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alizma:
➜She can leave, someone, probably better than her will marry him. Sometimes some people just think they are above certain challenges.
➜ What will be her reason for quitting especially if the guy is ok and caring?

It isn't that they think but that they are. Not everyone can handle a situation like this, and rightly so. There are people who, after learning of their mental illness, and the potential of it debilitating their lives, chose not to even burden anyone else in that they decided it was best not to get married or have kids at all. That is how serious it can be.

2. Mental illness is not something to be trifled with. You and I know this for a fact since we have at least seen families devastated by it.

Kobojunkie:
Your mental health and/or medical history is not just your past, but the potential future of your children. Don't ignore it!

No be my fault chief
Na so that gender dey tell us also

thesicilian:
➜No be my fault chief Na so that gender dey tell us also

Stop deceiving yourself! Did that gender invent mental illness and medical problems? 🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Stop deceiving yourself! Did that gender invent mental illness and medical problems? 🙄🙄🙄

Lol.
Guy u be odoyo o
You can never recognize sarcasm even if it stands in front of you wearing a red hat and carrying a placard with I AM SARCASM boldly written on it.

thesicilian:
➜Lol. Guy u be odoyo o You can never recognize sarcasm even if it wears a red hat carrying a placard with I AM SARCASM boldly written on it.

This matter happens to be that serious to me!

Fake Gossip!

Hezzyluv:
Lol...

She fit swear with amadioha or ogun that she never knew the guy ran mad before until lately?

Madam, tell us the truth. Your husband has no money as he used to. Hence, your excuse for wanting to quit.

If the guy has money, even if he's in chains as a result of madness, she will say, I married my husband because I love him.

oga no b Everything b money abeg

The lady might b scared it can reoccur again or might affect one of her kids.

U people just place too much value on money, calm down now

All these lie lie on Twitter

Chilipepper:
Awka lady finds out her husband was once mentally unstable and lived on the streets for 2 years — now she wants out of the marriage.

There Was a Gov of the NW who was once in that Situation when he was Young
The people of his hometown will confirm that to you

I can't believe I'm going to say this, but I actually agree with you for the first time in history on nairaland.

In marriage, Party A has a duty to disclose to Party B any condition which is likely to impact negatively on the long term survival of the union they are about to enter into.
This is what what informed consent means.

Kobojunkie:
Well, she has a right to want out of the marriage. No point arguing about that.

Kobojunkie:
You aren't making any sense! What does point 3 say that you should be upset with? I am having a hard time following what you have here.

A person's dirty past is that person's private business(point 3) yet she wants to abandon him for one of those dirty past(point 2), isn't that contradictory? Like you said there's no law against it but what could he have done to avoid such issue?

If it was private like you said then he did not need to disclose but if point 3 is flawed then she has every right to be upset......CATCH 22

Dronedude:
Didn't she love him?

Women dont love men.... Marriage is for benefit of the woman only

abbey621:
✓ A person's dirty past is that person's private business(point 3) yet she wants to abandon him for one of those dirty past(point 2), isn't that contradictory? Like you said there's no law against it but what could he have done to avoid such issue?
✓ If it was private like you said then he did not need to disclose but if point 3 is flawed then she has every right to be upset......CATCH 22

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

For the umpteenth time, your Mental Health history and your medical record ARE NOT your dirty past nor are they anything to be ashamed of.

2. Your medical and mental health history may be private to you as an individual but they should not remain that way when you become married or intend to procreate.

Christistruth02:
✓ There Was a Gov of the NW who was once in that Situation when he was Young
The people of his hometown will confirm that to you

Did he at least get treatment before his people made him governor? Nevermind! 😅😅

Who's beginning her to stay,.. she wants to go back to mads ones that are not ready to marry her.. Nonsense...

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Dronedude:
Is he rich now?

Isn't him normal now?

Is mental illness hereditary?

The questions that came up after seeing this post.

Kobojunkie:
Well, she has a right to want out of the marriage. No point arguing about that.

You know you have a problem ko?

Wahala everywhere

Hezzyluv:
Lol...

She fit swear with amadioha or ogun that she never knew the guy ran mad before until lately?

Madam, tell us the truth. Your husband has no money as he used to. Hence, your excuse for wanting to quit.

If the guy has money, even if he's in chains as a result of madness, she will say, I married my husband because I love him.

Lol

So why are you telling us?

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

For the umpteenth time, your Mental Health history and your medical record ARE NOT your dirty past nor are they anything to be ashamed of.

2. Your medical and mental health history may be private to you as an individual but they should not remain that way when you become married or intend to procreate.

So the number of abortions or infections a lady had in the past should be disclosed? Just want to make sure we're on the same page because I agree with your statement they SHOULD ALL be disclosed!

Is this real ? So the man walked around nakeed for 2yrs.

Kobojunkie:
This matter happens to be that serious to me!

Understandable, judging from your name.

abbey621:
➜So the number of abortions or infections a lady had in the past should be disclosed? Just want to make sure we're on the same page because I agree with your statement they SHOULD ALL be disclosed!

Use your head! Can such information impact your future health or the health of your children? If so, then yes!

APOPTOSIS:
Nothing serious since many Nigerians are mad naaa. The ones roaming the streets of Nigeria just need endorsement from Psych hospitals, nothing more.

Oshe... No be lie, all of us dey kolo codedly.. na who him owe obvious Dem dey call mad man/woman 😎

Nigerian politicians are mad ..🤔

3kay945:
Is this real ? So the man walked around nakeed for 2yrs.

Nothing for him to be ashamed of, however it is also not something to hide from a potential spouse. There are so many children out there born with mental conditions that could have been avoided if parents were at least aware before having children, or treated them well before having kids. Worse, there are many stuck in marriages with mentally ill individuals, conditions that were hidden before the marriage from them.

Kobojunkie:
Use your head! Can such information impact your future health or the health of your children? If so, then yes!

Yes and that confirms the irrelavancy of point number 3, there's nothing private when it comes to two people in a marriage......I REST MY CASE

Chilipepper:
Awka lady finds out her husband was once mentally unstable and lived on the streets for 2 years — now she wants out of the marriage.

Those judging her based on love, and money, will you do better if you were in her shoes? Most Nigerians and their judgemental mentality!

If they were to be in her shoes they would have dust their shoes, and took off without looking back!