we dey talk, una dey use am everyday. Na una dey call Dangote refinery fraud but today, they're the praise singers of the refinery. The biggest clowns in the world are the wailers.



After God, na Tinubu šŸ’Ŗ God bless Nigeria

On top one road 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Olumaeme: 2:36pm On Apr 18
An adult can't take charge of his life, lol.

You started womanizing because you want to stop betting, how does it make sense.

Oya kpai there, you hear?
Olumaeme: 2:56am On Apr 01
Na hunters
Olumaeme: 1:48pm On Mar 30
dettolgel:
These guys are jokers. World Bank projects in Africa are not meant to succeed but to improvise the people using our demonic politicians.

Most international projects are conduit for paying off corrupt politicians and for funding dissidents within the system.

Too many ignorant people on the internet.

Hold your leaders able.

World bank releases money to governments. They won't do it for you.
Olumaeme: 10:45pm On Mar 28
givedemwotowoto:
Didn’t Trump say he was matching tariffs by other countries? If that’s the case, why is everyone so mad about it?

Don't be a lunatic.

Is annexing Canada part of tariff??

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Olumaeme: 12:39am On Mar 27
Is this part of security? 😁😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣
Olumaeme: 9:56pm On Mar 20
madridguy:
cheesy grin grin

The issue here is that Jagaban is always 100 steps of his mates.

Meanwhile, for people saying Jagaban needs 2/3 of the National assembly to suspend Fubara, I think this is a joke taken too far.

If Fubara can present his budget to 4 assemblies , what is wrong in President Tinubu getting 10 assemblies too?

How I wish Tinubu can as well follow the footsteps of Fubara and demolish both the assemblies complexes, denied both the senate and Rep from sitting down and start building a new complex maybe in May and still go on live broadcast and brag without him being the president there won't be senators and representatives.

Then start saying how many of them come to his house to eat on Christmas day, then seize their allocations.


Mugu, Jagaban is always ahead when it comes to breaking the laws and causing pain to poor people not to do something Significant

It's not hard to be wicked.

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