NewStats: 3,263,858 , 8,181,619 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:53 AM 1h215k

Send him the 10 year child bill and he will run back into his hole. I don't agree with the lying to the child about her identity though because WHEN the truth comes to the light, she will be extremely damaged and traumatised by the lies. I say trick him in to disclosing his address and serve him.

I think the so called prophet is talking about you! Imagine dating someone for 3 years, and instead of bringing bread to the table, you've come to chase away her family and system! You have no financial capacity but the sister who has employed, housed, educated and fed her child is the one tying her whatever? How does that make sense to you? How does her sister benefit from ing her after some man got her pregnant and ran out of her life? The problem your "girlfriend, fiancée, wife" has is useless men complicating her life. Imagine, 3 useless men: baby daddy, you, and now some strange devil that thinks sowing seeds of doubt and confusion is doing the Lords work. Some men are evil smh!

They're both literally fighting for their lives so this could be a deal gone wrong rather than a lovers altercation.
Maybe there's money on the line or something that could change the course of one of their destinies.

papyjaypaul:

Men

Bitch ass men! Stop it!

REGINALD001:
If the poster has his let him email me

Let me reach out to him, shelter and food first, then I will fix him psychologically while we move on from there.

Are you serious? You would invest in a pensioner; for what?

This is a useless old man! He had connections in Leicester for free accommodation and a job and he bleeped it up? This is called learnt helplessness! I salute his wife because Africa gave him the get out of jail card to act a fool but the uk isn't so forgiving. She was able function and prosper so what was his problem? I guess even fools grow old.

They say revenge is best served cold! Let me hear mamas story before I conclude. 62 years old and this is your story! God forbid bad things.

Ex0rrcist:

If it's about 2 hours that's a lot, but not close to 16km. I walk at a brisk pace of 6.5kmh and can only cover 6.7km in 1 hour. Give or take should be about 12km. But that's still a lot, damn. You're really trying. How do you do it for that long though, any special technique? My legs are almost dead after about 50 minutes.

It depends on the weather and the terrain. I live in a cold country and I walk fast by nature so it take me 2 to 2 and half hours to cover 16km. I don't walk straight for those hours it just my daily steps calculated. I might walk to work (45mins) walk back (45mins) and the rest is how much time I spend on my feet. I guess pace matters and I walk pretty fast because I over take people and leave them in the dust 😂

Ex0rrcist:

How many hours you spend walking everyday? How do you measure the distance?

My phone does the measurements. I probably walk for about 2 hours. I do about 25,000 steps. The phone tells me all that.

I'm not gonna lie though! I'm addicted to rice and pasta and controlling my calories is the only thing I could do long term because I just love! Carbz 😂

Nnamdipapa:


I agree with you, I have now modified my diet to make it more Keto while still cutting out all carbs/Sugars and processed food. I did that to get more fibres for my stomach digestion.

This is what my meals look like now for the past one week, I still eat once a day and never hungry in-between meals.

That looks nutrient! You need fibre to move your bowels. I love that you're experimenting and you'll find what works for your body! What you cut out as far as processed foods and sugar is awesome. I think fruits and veg are part of a healthy diet. Carbz are tricky and I think we could do without it but veg and fruits are so good for you especially when you cut out processed carbz.

So? Is there a law against cattle on public roads? They're just cutting through on route to where they are going! In india cows are gods 😂

Nnamdipapa:
6pm, breakfast.

I heard about this diet but I'm against all diets because it may or may not become a fad! I do intermittent fasting so I have all of my days calories in one meal. I hope this works for you long term! I think a balanced diet is the way to go while controlling your calories! I ate 1 300 calories a day in a 1 hour window and I have lost 15kg over 6 months and now I'm eating 1500 to maintain my weight. I love eating once a day but in that hour I make sure to take in fibre, carbz, and protein. I eat fruits because I burn those extra calories by being active. I worry about your cholesterol and constipation on the carnivore diet. How's it going for you in of toilet movements?

DAramis:


It was under a terrible cold. You will never know how painful it feels to experience such. This is someone that always ask me to reach out should I be stranded rather than keeping it to myself or not talking about my challenges.

When I finally did, and honestly needed it most, she ghosted me. The money is nothing as I am capable of doubling it and paying her off later as my request to her was for a loan.

Oh I understood that she ain't shi! I was just caught up with the distance you walked.

DAramis:

Ghost her too. The earlier you get that experience that women are ruthless, the better for you.

I reached out to a female friend about little loan to help me get transport back to home. She ghosted me from 6am till 2pm. I ended up trekking over 1km back to home (Thank God for good health and strength).

I picked my L in peace and move on.

NB: This is someone I have helped alot in my own little way when help was needed by her.

1km is far for you? I walk 16km just for exercise daily! But then again I don't live in the desert so I guess it's the heat that hurts more than the milage.

That's easy! Respect her request and leave her on read! Stop ing her, and LEAVE HER ALONE! It's not brain science duh!

How are you wishing yourself "happy mothers day " if you're not a mother? Everything isn't for everybody! Happy Sunday to you! That wig isn't doing it for you BTW. No offence.

IMEI:


Eid is a day of celebration for Muslims. There are two Eids and this particular one comes at the end of the Islamic lunar month of Ramadan

Eid Mubarak means Blessed Eid. It's a way of wishing someone to have a good one...kind of like saying Merry Christmas

The entire month of Ramadan (29 or 30days) is to be fasted from before the break of dawn to sunset. I.e fasting starts before the dawn prayer and ends with the evening prayer at sunset...roughly 14hrs but the time varies from place to place depending on the sun's cycle (sunrise to sunset)

Fasting involves not eating, not drinking, no sexual intercourse, no lying, no cursing and devotion to worship

On the day of Eid, Muslims go to the prayer ground for the Eid prayer. As regards the prayer itself, only Muslims can pray, but non-Muslims can partake in all other celebrations if they choose to

There are two Eids and this one is the lesser one. In the major Eid, Muslims slaughter lambs

The major Eid is some months away

Eid Mubarak

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless, look at this unexperienced politician, honestly, I thought that this current Prime Minister is more diplomatic than Tredeu, United States is the major Canadian trading partner, the US imports goods worths of over 450 billion dollars from Canada and Canada reciprocated by importing goods 170 billion dollars only from the US in 2024., so if the trade war continues, who will be hit the most? If what I am thinking happens, Canadians will be poorer than an average Nigerian

You are so mistaken! America will suffer because they are the consumers while Canada is THE providers, suppliers and manufacturers! America benefited greatly from Canada so if Trump wants to charge tarrifs then two can play that game! Also, Canada is able to look for other markets while Trump isolates America. Thus is a mad man at work! He is creating friction with his own allies; from Canada, to Mexico and Europe! Trump is a mad man and he will cause a civil war in his country if he is not careful.

givedemwotowoto:
Didn’t Trump say he was matching tariffs by other countries? If that’s the case, why is everyone so mad about it?

Matching which tariff? The man went on the attack against his alliance for the sake of making America first! America will become 1st because it will stand alone! Trump thinks he's the smartest person in the room when he is an absolute slowpoke!

God1000:
Prime Minister Mark Carney’s words are not only justified, they are necessary, Canada has every right to defend its sovereignty, its economy, and its people from reckless Trump and Musk.

Canada is right to fight back, because standing tall in the face of economic aggression is not just defending trade; it’s defending dignity.


Treating your neighbor with contempt and disdain has consequences

Canada is even bigger than US in of landmass, and the lunatic wants to annex the country

America elected a failed reality TV host whose show got cancelled and who then had to seek other opportunities.

Babe! I feel like the world's coming to an end, when the leader of the first world is a failed business man, a reality show star and an absolute slowpoke! This has to be some kind of twilight zone we have entered. May The Most High see us safely through this calamity. Amen

Eid Mubarak to ALL my brothers and sisters around the world. Be sure to make dua for our brave brothers and sisters in Palestine In shaa Allah!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdG8yexgaCo?si=BhADql8YLMkKtU7A

MsJackson:

Thank you for your wise words sir. I read all you said and will do it

I hope you did it since! My sister we had to walk this up.

MatrixReloaded:
There is no need to read your story, in marriage divorce ground in Nigeria does not have any weight in court of law. You only have the right to your kid and apparently if you are unemployed and have no means of survival, then the child will be willed to the parent whom is capable of taking care of the child. In that case you will be the one visiting for checkup et el.
Incase of property, you will not get anything from the man simply because he's still alive and you didn't work for any of his property. I'm only saying this based on the civil side. Move on, there are many fishes in the ocean. Find the bigger fish and feed on your appetite.
Bon voyage

What tribe are you so I could send out a PSA to avoid your plot of land for husbands. I'd hate to be connected to such a hateful, vengeful,and blood hungry people 😂.

You're doing too much bro!

Originalsly:


I hear you ... but this is from one perspective. How about if the family doesn't like the guy for their daughter.... and they did find out the man is worth only 3 sacks.... they don't have to tell him directly they don't want him in the family ...come with 10!sacks ... why should he show up? But I do agree with you that greed has become a major player in bride price..... the character of the man is not that important. And we wonder why we hear so much of husbands brutalizing their wives

Yes they do have to tell him directly! Wdym! This horseplay is unnecessary at a time like this. Everything isn't a sport. That's primate behaviour. To each their own because there are worse things in the world today.

CockPit:


Jarus was online recently and he is a staunch Muslim. This has nothing to do with religion.

We don't know him where we live 😂


It may have nothing to do with religion but it has everything to do with the comment I responded to.

Amumaigwe:


So the only reason for one to embrace Islam is because of Bleep? What a religion.

No. Islam saves you the trouble of explaining no evidence. Muslim men are not online crying about women every day 😂

Tell me she settled without telling me she settled. You're the smart and healthy choice sir. Nobody wants to eat sugar free everyday! If you can find what you like then enjoy please. You're out of the game because that's your choice.

CockPit:


I have no problems and just having fun here. These are hypotheticals ok. I have devised alternatives to navigate the little hiccups. I am only wanting people's opinion and practicing my writing.

What are your problems? tell it to papa.

Bot!

I thought so!

Best of luck.

A friend of a friend brought me here. Happy New year to all my esteemed nairalanders.


1. What qualities do you ire in people?
Kindness, culture, ethics and morals. If you are honest even when it hurts you then you are my tribe. I ire honesty, genuineness, and bravery point blank.

2. What is your super power?

Keen Intuition, clear perception, and the need for normality 😂

3. If you could change one thing about you, what would it be (character or physical trait)?

Character: my lack of patience
Physical: my belly! I want a flat belly with no work!

4. If you could be someone else for one day, who would you like to be? SOMEONE WHO WAS NEVER BORN!

SECOND OPTION:

Whitney Houston (but as a Muslim!)




5. What advice would you give your children or niece/nephew for choosing a spouse?

Female: a man of his word, first strike he's out! And have THE most amazing self esteem and self love.

Male: kindness, comion, intelligence and principles. Those are all you need.

I tried ooo

CockPit:


It means you can neglect your kids welfare, your husbands, lazy around and do nothing in the home and I am supposed to respect that. Try that with your husband and see the outcome.

My problems are FAR from your problems. It's YOU we're studying right now 😂