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pocohantas:


So because I am a women advocate, I should encourage him to marry her out of pity? He is simply with that girl because the kind of women he wants are not drawn to him YET. When he has the means to attract them or meets one, this lady will cryyyy more than she is already crying. She is always crying and falling sick because he holds all the aces. 💀💀

I understand u sha

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

It's not about spec.
The problem you've is "see finish"
Even if you marry your spec tomorrow, by the time you spend like 2 to 3 years together with her, the same thing will happen to you again.
My advice to you: don't make the mistake of allowing that lady slip from your hand.
Most of the ladies we have today are Gen-z, but you've a good lady, but you're still not satisfied.
Bro, if you break up with her, you'll learn the hard way, in VDM'S voice.

Tell her the truth... but you deserve serious flogging

me her number, na peace of mind I dey find..

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

she not the first you have been doing that to, you are not sincere in relationships, even if you change her to another in 2 years you will say the same. Go and work on yourself . Only a week man those that

AGManuel:
I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

How can you have before you a wife, and you can't recognize it. Do you know how difficult it is to find a wife? Or do you think marriage is about "light skin and big ass"? Even when you marry that light skin woman with a big ass, a time will come in your marriage when you will not feel sexually attracted towards her as well. This is a normal occurrence between married couples.

This is my advice to you:
Marry someone that you will have peace of mind with; someone that loves you, rather than someone you love, then, grow your love for the person in your marriage.
May you not marry the wrong person.

Learn to love who love you.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a when I was low.

I'm just confused.

pocohantas:


Why does it take you guys years to realise you are not attracted to her? And the interesting part is, una no go breakup with the babe o. Let her go, no way. Nna eh!

My sugardaddy is fine. We still dey and you done wan breakup with your own. Naso life be.

Some of us don't want to break up because we pity the girls. In my own case, I subtly the message to her by cutting down on my level of commitment.

Don't worry very soon I'll get married to the one I desire and live forever in peace with her

You don’t sound mature enough to even be contemplating marriage. I’d forget about it.

You're prioritizing fantasies over love and that's why you're not attracted to her. Place a value of that her qualities you claimed she had on her with your emotional sense and you will see yourself over falling in love with her

Baba you never for once love her. Na because una de same level u use her pussy hold body... If you get sister na so person go Bleep her till then tire too... Last last na werey u be

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

Who big nyash help. Will you rather chose peace of or big nyash. Many of you are just confused. Big nyash will also give you a big problem in the future if that's what you're looking.

Jman06:
Some of us don't want to break up because we pity the girls. In my own case, I subtly the message to her by cutting down on my level of commitment.

Don't worry very soon I'll get married to the one I desire and live forever in peace with her

I hope this girl of yours is sensitive to get the message and let go. Many would rather make excuses for the man.

No wahala. I wish you the best in your search. May you find your person and live in peace.

Sonnobax15:

It's obvious you don't love her but only have pity for her in abundance simply because she doesn't have anyone or anywhere to go to

God go give una better would-be wives finish,come share wereys wey go dey parade themselves as senseless bannies for us . Life's really really unfair to some of us,and na why I no go ever go church again be that

Bro calm down 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Check yourself. Like minds attract each other. Search well and pray also. You go see your spec
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

YoungBTCxchange:
As I am right now, no matter how woman take fine reach, I will always be tired of her
That's my main problem now" I can't even spend a week with my girlfriend without getting tired of the sex, sometimes I think I have a problem somewhere because how am I going to stay with my wife for years in marriage.
I always tell any girl I like so much to always cover her body and we should not be having sex almost very day when she comes visiting so that my sex urge towards her won't die.
My best friend said maybe I'm that way because I have so many sisters so I'm used to women unclothedness,

Do you watch porn before?

AGManuel
I want to ask you two questions:

1. If you were asked what country you would like to to travel to for holiday for a month and come back to Nigeria, what country would you choose?

2. What if you're to choose a country to travel where you're never coming back, which one would you choose?

You will think harder for number 2 if I am correct?

In marraige, you're never coming back. It is the long haul. So think carefully. It is no longer boyfriend and girlfriend.

What I can say is, you need to move closer to GOD, then all this will be forgotten, and moreso, try and get a counsellor or therapist, it will definitely help you also. GOD bless you.
Shalom!!!

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

A girl that's EVERY MAN'S DREAM but you're not sexually attracted to her
Weyrey OPONUU
I guess you're allien or special.
Keep foóling yourself in your lies and stupidity

That girl probably has body odour and / or she's DIRTY...

I'm 100% sure that girl is not beautiful or the evil spirit of homosexuality has entered your soul.
That's all.

I want to ask a question,how many of you can marry a woman that has all this good quality but limps

Better be careful, God has given you rest of mind ,u want look for problems.

E go reach one-time in marriage, breast and yansh won't appeal to you but character.

When I started dating my current fiancée there is this prayer I always prayed

I said God abeg let me loved and lust after this girl. I want to be attracted to everything, her boobs, her ass, her face, her laughter, her dressing everything.

Lol, it sounds funny making such immoral wishes but I actually did wish for that.

Fast forward down the line, everything about this relationship has been great. No quarrels, no fighting, great sex.

I don't even know what another lady's thighs look like talk more of cheating. Another girl is not attracted to me. Every other lady is seen as regular lady, only my fiancee is the real deal.

When you see a good woman in this our generation, there are certain fantasies that will naturally die off and you only want to be with her and keep her.

Oga, what do you mean by not sexually attracted to her. Must you be having sex with a woman everyday?
I want you to know that peace of mind is what every man is looking for. But if you have gotten one and you are it sexually attracted to her, good luck to you.

Oga, what do you mean by not sexually attracted to her. Must you be having sex with a woman everyday?
I want you to know that peace of mind is what every man is looking for. But if you have gotten one and you are not sexually attracted to her, good luck to you.

AGManuel:
I'm sorry for being an ingrate. Thanks I'll work on myself.

Please marry that your exact spec and let her go. It’s not fair that for the rest of her life, she will remain married to a man that doesn’t truly desire her.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

My guy don't be confused, you better marr that lady because is good. You go come see big nyash with problems wey big person . Fine girls wey get problem full ground, every day your house will be US and Iraq war . Marry her because she will give you peace of mind . If she nor dey attracted to you , leave it with time you will thank God for her. Abeg marry her ooo

I believe God will give her better person. If u marry her out of pity, you will regret it cos sexual urge will die patapata after she put to bed. So let her go.

Don't lose a good woman because of what you think she's not—whether it's about her fairness, color, or any other superficial traits. Her character is rare and is the deal breaker, and it seems like she truly cares for you. Learn to love, desire and care for her. A relationship with a woman of such great character can lead to lasting happiness. Just marry her and move forward. You may not easily find that same character in someone who looks different or your supposed spec, and how long are you going to keep searching? Many might pretend, but this is someone you've been with and have already overcome those early relationship challenges and she knows how not to cross your path. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. The choice is yours.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

In this matter it's you that need to grow up. Get your head rewired to think what is most important.
So because of ass you want to throw away a good girl?
Good girls are hard to come by.
If ass is still your criteria for choosing a wife then you aren't mature enough to marry yet.
Work on your self to embrace the real things and stop chasing fantasies like ass please.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

You said she is chocolate/brown skin
You said she is a good girl and has no fault (I no believe this one)
Since you are not attracted to her, drop her number make I help you. You na my brother, make I help you wash am.

YoungBTCxchange:
As I am right now, no matter how woman take fine reach, I will always be tired of her
That's my main problem now" I can't even spend a week with my girlfriend without getting tired of the sex, sometimes I think I have a problem somewhere because how am I going to stay with my wife for years in marriage.
I always tell any girl I like so much to always cover her body and we should not be having sex almost very day when she comes visiting so that my sex urge towards her won't die.
My best friend said maybe I'm that way because I have so many sisters so I'm used to women unclothedness,

You don't have a problem, they just don't have anything to offer apart from sex. But there are few who are more fun to be with.

You don't value sex, you value other things greater than that.

This days I no dey value sex again.

AGManuel:


I didn't ask for insults but thank you.

Ode