NewStats: 3,264,658 , 8,184,365 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 10:01 PM 10a6m

LoneSoldier:
There is no life more sweeter than a bachelor's life....

From the way I see this, the woman's family is cursed, it is a hereditary syndrome at play here.... Imagine for four years the woman has been giving this innocent man discomfort all in the name of marriage....

Tufiakwa....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

No way, l will call your family tomorrow, you must get married next month otherwise we will arrest you, Haha 😂

Kobojunkie:
If you discover your true self and purpose, marriage and breeding lose relevance.

Why are you always against marriage? Even when gaybriel and lessy dey marry

He regretted not listening to his friends and church , who warned him against the union.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing spiritual about marriage which instead, like every other relationship, is a battlefield for both the man and woman to express their individual whims.

2. Nothing like pluses... as they are the basis of all that an individual is able to express either in or outside of marriage.

My guy never understand life... i talk am say them don westernized you. Keep speaking English there

We4all:
Fear deeper life church . I pity those who get married to people they percieve as christians. They are always in for a rude shock.

Very wrong. You are wrong.
Being a Christian doesn't excuse you from getting the required knowledge on marriage.
She is deficient of marital law and ways.
A man who once you claimed loved you all of a sudden hated you. Something must have happened. Maybe she had lied all this years that she was a virgin.

Gboom:
➜Why are you always against marriage? Even when gaybriel and lessy dey marry

. Why do those who reason as you do insist that stating the facts regarding marriage means one is against marriage? Why so insecure?

AKWATGOLD1:
The particular woman in this story is devil incarnation.

You know her personally?

We4all:
Fear deeper life church . I pity those who get married to people they percieve as christians. They are always in for a rude shock.

Oh really?

Tell me more

dapadawee:
➜Very wrong. You are wrong. Being a Christian doesn't excuse you from getting the required knowledge on marriage. She is deficient of marital law and ways.
➜ A man who once you claimed loved you all of a sudden hated you. Something must have happened. Maybe she had lied all this years that she was a virgin.

Nonsense! Christianity, the cult of Deeper Life included, focuses on ensuring that gullible followers lack this required knowledge on marriage you speak of. For instance, rather than openly explain that marriage is an agreement requiring the man and woman to negotiate their wills as partners in business are meant to, your churches teach that the woman is to basically close herself off — submit her will — to the man, an arrangement that can only exist between a master and a slave and not a marriage.

2. Humans are notoriously fickle... this is common knowledge. And no human can read the mind of another human. If the woman had, according to you, lied that she was a virgin, does that then give him the impetus to cause her harm or make her life miserable? Come on naw! You people have brains... use them!

It's obvious who the real devil is. Her father, her friends and work colleagues can't all be against her at the same time and there's enough evidence with the husband, her friends, her dad. Any family u see the dad docile, relegated to a mere figure head or being heavily manipulated by his wife, baba no enter ooo, just run as fast as u can from the daughter. That's a family overrun by Jezebel's forces. She said the MIL hit her and she started having issues, only she said she had two different diseases too. Its so obvious she's trying herd to give the husband a bad name and her mother is most likely a witch. How can mother and daughter gang up against the father to get him sacked from work lol. Na wah and some useless females are pretending they could not read all the facts but they are ready to go with her statement only when her own father, her husband, her friends from way back, her colleagues all say same thing about one person (Her). I was already pitying her reading only her story only to see the husband's submission and then her own father's.

Grow up marriage is not old fashion… you won’t understand how great is marriage until u click old age… don’t worry you will learn the hard way…

GRAMMARJAMES:
baby mama is the real way to go.. marriage is old fashioned

lordm:
Leave a wayward life alone

This is the foundation! But many would leave the cause and focus on the symptoms.

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

No....that's a wrong generalization!

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Christianity, the cult of Deeper Life included, focuses on ensuring that gullible followers lack this required knowledge on marriage you speak of. For instance, rather than openly explain that marriage is an agreement requiring the man and woman to negotiate their wills as partners in business are meant to, your churches teach that the woman is to basically close herself off — submit her will — to the man, an arrangement that can only exist between a master and a slave and not a marriage.

2. Humans are notoriously fickle... this is common knowledge. And no human can read the mind of another human. If the woman had, according to you, lied that she was a virgin, does that then give him the impetus to cause her harm or make her life miserable? Come on naw! You people have brains... use them!

Well that is the answer to a successful marriage. If no marriage in your family succeed that doesn't mean it is not successful in others.
Woman is to submit and man is to love. However, if one party fulfil this condition even if the other does otherwise the marriage will stand. The girl mother also left her father, if she had wisdom she ought to know that she must do everything to break that circle. Well I pray the twin breaks it.
It is spirit thing your canal mind will never understand. All the same good luck

Dogalmighty17:
There is only one rule. Never get involved with any woman not in good with her father or any woman whose father left the mom.
She will be a contentious woman to you and will make your marriage hell. They are naturally rebellious and will take out that anger of not having a father around on you.

That one dey...except the one wey truly know Jesus. I said truly o.

omo

No. But the woman's father , the nurse and her school friend's points to the fact that she devil incarnation. Also, the steps she and her mother went to the husband workplace to lodge a complain in other to ensure the husband is sacked and the guy quietly resigned.

Warrior99:
You know her personally?

LoneSoldier:
There is no life more sweeter than a bachelor's life....

From the way I see this, the woman's family is cursed, it is a hereditary syndrome at play here.... Imagine for four years the woman has been giving this innocent man discomfort all in the name of marriage....

Tufiakwa....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

Yet, bachelor's will be rushing to be tied. It's why Paul would say, "it is better not to marry...but if you must..."

Talismann:
when we tell men to avoid marrying a girl raised by a single mum, it seems we are wicked.

They may tell you their father was a demon, trust me even if he is a demon, that is not a girl you should marry. Why? Because her mom will have filled her with hate towards men and trust me, you don't wanna settle with a woman who has daddy issues.

It never ends well for the man.

You may chose to pity her and marry her out of pity, but your life will be a wreck. You cannot escape it Mr man.

Edit: it even goes deeper than avoiding a girl who was raised by a single mum. Even if both parents are together and the mother calls the shots in the house and you notice the father doesn't have a voice, better run for your life Mr man. It will end in tears for you if you marry a girl from such setup.

Doubt this at your own d00m

Seconded; but at the risk of ing a stereotype!

zoedew:

When a man is your sunshine it is bound to get dark very soon! Sooner than expected!

How about when a woman is your sunshine?

dododawa1:


https://punchng.com/lagos-couple-in-messy-divorce-battle/

Anyone who reads through this deserves an award...

Thank God say I don block Kobojunkie, I no longer have to scroll and scroll past redundant comments.

May God save us from women

Background check is very important,
Love no blind open Ur eyes wella

Marriage 👰‍♀️💍is not something you rush into or you will rush out.

Take time to court/know your partner before saying I do.

Importantly go for thorough deliverance/spiritual check up before marriage.

Sorry guys, for those of us in naija and at home right now, there's a Yoruba Nollywood movie being aired right now on Trybe TV channel. We can learn something from it. It's about marital ups and downs and wife battering. There's subtitles in English.
Lol, although, this movie paints the men out to be the wicked ones, but I see reasons why it's kind of valid. Let's all learn from others people' marital mishaps.
One man beats his wife daily and lies to her father that they do not ever quarrel. Another man wants a fine young muchacha lady to carry a pregnancy for him (we wants to use her and discard afterwards) without first agreeing to marry her and planning a wedding.

OP, sorry for your marriage troubles. 🙏
Modified: ' Forgiveness ' is the title of the film.

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

Very true my dear. Deal with them with much wisdom. Very manipulative set of people. Both the his and hers.

ibechris:
Marriage is very complex...if u are not prepared for it,it would wreck and finish u completely.

^^^

Marriage is a scam. Baby mama is the answer