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Knock knock!
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Philip94:I can only imagine how you feel. Did you go through marriage counselling before wedding? It's a lot helpful when you do. Did you know she was like this before wedding? If yes, then you know she won't change easily to become the opposite. Now, here is my imperfect advice. Sit her down and talk about it. Tell her that what she's doing is trauma response and it's unhealthy for her new family. A good marriage thrives on forgiveness, lots of it because humans will always be humans. She has to learn to forgive you whenever you hurt her, though this won't come easy, you have to make it easy for her by not getting angry because she is not acting how you'd want, rather, you keep begging for her forgiveness every time she claims you hurt her. You will end up being the bigger person, moreover, that you begged your spouse for forgiveness doesn't mean you are small, it simply means you love their company and won't replace it with silence. I hope she heals. Soon. Thankfully, it's in the early part of your marriage, so deal with it now you both, so that by the time kids come, she would forgive them and not teach them malice unintentionally. 1 Like |
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jpawjpaw: Thank you. |
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shantti: You got the drift! |
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asiwaju1981: Elder sir, well done! |
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bbride484: In my case, we prayed a simple prayer that God should help us... Our wedding became talk of town We never borrowed Our vendors offered their best I think you should ask for God's grace...it has a way of fixing things. As for the stress, it's usually there in different degrees but then you need to manage it well, if not you will look very funny on your day. May it be a success. Best regard. 1 Like 1 Share |
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Add this to your wonder... How did he handle hungry lions? 4 Likes |
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Hello people, it has tey o, tho small. I have a little question. Are there records of Bible characters' lineage in our world today? E.g, Saul's family line or Jesus brother's bloodline? Like Peter's generation today, where can we find them? |
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asiwaju1981:The phone followed BODMAS, the calculator followed PEMDAS |
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femi4:Wow... I �� |
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Nothingserious:Do you mean to say PEMDAS? Because following BODMAS will give you android's answer. |
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WoundedLamb:Thanks for your explicit input, but in a classroom setting, the scholars are usually advised to solve from left to right. This will make Casio less right than android. |
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aysnoopy:When it did not follow the BODMAS rule for mathe magical operations involving bracket, exponents, division etc? I think the calculators solution was based on fraction. 6/2(2+1). 6/6=1 It didn't follow the rule. |
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mamagee3: Are you beefing the lady? 1 Like |
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I like the woman's outfit.
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Which one is correct? The calculator or the phone?
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Pic?
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She said: 'I did a very stupid thing 42 years ago and I've regretted it ever since. And all I can do now is love him as best I can and see to it that he's happy and give him the quality of life that he really deserves and he's missed all these years.' Something beautiful happened to me as I read this...as a reflex, I would have cried but no, the above dried the tears and I'm like time fixes things, really. |
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No idea of jobs in Lagos, especially the daily jobs but you can check search engines for jobs in your location. Hope you find something soon. |
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suffering:That's some kindness act from your debtor...debtors these days have willingness to pay but the economy is weak. I like the treatment you gave your body on Tuesday, that's motivational. |
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femi4:Never say never. |
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femi4:I talk am say he go put sansan into NASCO relationship with many... Let me hope that you return, make up and even tie the knot. |
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Bigredmachine:I'll put you in my prayers and I hope something good happens to you ASAP. Don't give up, you will get over those emotions. It will only take a little time and not longer. |
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femi4:Hope David had nothing to do with it? ![]() |
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Sometimes, we share our happiness just because we have a great-to-hear story. It was teachers' day celebration few days back and my boss gave the teachers 350k to mark the celebration. The money was to be shared amongst the primary and secondary teachers but we included the Janitors, s and drivers, who on a normal day were in the habit of exempting themselves from being called teachers. Lol. But once money was involved, they became at-the-moment teachers. We had about 200 "teachers" sharing the 350k and so we all opted for us to get something like a very good household appliance and share it amongst us, meanwhile a lot others suggested that we invest the money and get it back in December and then share it...some key people will not hear that...lol! They however bought each of us chicken. I didn't know how to feel when they handed me my own full chicken. Lol, it's the last thing I wanted. Household appliance would have been the best for me but, "the key people" probably felt we needed protein or maybe they needed to patronise a parent. Regardless, I am just glad that I got celebrated by my boss, who is not the best of bosses but knew to celebrate the teachers. This made me happy this week. So what made you happy this week? Did you leave Nigeria? Did you welcome a new baby? You resumed at your new job? You resigned from an energy-depleting job? You ended a toxic relationship? You got promoted? You met your better half? You got an alert accidentally? Please share. 1 Like |
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Abohboy: ![]() ![]() Height is attractive, yes, but not more attractive than wealth and brilliance. By the way, 5'7 to 5'11 is unbelievably terrific. |
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Originalsly: You made my day! Lol! @the overcrowded ground level and the bolded. ![]() But you know the very short ones will certainly grab a thing on the floor before you, so that's an advantage there! 1 Like |
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I was thinking we could have a based and wholesome discussion on here, but it seems most nairalanders do not engage in discussions, they would rather engage in fights. Or maybe there are no tall people here. 3 Likes |
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Her wins are louder.
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Loyalty is not in a politician's dna.
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Tall humans, share your experiences. I mean the VTPs, the very tall people, ok. Do you get wierded out when you are 6ft plus, and find yourself standing close to someone a full head taller or shoulders taller than you? How do you feel when you stand in a queue and all you see is people's hair? I noticed that most tall people slouch. Is it because they had to bend to look at people or it's a default setting? And does your neck pain you when you had to look down on people more than you look up to them? ![]() Have you ever envied people that are at eye level with everyone? I mean the 5'7s. What's your first reaction when you meet people that are significantly shorter than you? Are you among the 3000 people world over that are 7 ft tall? Do you feel challenged when someone taller enters the room? |
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