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extremelygolden: 5:52pm On May 22
apprentist:


See eh... I had to type this here cus I've run out of ideas. Don't know who to talk to or even next step to take.
Back then I used to blame men for cheating or fighting with their wife. But now, I'm pushed to do either.

Don't do either yet, and thank you for voicing out, instead of launching deep into the bosom of a strange woman as an excuse.

Have a deep-rooted discussion with her about your concern. Then tell her you're considering taking a second wife to help ease her burden. That you usually feel for her whenever you see her so tired.

When she hears this, Sir, believe you me she'll jolt out of excuses and then sit up to perform her wifely and motherly roles with such an alacrity that will surprise even her herself.

You know why? Because an average woman hates sharing her man with another woman. We hate that kind thing like kilode! cheesy

And don't be surprised when she comes back within a week or two to tell you she has found a business she'll like to venture into.

You don't need to stress yourself any further. Just try the scope above and come back to tell me thank you.

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extremelygolden: 5:32pm On May 22
God please intervene and keep them safe, in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.

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extremelygolden: 10:14pm On May 14
These are the types of questions I love during the exams. Not all those list and explain; what are the characteristics of, etc.

With real life experience questions, I'll naturally pour out my mind, including the personally generated characteristics, lists whatever need to be listed, and score my A.
extremelygolden: 4:57pm On May 12
Picture for the double burner electric cooker. And can it go for N10?

I need Router too.
extremelygolden: 12:16pm On May 03
I tap into your testimony in all the areas answers to my prayers are delayed.

I pray Jehovah Saboath, Jehovah Jireh and Jehovah Rapha to manifest speedily as The God of Elijah in my situation, in Jesus Mighty Name I pray, Amen!
extremelygolden: 6:19pm On Apr 30
Happy birthday, Chioma Adeleke. May God bless your new age.
extremelygolden: 1:17pm On Apr 29
justi40:
My people reached out to me 2 days earlier on same kingship at Ehime Mbano Lga I told them to give me time to think about it, I noticed this days we are all royal we no know because our papa stubborn run comot for house no come tell us true story of our root

While thinking about it, please pray seriously for divine direction and revelation. And if God Himself gives you the go-ahead, then grasp it with your two hands and use it for the betterment of your people.

Don't accept without hearing from God, I beg you. And don't allow anyone pressure you into accepting it, ok?
The Chieftaincy ish, is not as simple as it sounds.

Wishing you the best of luck.
extremelygolden: 9:03pm On Apr 27
CJStarz:

Bia, nwokem, you are confusing me the more

cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

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extremelygolden: 8:11pm On Apr 19
If you did the crime, you do the time. No permanent hiding place for criminals.

Let the Law take it's course.
extremelygolden: 2:55pm On Apr 18
ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me

You need Jesus Christ! Only Him can deliver you from whatever addiction you have.

Rather be addicted in following and serving Christ than in any other worldly addictions that have untold terrible consequences.

I pray you encounter Christ and be permanently liberated.

Please think about it, because there's a way that seems right unto a man, but the end thereof are ways of destruction/ death!

JESUS LOVES YOU!
extremelygolden: 9:55pm On Apr 11
Stolen:
THAT DEATH WAS A CARELESS ACCIDENT.


LOOKING AT THOSE THREE BOYS, IS LIFE WAS NOT WASTED.

Nope! Was rather a premeditated murder!

Think about it.




extremelygolden: 3:56pm On Apr 10
ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_OPV8MHeS4?si=6u7aS1ukphjRH5xQ

The bride refused to smile on her wedding day for over 20 minutes, leaving guests puzzled and stirring whispers across the venue.

Some speculated nerves, others suspected deeper emotions behind the stoic expression

It's a tradition in Bayelsa State where a bride is not expected to smile until her husband and his people (Family and Friends) have spread her enough money. She'll smile or laugh only when she feels satisfied with the amount of money spread.

You can research further. It's not in any way a forced marriage like some people are stipulating.

It's a culture shock.
extremelygolden: 12:08pm On Apr 05
illicit:
Fallacy...

It's not fallacy.

We've such a tradition in my place. The knife and broom can wipe off a whole lineage if truly someone from such a family is guilty of his death, unless the culprit confesses and certain traditional rites performed.
Otherwise, it'll be from one mysterious and untimely death to the other in such a family, until maybe one of them seeks genuine repentance and total deliverance through The Atoning Blood of Jesus Christ.

Even the children of the married daughters of such family, are not left out!

Though they're gradually relaxing some of these traditions in my place, as a result of expansion of Churches and the gospel of Christ, that centers majorly on forgiveness.

And in this same my place, we DON'T cheat on our husbands. The consequences of doing so could be very disasterous.

Africans have deep rooted cultures, so we should rather learn, ask questions, and/or make further research than doubt whenever we read certain stories on the net.

Thank you.
extremelygolden: 6:43pm On Apr 03
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

It depends on where you live, because if you live anywhere where I live in Lagos State, dear brother in the Lord, shops here go as high as N3.5M per annum! Not even a whole 12 by 12 kinda shops ooo. You haven't even talked about other miscellaneous expenses you'll still incur, such as Fittings, Lightenings, Counter to display wares, Local Govt permit, State Govt permit, etc.

My friends abandoned their shops when it was due for renewal and started operating from home.
Shops that you're not even sure you'll be making enough sells.

Those heartless, wicked agents and developers keep increasing rents out of the reach of a common man!
Judgement awaits them!
extremelygolden: 3:34pm On Mar 15
Squere:

I just collected it now. I'm always the one going to collect it. They won't see it again

Please stop lending anything to them from now henceforth. What rubbish! If they come for anything tell them it's not available.

Some people can borrow for Africa, no iota of shame or self-restraint. They lack contentment. Ojukokoro is their second name.

What if there's no one to borrow from, can't they just make do with what they've?

You've tried, jare.

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extremelygolden: 4:37pm On Mar 14
Me? Once I come personally to collect my properties back from you, that's the end of ever borrowing anything to you again! Even if you open my door and the item is staring at you, I'll tell you I was about to use it before I heard a knock at the door. As soon as you step out, I either bolt my door from inside, or take a walk outside.

Patapata if I greet you next time, you can refuse to answer me. It's actually none of my business. I've learned not to allow people stress my life further than it's already stressed, abeg.

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extremelygolden: 10:34pm On Feb 22
GistMedia0:
The prettier, the deadlier. shocked

And sometimes, the dumbest!

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extremelygolden: 10:40am On Feb 22
IBB - The Devilish Evil Genius!

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extremelygolden: 10:09am On Feb 21
[weedquote author=ChizzyBuna Upost=134232444]I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he wil kk loo likel see what he wi buttll do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?[/quote]

That your cousin is he by any means called Clem, as his English name? I don't want to mention his Nigerian name. Because the Clem I know is desperately stingy, even to himself! He hardly wears any good clothes, and he has spent several years in Norway!
Kj he KK
My advice to you, stop ing him for help. Look unto God, the only one who's capable of helping us in times of need. He'll link you up with your helper of destiny sooner than you think.

Read Isaiah 41: 10 - 13
extremelygolden: 10:18pm On Feb 20
Usmanovic95:


Lol , it was actually a satire targeted at pro Japa peeps.His uncle and wife are both imaginary.

Oh! Can you imagine that? cheesy

Thank you for bringing that to my attention.
extremelygolden: 3:27pm On Feb 20
I have a deep cut on my once smooth legs caused by bathroom fall, two months ago. If not for the Grace of God, my enemy's head would have hit the edge of the entrance tiles.

Architects and builders should kindly advise the landlords and developers on safety materials suitable, especially for residential houses, to avert this current bathroom-fall trend, abeg.

May God rest his soul.
extremelygolden: 3:08pm On Feb 20
GenghisCan:
See person boyfriend ๐Ÿ˜

... and future husband for that matter!
extremelygolden: 2:51pm On Feb 20
Restitution?

I pray God forgives you for the terrible thing you did to this nation and her citizens by that annulment.

The annulment of June 12 election is majorly what utterly destroyed Nigeria and her democracy, giving room to looters, embezzlers and highly corrupt, heartless politicians that we have today.

You did us strong thing IBB! You ruined Nigeria by that singular, thoughtless act!

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extremelygolden: 2:40pm On Feb 20
Usmanovic95:


Wait a minute, did you actually read the whole write up?

Distedly, jare, focusing more on the heading and the last paragraph.

Why did you ask?
extremelygolden: 3:32pm On Feb 19
irumole1975:


Yes he did. But heโ€™s supposed to endure no matter what. Real men endure all sufferings from their wives

Not any more. No gender should endure suffering in a relationship. It either works out, or you take a walk.

Your uncle did well by taking a walk,

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extremelygolden: 3:02pm On Feb 19
Can you imagine. He might have gone through hell in the hands of his wife, he then quitely planned his exit.

Happy you've created one.

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extremelygolden: 4:34pm On Feb 18
I'm interested to buy, but your location is far from where I live.
extremelygolden: 3:39pm On Feb 18
sucess001:
This is embarrassing.

A former bank ceo.

This also shows he is the one lying.

Shameless. Shameful.

Allegedly.

Not even CEO, a former Chairman of Skye Bank (now Polaris Bank).

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extremelygolden: 5:33pm On Feb 17
My post since 2023 just hit Front Page! Omo, this is sign of good things ooo.

Egbon mi Seun, ese gan ni.
Mods, thank you ooo.
extremelygolden: 4:29pm On Feb 17
ChizzyBuna:
I envy the prick that deposited akam inside this my crush of 11 yrs cry cry

Congratulations Dear...

Ned Nwoko.
He's marrying her as the 7th wife, and Gina baby is taking none of that! She has deactivated her Instagram , cos fans wouldn't let her be!

POLYGAMY!
extremelygolden: 1:29pm On Feb 16
Greenlandz:
Make them expell that useless olosho girl for that school abeg. Good riddance to bad rubbish

She has been expelled.
extremelygolden: 1:26pm On Feb 15
But the man looks gentle sha. But who knows what happens behind closed doors?
Anyway, let him be investigated. And until found guilty, he remains Mr. Innocent, sha.

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