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BigBlackPreek(m): 7:45am On Feb 11, 2024
Hello everyone,

I just want to know if there are people in my category,especially guys.

Do not be confuse by my moniker as I created it for my side hustle, yeah I could be a bad boy on nairaland but in reality I'm a chronic introvert that never had a girlfriend

You will be shocked when you meet me for the first time by extreme quiteness and may think I'm annoyed with you or you may be wondering if is same guy on nairaland that portray himself as a bad boy .

I am an extreme introvert andeverybody is complaining, I don't really have friends and Iam ok that way,just that my family and friends are beginning tocomplain,they believe I should have outgrown this"quietness". I don't knwo if I should panic...Pls house,is thereanything wrong with keeping to myself?

I need your suggestions please

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adesegun121(m): 7:58am On Feb 11, 2024
Ok
fati2001(m): 8:08am On Feb 11, 2024
Drop ur bad boy shits so that I can be your girlfriend.
😉

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Coder2Client(m): 8:09am On Feb 11, 2024
I'm an introvert as well but I dey roll when I am supposed to and be quiet when I am supposed to.

I'm a very reserved person and I like it like that.

The bad side of it is you suffer silently during suffering phase and enjoy life silently in that phase, too.

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Solofresh2: 8:13am On Feb 11, 2024
I am an introvert too.I move alone I do things alone especially now that I stay alone.There is this lady who is trying to get into my private life but I blocked her,even though I like her.
The funny thing is I can actually be extroverted if I choose to. I stay indoor on weekends except I go greet my family or I have important events to attend to.

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BigBlackPreek(m): 9:42am On Feb 11, 2024
fati2001:
Drop ur bad boy shits so that I can be your girlfriend.

😉
lol are you for real
BigBlackPreek(m): 9:50am On Feb 11, 2024
Coder2Client:
I'm an introvert as well but I dey roll when I am supposed to and be quiet when I am supposed to.

I'm very reserved person and I like it like that.

The bad side of it is you suffer silently during suffering phase and enjoy life silently in that phase, too.
you're so right in your last paragraph
this people thinks my parents are rich or I have well-to-do relatives which is a testemrnt of their incessant begging on the streets the drinking and smoking ts, they always want me to give them something or buy them things of which I normally do and atimes o use to think this people think say na everytime I dey get money lol
fati2001(m): 9:56am On Feb 11, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
lol are you for real
Yeah, let's click. 😃

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okunwaye(m): 11:29am On Feb 11, 2024
being self sufficient stops all this shit

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luminouz(m): 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know if there are people in my category,especially guys.

Do not be confuse by my moniker as I created it for my side hustle, yeah I could be a bad boy on nairaland but in reality I'm a chronic introvert that never had a girlfriend

You will be shocked when you meet me for the first time by extreme quiteness and may think I'm annoyed with you or you may be wondering if is same guy on nairaland that portray himself as a bad boy .

I am an extreme introvert andeverybody is complaining, I don't really have friends and Iam ok that way,just that my family and friends are beginning tocomplain,they believe I should have outgrown this"quietness". I don't knwo if I should panic...Pls house,is thereanything wrong with keeping to myself?

I need your suggestions please

Mtchewwww..
So you pretend?

Who will ever take you serious?
Nicepoker(m): 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
lol are you for real
Na lesbian o. grin you better run

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Colson(m): 1:36pm On Feb 11, 2024
Most nairalanders are introverts...

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ITbomb(m): 3:52pm On Feb 11, 2024
Yeah, a lot of you guys here, especially in the red pill section.
Forming commando here and weakling in the streets
BigBlackPreek(m): 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2024
Nicepoker:
Na lesbian o. grin you better run
lol but indeed Fati001 gender dey confuse me o whether na man or woman I no even sabi
BigBlackPreek(m): 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2024
Nicepoker:
Na lesbian o. grin you better run
lol but indeed Fati2001 gender dey confuse me o whether na man or woman I no even sabi
BigBlackPreek(m): 4:22pm On Feb 12, 2024
fati2001:


Yeah, let's click. 😃
oya nau send me a direct message to the number on my signature if you mean ham lego!
Lance008(m): 4:48pm On Feb 12, 2024
I be bad boy introvert
You been at introvert shouldn't deprive you from getting girl frd or other stuff
Introvert are quite and mostly do their stuff alone
Lucifyre: 7:48pm On Feb 12, 2024
Most of you have access to the internet yet can't simply check out for yourselves what introversion is, claiming nonsense as introversion, quite sad. You've got anti social issues and extremely poor social skills that's not introversion.
Illegal1(m): 9:59pm On Feb 12, 2024
Lucifyre:
Most of you have access to the internet yet can't simply check out for yourselves what introversion is, claiming nonsense as introversion, quite sad. You've got anti social issues and extremely poor social skills that's not introversion.

omoh.........abeg tell us, who's an introvert?
UptownVibes(m): 10:20pm On Feb 12, 2024
ITbomb:
Yeah, a lot of you guys here, especially in the red pill section.
Forming commando here and weakling in the streets
Introversion is not weakness.. Being Lousy(extroverts) doesn't make you powerful either. Be wise!

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Lucifyre: 10:37pm On Feb 12, 2024
Illegal1:


omoh.........abeg tell us, who's an introvert?

You've got internet access right?? Tell me what u find, ill add to it.
Lucifyre: 10:45pm On Feb 12, 2024
UptownVibes:
Introversion is not weakness.. Being Lousy(extroverts) doesn't make you powerful either. Be wise!

How does extroversion = lousiness 🤦🏽. Confidence in ignorance.
UptownVibes(m): 12:20am On Feb 13, 2024
[quote author=Lucifyre post=128427848]

How does extroversion = lousiness 🤦🏽. Confidence in ignorance. [/quote

My auto correct made it lousy. I typed loudy,so don't be st*pid. And I repeat,being Loudy doesn't make you powerful...
BigBlackPreek(m): 7:13am On Feb 13, 2024
[quote author=UptownVibes post=128428630][/quote] yes o, in this part of the world the lousy ones are seen as powerful
UptownVibes(m): 7:20am On Feb 13, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
yes o, in this part of the world the lousy ones are seen as powerful
"Loudy"
But in reality,must of them are just empty vessels. You see them telling lies about almost everything, because they talk too much.. And again people mistake social anxiety as introversion. Social anxiety is a condition, that should be worked on by the op.
Lucifyre: 7:27am On Feb 13, 2024
[quote author=UptownVibes post=128428630][/quote]
Evidence of a shallow mind, insults come easier than defending the point. Then again how does extroversion = "loudy". Hubris.
UptownVibes(m): 8:06am On Feb 13, 2024
Lucifyre:

Evidence of a shallow mind, insults come easier than defending the point. Then again how does extroversion = "loudy". Hubris.
You got exactly what you deserved,and I can see that you're at sea.
I'm not the cause of your melancholic mood o cheesy..
I'll advice you to go and look for solution to your problems, and stop messing around here... Bye!
Lucifyre: 8:50am On Feb 13, 2024
UptownVibes:
You got exactly what you deserved,and I can see that you're at sea.
I'm not the cause of your melancholic mood o cheesy..
I'll advice you to go and look for solution to your problems, and stop messing around here... Bye!


Go educate urself instead of embarassing urself confidently spouting dross. 😕 Na really "loudy".
UptownVibes(m): 12:39pm On Feb 13, 2024
Lucifyre:


Go educate urself instead of embarassing urself confidently spouting dross. 😕 Na really "loudy".
Type Loudy for Google make you see why your first name is Nit.wit.
fati2001(m): 8:37am On Feb 16, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
lol but indeed Fati001 gender dey confuse me o whether na man or woman I no even sabi

You still want gaya abi?.

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fati2001(m): 8:38am On Feb 16, 2024
BigBlackPreek:
oya nau send me a direct message to the number on my signature if you mean ham lego!

Shebi dem don warned you.

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BigBlackPreek(m): 9:05am On Feb 16, 2024
fati2001:


You still want gaya abi?.
lol as I didn't see your dm again then I should conclude that you're really what they've been asserting on here. oya prove us wrong by sending me a direct message and let's start from there

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